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[phred333]

I had one give me some board shorts she brought back from a visit to Thailand once.

 

[C7Vol]

I sometimes give bras/ knickers or clothes. Often for a birthday.
One gave me a box of chocolates at Valentine's Day.

 

[RugbyMermaid]

If I were a Man will give to WL
flower $40-$50 (Supermarkets have packaged in box) or Pink gold bottle champagne ️ + gift card , Myer or David jones , honey Birdette, BrasNings , Coffee club $50-$100.

Chocolate will only choose beautiful packaging please

Send a good one, maybe very good for your impression, may bring you little benefits
Nothing for free in this world .
I know hee hee

 

[s ra]

I'm in a long term sexless relationship

You held out a long time! Maybe 5 for me, and not 100% sexless but very infrequent. The rest of the relationship is wonderful and I wouldn't leave even if there weren't other options to relieve urges.

Thankfully we communicate well and she's aware that our libidos aren't exactly aligned and is on board with me getting professional attention! The transactional nature seems unlikely to cause emotional tangles compared to trying to hook up an FWB.

 

[Obbie]

If I were a Man will give to WL
flower $40-$50 (Supermarkets have packaged in box) or Pink gold bottle champagne ️ + gift card , Myer or David jones , honey Birdette, BrasNings , Coffee club $50-$100.

Chocolate will only choose beautiful packaging please

Send a good one, maybe very good for your impression, may bring you little benefits
Nothing for free in this world .
I know hee hee

I'd like my car washed and serviced if you feel the urge Jessica

 

[DancingDollar]

of coke please

 

[No idea what to do]

I'd like my car washed and serviced if you feel the urge Jessica

Yes GR8 idea
A Naked Car wash would be a GR8 gift

The Frenchman

 

[Master Yoda]

If a new girl pops up and you’re interested book her immediately. So many times I’ve seen a girl only last for a day then disappear.

I imagine they decide it’s not the job for them. Best root of my life was from a girl who only worked one day.

Yes. I once had a 19 year old girl where I was her first and only job. We shared the best time that really did not feel like a transaction. Picked her up and went back to my place and shared a half day together with sexy fun, conversation, food, jokes, etc. told her about the industry she was getting into. We both had the best time just laying in bed naked and hanging out with intermittent and spontaneous naughty stuff.

Sadly next time I called her she said she was out of the game. I am either too grose and ugly, or the insights I gave her about the industry made her change her mind.

But yeah. Will never forget that girl.


Another 19 year old I won’t forget was when I came home and my partner at the time in an open relationship had a hot girl on the couch and wanted me to show her into the industry. So after talking about reasons of getting in and exit plans, I got to see what she was made of. And yeah was another memorable experience. A girl that’s into sex before she learns the game is the best.


Last one I will share was an AMP girl from a while back who got very famous when people on the forum still shared with each other. I got my massage. She was nervous. I was her first. I ended up not doing anything and we just cuddled. Though there was no sexy fun she was so cute and I remember that one as I enjoyed the time so much.

There must be more. But I’ll stop indulging in such memories for now

 

[Master Yoda]

You held out a long time! Maybe 5 for me, and not 100% sexless but very infrequent. The rest of the relationship is wonderful and I wouldn't leave even if there weren't other options to relieve urges.

Thankfully we communicate well and she's aware that our libidos aren't exactly aligned and is on board with me getting professional attention! The transactional nature seems unlikely to cause emotional tangles compared to trying to hook up an FWB.

That is a wonderful arrangement. And you are wise to not get personal with the help. Stay true to that rule brother. You have a good thing going with your partner

 

[Master Yoda]

Do you? or would you? give a favourite WL a gift?

Has a WL ever given you a gift? What was it?

The Frenchman

Yes and yes. Seemed wonderful. And it lead to me getting personal with a professional and so did she. This happened many times back in the day when I was a chronic punter.

Sometimes it lead to friendships that still exist today. Sometimes it lead to a broken heart. Sometimes it ended up as a relationship with a WL (a few times actually). Sometimes it lead to awful consequences. One time it lead to a divorce!!!

Don’t get personal brother.

 

[asianguy77]

Yes I'm in a long term sexless relationship (nearly 10 years no sex) - its not her fault, nor mine. For a long time I've been getting RNT but not full service because I couldn't cross that line. Recently my partner and I were talking frankly and she said she couldn't see us ever having a physical relationship again. We just left it there.
A bit after that I had sex for the first time with a WL and it was wonderful. I feel like a man again for the first time in 10 years. Now I realise I can do monogamy but not celibacy.

I'm bit confused by this. What would be physically stopping you from ever having sex with each other agains ? Seems you had a frank discussion but didn't address what perhaps was trying to understand the root cause, just acceptance as to what had already been occurring for last 10 years

 

[asianguy77]

Question around women that had undergone menopause, are we saying they no longer have any desire for sex, as pretty sure from my porn watching there are alot of cougars out there lol

 

[Casey Delicious]

Knowing what you know now after a few years (or a lifetime) of punting what would you tell your younger self if you could visit them just before their first punt?

