Women not interested in sex.

[Dood Deleted 66783]

Many women go off sex after menopause

 

[johnmatilda]

i would like to have a read of that myself.

Tried looking for that article but couldn't find it...yet.

However, in my search, I also came across the following:

Do men want sex more than women?

The driving force behind the sex strike

unherd.com

 

[hd1200]

Tried looking for that article but couldn't find it...yet.

However, in my search, I also came across the following:

Do men want sex more than women?

The driving force behind the sex strike

unherd.com

Some people will argue against the scientific data- or become defensive….
I say bring it on.. a good debate can only educate us all - and hopefully contributr to making things better for most of us.

It seems like hormone therapy is the way to go? I would like to hear a woman’s perspective though…..

 

[LZZ]

What a load of BS!! No disrespect intended-If women were always interested in sex, there would be no reason for this site to exist and WLs would be out of business!

It is so amusing to see men talking on this topic. I am curious why men always want to fuck. Is it because you guys cum easily (my observation)?

 

[johnmatilda]

It is so amusing to see men talking on this topic. I am curious why men always want to fuck. Is it because you guys cum easily (my observation)?

Because we are always horny. Why? To ensure survival of our species. It's how we were created/evolved.

Also, we have a balloon between our legs and 2 in our scrotum that need constant deflating.

 

[joe12155]

Because we are always horny. Why? To ensure survival of our species. It's how we were created/evolved.

Also, we have a balloon between our legs and 2 in our scrotum that need constant deflating.

You are right. Survival of our species. We produce millions of sperm and every time we ejaculate in a woman's love tunnel the strongest sperm will reach the egg to fertilize it and the rest will go to waste. That's why men always want to fuck.

 

[Valvoline]

does the a Madonna-whore complex affect both men and women?

 

[Dood Deleted 66783]

does the a Madonna-whore complex affect both men and women?

Dunno. Ask Madonna.

 

[hd1200]

It is so amusing to see men talking on this topic. I am curious why men always want to fuck. Is it because you guys cum easily (my observation)?

Not nearly as amusing when you are a husband or male long term partner trying to cope with the complications of menopause and sexual deprivation, often comorbid with other undiagnosed, personality or health disorders.
Now, hypothetically, if it was a woman on the receiving end… would that be classified as spouse abuse ??
And contrary to most female points of view articulated here, and other forums - the men complain because they genuinely love their wives!!
They would not need to complain if they simply F%#%D off and got it ejsewhere now,wouid they!?!!!!
Probably get myself banned!

 

[hd1200]

Because we are always horny. Why? To ensure survival of our species. It's how we were created/evolved.

Also, we have a balloon between our legs and 2 in our scrotum that need constant deflating.

Yes! That is a biological fact whether accepted or not, unfortunately the naive or immature prefer avoiding reality and smirk and languish in the “power of the P%#*Y’ syndrome. Until their bubble bursts and reality hits..
Then their anger is redirected at the “BITCH” or slut who took their man!
Never do they say: ‘I deserve losing what I had - I am partly responsible, for witholding a basic need and what was once referred to as a conjugal right!!

 

[Be Nice]

Yes! That is a biological fact whether accepted or not, unfortunately the naive or immature prefer avoiding reality and smirk and languish in the “power of the P%#*Y’ syndrome. Until their bubble bursts and reality hits..
Then their anger is redirected at the “BITCH” or slut who took their man!
Never do they say: ‘I deserve losing what I had - I am partly responsible, for witholding a basic need and what was once referred to as a conjugal right!!

I detect a slight bit of bitterness in your posts?



I feel for you brother, a lot of us have been in the exact same position.

 

[voyuerism]

Not nearly as amusing when you are a husband or male long term partner trying to cope with the complications of menopause and sexual deprivation, often comorbid with other undiagnosed, personality or health disorders.
Now, hypothetically, if it was a woman on the receiving end… would that be classified as spouse abuse ??
And contrary to most female points of view articulated here, and other forums - the men complain because they genuinely love their wives!!
They would not need to complain if they simply F%#%D off and got it ejsewhere now,wouid they!?!!!!
Probably get myself banned!

Gr8 rebuttal hd .. TY

 

[voyuerism]

I detect a slight bit of bitterness in your posts?



I feel for you brother, a lot of us have been in the exact same position.

Is your bitterness towards yourself BeNice ?? probably , as I dont see bitterness in hd1200 'love their wives'.

