Women not interested in sex.

[johnmatilda]

It does if you are in a monogamous relationship and the partner is unaware. If it's an open relationship there is no cheating.

Women, and by extension wives, always say that men are only interested in one thing - sex. So if a man isn't getting it from his wife, despite repeatedly raising the issue with her, where does she think he is getting it from? Or is ignorance bliss?

 

[hd1200]

My missus is fully on the menopause train and being stubborn and independent (until something needs doing she doesn't want to do) she won't take any medical advice or drugs ... I have tried multiple times and just get shot down and rejected in both sex and trying to get help... there is only so much you can take before you find affection elsewhere... I still love her and won't do anything to change that so it's careful as it goes so that nothing gets home...

Welcome to the club mate! You are not alone. Your words could just as well describe my situation….

 

[hd1200]

Women, and by extension wives, always say that men are only interested in one thing - sex. So if a man isn't getting it from his wife, despite repeatedly raising the issue with her, where does she think he is getting it from? Or is ignorance bliss?

Which raisess the question; If men married only for sex, what do wonen marry for?? Financial security ?? If so what is so different in a WL??

 

[hd1200]

A smart man never marries and he does not have kids.
He spends more money on brothels and buys a sports car.

Until he reaches the end of his active life when loneliness, depression and self~loathing kicks in - the result of personal choices, based purely on self-interest.

 

[johnmatilda]

Until he reaches the end of his active life when loneliness, depression and self~loathing kicks in - the result of personal choices, based purely on self-interest.

Solution is to increase visits to WLs and brothels! Better than slaving away for most of his life then losing half of everything he has worked for. That, IMHO, is more depressing. I've seen blokes going through this and it even makes me depressed. One bloke had his wife cheat on him, they divorced, he lost his house (she contributed zero), she got another guy who is now living in his house.

So indeed:
A smart man never marries and he does not have kids.
He spends more money on brothels and buys a sports car.

 

[Goodstuff36 Bon truc in french]

Solution is to increase visits to WLs and brothels! Better than slaving away for most of his life then losing half of everything he has worked for. That, IMHO, is more depressing. I've seen blokes going through this and it even makes me depressed. One bloke had his wife cheat on him, they divorced, he lost his house (she contributed zero), she got another guy who is now living in his house.

So indeed:
A smart man never marries and he does not have kids.
He spends more money on brothels and buys a sports car.

Once a king always a king once a night you are doing alright.

 

[hd1200]

Solution is to increase visits to WLs and brothels! Better than slaving away for most of his life then losing half of everything he has worked for. That, IMHO, is more depressing. I've seen blokes going through this and it even makes me depressed. One bloke had his wife cheat on him, they divorced, he lost his house (she contributed zero), she got another guy who is now living in his house.

So indeed:
A smart man never marries and he does not have kids.
He spends more money on brothels and buys a sports car.

I can’t disagree on many points mentioned, and in fact have had a friend go through the very same experience!
Just my 2c worth!

 

[hd1200]

It’s far too common with women, ( and its not all women), losing their sex drive and men increasingly suffering with ED!!!
Who gains from this situation …
Big Pharma….The legal drug dealers who under medical prescription pump our bodies full of crap for a profit!

 

[Goodstuff36 Bon truc in french]

It’s far too common with women, ( and its not all women), losing their sex drive and men increasingly suffering with ED!!!
Who gains from this situation …
Big Pharma….The legal drug dealers who under medical prescription pump our bodies full of crap for a profit!

Like Mrs langtrees suggested drink lots of water.
That's right drink lots of fluids away from home surveys have shown that some suburbs men and women have sexual Disfunction because of something in the water or that coffee at the regular coffee shop believe it or not.

 

[Aussie_Deano]

Interesting subject but 40s isn't necessarily true for everyone
I recently had an organic (and orgasmic)
experience with a lady in her early 60s
Let me tell you that was one sexy steamy squirty session

 

[hd1200]

You rock Aussie_Deano.
If I were in your shoes I would keep in touch with her by every means possible!
She’s a treasure.
And I bet she appreciated the time with you as much as you did with her?