I'd be saying things like:

If the pics are amazing and the price is low, keep looking
Walk when it's a bait and switch
Be respectful and a gentleman until invited to be otherwise
Never involve your heart, it will end badly
Reward great experiences and WL's they are gems that are hard to find
Don't punt on credit if you can avoid it
Safe sex.....always
Never park in the driveway

What would you ad to the list based on your experiences?

oh thank you so much for this i liked the 1st and last as its somthing from a indpendant working ladie side wear i do things for what works for me and my sequrity iv also had alot of fakes and issues i dont wish to put public as yet so iv had to change things to safe gaurd me from that,
I have always liked to her from the punters side just cos men are for mars woman are from venus its bussines its not dating or pleasuer thank you as always amzes me for the guys side as wear mostly thinking diffrent as punter would b fakes and being ripped of as for me its hugley saftey time wasting guys trying and pushing somthing that iv said i dont do or thers and extra charge for it

 

[mrys]

oh thank you so much for this i liked the 1st and last as its somthing from a indpendant working ladie side wear i do things for what works for me and my sequrity iv also had alot of fakes and issues i dont wish to put public as yet so iv had to change things to safe gaurd me from that,
I have always liked to her from the punters side just cos men are for mars woman are from venus its bussines its not dating or pleasuer thank you as always amzes me for the guys side as wear mostly thinking diffrent as punter would b fakes and being ripped of as for me its hugley saftey time wasting guys trying and pushing somthing that iv said i dont do or thers and extra charge for it

Men and women are very different I agree! Wouldn't it be boring if we were the same I don't want to speak for all men but I do believe we are very simple souls by comparison to women. Our needs are simple, our motivations are simple and our responses are mostly predictable. Casey Dee it seems you have a lot of concern about your personal security (which I completely understand) perhaps you would be better off (and safer) working in house with a well respected Madam? You can learn the ropes, make great money and be in a safe protected environment?

 

[The One]

On a few occasions I’ve taken flowers to a regular.

 

[Lacie4U]

I'm bit confused by this. What would be physically stopping you from ever having sex with each other agains ? Seems you had a frank discussion but didn't address what perhaps was trying to understand the root cause, just acceptance as to what had already been occurring for last 10 years

A lot of men and women in sexless relationships are in this predicament for many reasons and stay for many reasons. It’s a very complex phenomenon. Maybe it’s just easier for men to play this game where they “ feel alive and like a man” have all the perks and variety without needing to address the real issues . I think it important to not assume that women do not seek pleasure
elsewhere “to feel alive and like a woman” and that she may also be capable of “ manogomy but not celibacy” Before I get pounced on I do understand every situation has two sides . I think Asianguy77 makes a valid point .

 

[Lacie4U]

You held out a long time! Maybe 5 for me, and not 100% sexless but very infrequent. The rest of the relationship is wonderful and I wouldn't leave even if there weren't other options to relieve urges.

Thankfully we communicate well and she's aware that our libidos aren't exactly aligned and is on board with me getting professional attention! The transactional nature seems unlikely to cause emotional tangles compared to trying to hook up an FWB.

This sounds respectful and admirable . I agree keeping it transactional also . I know of several female friends doing the same and working out very well with their relationships still strong .

 

[asianguy77]

A lot of men and women in sexless relationships are in this predicament for many reasons and stay for many reasons. It’s a very complex phenomenon. Maybe it’s just easier for men to play this game where they “ feel alive and like a man” have all the perks and variety without needing to address the real issues . I think it important to not assume that women do not seek pleasure
elsewhere “to feel alive and like a woman” and that she may also be capable of “ manogomy but not celibacy” Before I get pounced on I do understand every situation has two sides . I think Asianguy77 makes a valid point .

Yes, no judgement from me. Just yet to experience it. For me the most I could compare it to is a parent child relationship, where if the parent is one that does not express love or show affection there is barrier, which is hard to breach. Both sides may want to, but it's just so hard to overcome, everyone continues the status quo.

 

[Channelle]

A couple of experiences with this.
One, gullible me knew her birthday, and even dutifully ticked off the years from 27 onwards to make number 30 very special for her.
And then put Dr Who time travelling to shame, as 2 years later she celebrated her 40th.

 

[Channelle]

And number 2 effort, buying wine and desserts for lady for Valentine's Day.
Unbeknown to me, my partner's work colleague had seen me, and he asked my partner if she'd enjoyed the gifts ...
Whoops.

 

[Luckypete 08]

I like to take chocolates which are always well received

 

[Rodo]

A couple of experiences with this.
One, gullible me knew her birthday, and even dutifully ticked off the years from 27 onwards to make number 30 very special for her.
And then put Dr Who time travelling to shame, as 2 years later she celebrated her 40th.

Been there done that, ended

 

[TantraShiva]

And number 2 effort, buying wine and desserts for lady for Valentine's Day.
Unbeknown to me, my partner's work colleague had seen me, and he asked my partner if she'd enjoyed the gifts ...
Whoops.

A late run was had after..

 

[Wooper]

Nope it’s an exchange of money for service and people should stay away from things like this as people can struggle to tell the difference between services and friendships especially after hearing things from WL and even local girls on Twitter

 

[Channelle]

A late run was had after..

Um, yes.

 

[mrys]

I still send flowers to past regulars on their birthdays. They gave me pleasure and happiness during our time together. As long term companions they got to know me and I them. I even went to one ladies wedding at her invitation. A bit awkward when your asked at dinner 'how do you know the bride'

 

[TantraShiva]

I still send flowers to past regulars on their birthdays. They gave me pleasure and happiness during our time together. As long term companions they got to know me and I them. I even went to one ladies wedding at her invitation. A bit awkward when your asked at dinner 'how do you know the bride'

 

[TantraShiva]

I know her very well!

 

[RugbyMermaid]

one night stand

 

[No idea what to do]

Some GR8 responses in this thread.
FYI, I usually take the Favourite chocolate prior to period time and have also given gift voucher's to my Favourite from places like city beach and
honey bridget


I find that way she can choose a nice outfit for work or her own social outings
She appreciates them and sometimes goes the extra mile for me.

The Frenchman