 

[LZZ]

Not nearly as amusing when you are a husband or male long term partner trying to cope with the complications of menopause and sexual deprivation, often comorbid with other undiagnosed, personality or health disorders.
Now, hypothetically, if it was a woman on the receiving end… would that be classified as spouse abuse ??
And contrary to most female points of view articulated here, and other forums - the men complain because they genuinely love their wives!!
They would not need to complain if they simply F%#%D off and got it ejsewhere now,wouid they!?!!!!
Probably get myself banned!

Good to know. I thought all men just like to fuck different girls whenever opportunities come up, even though they may already have a good sex life with their partner. At least from your responds, from a female's perspective, we can still believe there must be some nice responsible men out there, although the quantity would be small. Otherwise why would we stick to one man, we should fuck around like men !!!

 

[LZZ]

As a woman, sometimes it’s really hard to read some of these negative comments. Do men ever consider why their women lose interest? Many talk about ‘fat older women’ who are no longer horney and not interested in sex. Ever wonder why? My partner is at least 25kg bigger than when I met him. And nowhere near as sexy.
How do these judgey men compare to how THEY looked when they got together with their wives? Are they still sexy, or are they now “fat older men”
Just saying. Are they still as attentive, romantic, loving, or are they too busy watching footy, scratching their balls, and not helping around the house etc.
And how would they feel if their wives were regularly seeing men at massage parlours because they were so dissatisfied with how their relationship was at, and how they looked?
Again, just saying.
Funny thing is that despite seeing WL’s because their wives dissatisfy them so much, they are generally all so shit scared of being caught out and the women ending things with them. To the point of not punting as they have to check in now.
So are their women so bad after all???
Just had to put that all out there.

Completely with you here. Men have to 'pay' for a service and then men think that those women are so sexy, lovely obedient and nice especially compare to their wives. But have them thought of this, If they stop paying, they will be kicked out like dogs.

 

[voyuerism]

Punting is not cheating. Using sex workers does not count as cheating.

In the same way that going to KFC or MACCAS is not buying food ...

 

[chocy]

Completely with you here. Men have to 'pay' for a service and then men think that those women are so sexy, lovely obedient and nice especially compare to their wives. But have them thought of this, If they stop paying, they will be kicked out like dogs.

If u Lie down with dogs you get fleas love.

 

[johnmatilda]

Completely with you here. Men have to 'pay' for a service and then men think that those women are so sexy, lovely obedient and nice especially compare to their wives. But have them thought of this, If they stop paying, they will be kicked out like dogs.

No, we don't think that at all. It's purely transactional and we know the more we pay, the better the service. However, compared to wives, we get better service/sex for our money. Why? Because we men pay most if not all the bills, fix stuff around the house and take care of things as we have done for thousands of years i.e. being a traditional man yet women complain that men don't do enough. Women want traditional men but women are not traditional themselves.

And yes, we know that if we don't pay for the WL service, we will be kicked out. Like I said, it's transactional and we men know it. We're not looking for love, we're looking to get laid.

 

[hd1200]

Good to know. I thought all men just like to fuck different girls whenever opportunities come up, even though they may already have a good sex life with their partner. At least from your responds, from a female's perspective, we can still believe there must be some nice responsible men out there, although the quantity would be small. Otherwise why would we stick to one man, we should fuck around like men !!!

Whats good for the goose is good for the gander! If a man can fuck around, why shouldn’t a woman? I am all for equality! But no domination or control of the other unless its a consentual sexual “fun” domination!

 

[hd1200]

Good to know. I thought all men just like to fuck different girls whenever opportunities come up, even though they may already have a good sex life with their partner. At least from your responds, from a female's perspective, we can still believe there must be some nice responsible men out there, although the quantity would be small. Otherwise why would we stick to one man, we should fuck around like men !!!

All respect to you LZZ! If we communicate and learn we help each other become better people!

 

[johnmatilda]

I thought all men just like to fuck different girls whenever opportunities come up

I won't say no if the opportunity arose. I can't eat fried rice every day. I need variety!

 

[johnmatilda]

even though they may already have a good sex life with their partner

I don't know any man who has a good sex life with his partner, at least not long term, and gets his needs met by said partner. If one woman met all her man's needs, there would be fewer punters, fewer and poorer WLs in this world!

 

[johnmatilda]

If a man can fuck around, why shouldn’t a woman? I am all for equality!

Hear hear! The more women who want to fuck around, the better for us punters ey?

 

[Master Yoda]

Validation and genuine care and conversation to a woman is like sex to a man.

Not talking to a woman for a month is like not giving sex to a man.