 

[Aussie_Deano]

Mate absolutely
She scrubbed up alright too
We were passing through a country town in Vic, flooding made roads ahead impassable and traffic was advised to either turn around or get an room at the road house
More like dongas really, but we just hit it off straight away when the door on the donga room next to mine (hers) wouldn't close properly and it was freezing
I couldn't get it shut so I offered to swap
Well shivalry was alive and well and rewarded handsomely that eve!
It rained inside and out all night needless to say she just slept in mine we had a great time and In the morn we would go separate ways and never see ea other again!
Rowena I think her name was hmm often think of that night how dirty and used for sex I felt hehe
I've always liked older women

 

[Aussie_Deano]

Mate absolutely
She scrubbed up alright too
We were passing through a country town in Vic, flooding made roads ahead impassable and traffic was advised to either turn around or get an room at the road house
More like dongas really, but we just hit it off straight away when the door on the donga room next to mine (hers) wouldn't close properly and it was freezing
I couldn't get it shut so I offered to swap
Well shivalry was alive and well and rewarded handsomely that eve!
It rained inside and out all night needless to say she just slept in mine we had a great time and In the morn we would go separate ways and never see ea other again!
Rowena I think her name was hmm often think of that night how dirty and used for sex I felt hehe
I've always liked older women

I actually got carried away telling the story I forgot reply to that re keeping in touch
If I'm honest I'd say she may have been married because I swore I saw a ring on when I first offered the swap of dongas
And I remember her saying when I asked her name, with a wry little smile "let's not complicate things" She told me as I opened the car door for her next morn
So the whole night she only knew my name! The whole vibe was no need to ask for her number

 

[Aussie_Deano]

I actually got carried away telling the story I forgot reply to that re keeping in touch
If I'm honest I'd say she may have been married because I swore I saw a ring on when I first offered the swap of dongas
And I remember her saying when I asked her name, with a wry little smile "let's not complicate things" She told me as I opened the car door for her next morn
So the whole night she only knew my name! The whole vibe was no need to ask for her number

So remember gents shivalry goes a long way

 

[Aussie_Deano]

So remember gents shivalry goes a long way

Reply

 

[DHFH]

I actually got carried away telling the story I forgot reply to that re keeping in touch
If I'm honest I'd say she may have been married because I swore I saw a ring on when I first offered the swap of dongas
And I remember her saying when I asked her name, with a wry little smile "let's not complicate things" She told me as I opened the car door for her next morn
So the whole night she only knew my name! The whole vibe was no need to ask for her number

Reminds me of the lyrics from that Heart song “Only Want To Make Love To You”… maybe you had better hope that it doesn’t end along the same lines of the lyrics that go … “well it happened one day….” .

Good stuff either way.

 

[Jryall]

My wife is still very interested in sex, unfortunately it’s me. Possibly down to depression though

If you have treatment resistant depression you should apply for psilocybin therapy (magic mushrooms in a clinical setting). Extremely effective, no side effects and gets you off the big pharma gravy train. Anti-depressants are a money spinner and so often lead to libido loss.

 

[hd1200]

I am all for kicking Big Pharma butt where ever you can!!!!

 

[hd1200]

Dammit , so sorry to hear that indie ..

Welcome to the club! We could start a political movement! I agree with Stovo- abdolutely…. no guilt on this end!

 

[Valvoline]

If you have treatment resistant depression you should apply for psilocybin therapy (magic mushrooms in a clinical setting). Extremely effective, no side effects and gets you off the big pharma gravy train. Anti-depressants are a money spinner and so often lead to libido loss.

prohibitively expensive as you pay thousands for a supervisory experience with psychs. mdma/ecstacy is also being trialled.

some cannabis can help with euphoria and sex drive.

 

[hd1200]

It depend on the man how he provides, women are always interested in sex,

What a load of BS!! No disrespect intended-If women were always interested in sex, there would be no reason for this site to exist and WLs would be out of business!

 

[johnmatilda]

What a load of BS!! No disrespect intended-If women were always interested in sex, there would be no reason for this site to exist and WLs would be out of business!

I agree. I don't understand why many if not most women can't admit that their desire for sex is much less compared to men. Perhaps they are seeking equality in this regard too. If women were interested in sex as much as men, there would be female punters too and men would be laughing all the way to under their mattress with all the tax free income they would be earning.