In both cases, if they are not getting it at home they will get it elsewhere.

 

[johnmatilda]

Validation and genuine care and conversation to a woman is like sex to a man.

Not talking to a woman for a month is like not giving sex to a man.

In both cases, if they are not getting it at home they will get it elsewhere.

A man's MEAT you mean?

M: money
E: energy
A: attention
T: time

 

[chocy]

Stop overthinking it..
Who cares!

 

[hd1200]

Completely with you here. Men have to 'pay' for a service and then men think that those women are so sexy, lovely obedient and nice especially compare to their wives. But have them thought of this, If they stop paying, they will be kicked out like dogs.

It’s like comparing apples to kiwi fruit!

With WLs you generally get what you pay for whether its obedience, slutty love or lust - or just a dirty weekend (if you have the finances). Include fleas if you are unlucky!

With a long term relationship, or marriage you are bound (should i say, some of us … are bound) morally, ethically and with a sense of responsibility to family.
We still pay.. the mortgage, the bills, food etc… and dont get our physical needs met.
But we are expected to be satisfied with what we get, because a woman can show her love in so called, “other ways” such as keeping a home??
A live in maid could do that!!!

The whole point of the exercise is that the home was the original “love nest” in my opinion, others may differ.
Where children are conceived and raised. When they (children) leave the nest, the couple should be free to roam the house naked, fuck whenever they please or just lounge around in the pleasure of being in each other’s company. Or invite other consenting adults if they are inclined.

Instead, their love evolves into a brother and sister relationship, which is as good as shaking hands before they go to bed at night.
The man is supposed to suddenly evolve into a celibate monk!
And when he strays- to fulfil a basic need - he is condemned!
Some women might need a reality check.
Those who judge WLs, might think again when they realise:
1) WLs are probably saving their marriage.
2) Most working ladies need to build a clientele- so taking money and not delivering the goods is not in their interest.
But some women in long term relationships are doing just that on a daily basis… and get away with it!!!!

 

[LZZ]

mmm, sounds like men pay for everything and being nice, but not get well cheated by their wives, but is it the truth? All wives don't have a job and not contribute to the house ?

No, we don't think that at all. It's purely transactional and we know the more we pay, the better the service. However, compared to wives, we get better service/sex for our money. Why? Because we men pay most if not all the bills, fix stuff around the house and take care of things as we have done for thousands of years i.e. being a traditional man yet women complain that men don't do enough. Women want traditional men but women are not traditional themselves.

And yes, we know that if we don't pay for the WL service, we will be kicked out. Like I said, it's transactional and we men know it. We're not looking for love, we're looking to get laid.

If this is the case, why not get divorced and then you have the freedom to pay to see different ladies. In this way you are not bound and you get what you want. I think it would be better for your wife as well.

 

[LZZ]

Validation and genuine care and conversation to a woman is like sex to a man.

Not talking to a woman for a month is like not giving sex to a man.

In both cases, if they are not getting it at home they will get it elsewhere.

While men argue that they don't get good sex at home, they never stop to think if they listen to their wife and be a good husband. You can't get what you want if you don't provide what others need.

 

[johnmatilda]

It’s like comparing apples to kiwi fruit!

With WLs you generally get what you pay for whether its obedience, slutty love or lust - or just a dirty weekend (if you have the finances). Include fleas if you are unlucky!

With a long term relationship, or marriage you are bound (should i say, some of us … are bound) morally, ethically and with a sense of responsibility to family.
We still pay.. the mortgage, the bills, food etc… and dont get our physical needs met.
But we are expected to be satisfied with what we get, because a woman can show her love in so called, “other ways” such as keeping a home??
A live in maid could do that!!!

The whole point of the exercise is that the home was the original “love nest” in my opinion, others may differ.
Where children are conceived and raised. When they (children) leave the nest, the couple should be free to roam the house naked, fuck whenever they please or just lounge around in the pleasure of being in each other’s company. Or invite other consenting adults if they are inclined.

Instead, their love evolves into a brother and sister relationship, which is as good as shaking hands before they go to bed at night.
The man is supposed to suddenly evolve into a celibate monk!
And when he strays- to fulfil a basic need - he is condemned!
Some women might need a reality check.
Those who judge WLs, might think again when they realise:
1) WLs are probably saving their marriage.
2) Most working ladies need to build a clientele- so taking money and not delivering the goods is not in their interest.
But some women in long term relationships are doing just that on a daily basis… and get away with it!!!!

Nailed it.