 

[Chief]

What a load of BS!! No disrespect intended-If women were always interested in sex, there would be no reason for this site to exist and WLs would be out of business!

Observing the many posts I would say many sexualities read and contribute to TS.
I know there are many women who partake. The trans section is most active.
I always find most women insatiable for sex,once aroused watch out!

 

[jerry hattrick]

At a dinner party for middle aged couples, a wife complains loudly how useless her husband is in bed.
But, the other wife's there disagree most strongly!!!!!!

 

[johnmatilda]

I always find most women insatiable for sex,once aroused watch out!

That's the thing. You have to seduce them first. When it comes to men, we are ready to go. If a hot girl walks up to a guy in the street and says let's go to my room, 8 out of 10 guys will say "yeah!". The other 2 will say no because they think they will wake up without a kidney in a bath tub full of ice.

If a hot guy walks up to a girl in the street and says let's go to my room, 8 out of 10 girls will say "creep" and call the cops him. The other 2 may give him their numbers because he is good looking or they noticed he exited from a Bugatti Veyron.

I was once with a woman who told me that if I wanted sex more than once in 3 months, I would have to seduce and "treat her like she is special". It was apparent that she wasn't interested in sex out of her own volition and she put the onus on me to instigate intimacy. I thought about what she said and I realised there was nothing special about her and that she was subconsciously (or not) putting up a high wall for me to climb over and I wasn't going to get my needs met by her so I bailed. Time has since caught up with her and she is still in the unhappy rut that she was in back then when I left. She had texted me a few times after I bailed hoping to get back together but I know my worth and didn't fan those dying embers.

 

[johnmatilda]

At a dinner party for middle aged couples, a wife complains loudly how useless her husband is in bed.
But, the other wife's there disagree most strongly!!!!!!

Classic case of not appreciating that your pasture is already green enough.

 

[hd1200]

That's the thing. You have to seduce them first. When it comes to men, we are ready to go. If a hot girl walks up to a guy in the street and says let's go to my room, 8 out of 10 guys will say "yeah!". The other 2 will say no because they think they will wake up without a kidney in a bath tub full of ice.

If a hot guy walks up to a girl in the street and says let's go to my room, 8 out of 10 girls will say "creep" and call the cops him. The other 2 may give him their numbers because he is good looking or they noticed he exited from a Bugatti Veyron.

I was once with a woman who told me that if I wanted sex more than once in 3 months, I would have to seduce and "treat her like she is special". It was apparent that she wasn't interested in sex out of her own volition and she put the onus on me to instigate intimacy. I thought about what she said and I realised there was nothing special about her and that she was subconsciously (or not) putting up a high wall for me to climb over and I wasn't going to get my needs met by her so I bailed. Time has since caught up with her and she is still in the unhappy rut that she was in back then when I left. She had texted me a few times after I bailed hoping to get back together but I know my worth and didn't fan those dying embers.

Very smart man! They make themselves too precious- and when they realise the imagined standards are too high, they end up lonely bitter individuals.

 

[hd1200]

I agree. I don't understand why many if not most women can't admit that their desire for sex is much less compared to men. Perhaps they are seeking equality in this regard too. If women were interested in sex as much as men, there would be female punters too and men would be laughing all the way to under their mattress with all the tax free income they would be earning.

Interesting point John… I am keen to read objections or contra-arguments to your post.

 

[johnmatilda]

Interesting point John… I am keen to read objections or contra-arguments to your post.

Me too, especially from women in general. WLs would be an exception in my opinion as it is an established fact that they enjoy sex more than the average woman and hence have turned it into an income.

There was a scientific study done on this very topic years ago. Study was conducted by a man. His new assistant or something said that he was biased and that men and women both have the same desire for sex. She said his research was flawed. He said OK, let's do it again. Outcome was the same and she had to eat humble pie. Wish I could find that specific article.

 

[hd1200]

Me too, especially from women in general. WLs would be an exception in my opinion as it is an established fact that they enjoy sex more than the average woman and hence have turned it into an income.

There was a scientific study done on this very topic years ago. Study was conducted by a man. His new assistant or something said that he was biased and that men and women both have the same desire for sex. She said his research was flawed. He said OK, let's do it again. Outcome was the same and she had to eat humble pie. Wish I could find that specific article.

i would like to have a read of that myself.