Women not interested in sex.

[ThaiGoodTimes]

Yes, Lovegra/female kamagra really does work too.
But only if they're interested.
It helps the blood flow around the genital areas when libido and arousal has occurred.

Sadly, its not a magic mood changer tho...

www.kamagraoioioi.com stocks it... lol

 

[HookPsy]

Can't sleep by myself, even when I go away for a business reason, so I take the Fav WL with me,
Or find a new one in another City for the night

It must cost alot to take a WL with you or hire one for over night. 3000+ at least for 1 night. Few nights would be in the 10Ks? Unless you know that WL well and she doesn't mind tagging along for free.

 

[No idea what to do]

I pay and we play, Yes sometimes expensive but I enjoy her company,
Say's she enjoys mine, Maybe just a good actress

The Frenchman

 

[Angela "R"]

Old fat lazy women are not interested in sex.
Fit thin women are more into sex.

It depend on the man how he provides, women are always interested in sex,

 

[Deleted member 49173]

It depend on the man how he provides, women are always interested in sex,

Incorrect.

 

[No idea what to do]

It depend on the man how he provides, women are always interested in sex,

I will point this out to Wifey

The Frenchman

 

[JezzaJ]

After a string of relationships, flings, FB, FWB, etc. I can safely say I have fucked up so much I gained a tool chest of how to deal with a woman. Or more accurately, how not to.

Post the Yoda lifestyle I am 7 years into a relationship that has been exclusive I have maintained a more than satisfactory level of sexual lifestyle. Is it perfect or like when we first met? No. But am I still getting a blowjob everyday? Yes .

I found that rather than pointing the finger at my partner, I ask what I am doing or what I am not doing. So far so good. And those who know me know I am no spring chicken and hardly look like Tom Cruise. But I do put in an effort for her sake and stay in shape.

Will it always be like this? I don’t know. I will cross that bridge when I come to it.

Future ain’t here yet and the past is gone. I can only give my best now and I may get what I want by default.

May the Force Be With You.

Master Yoda, I want to know what is perfect if getting a blow job once a day is a step down from that?

 

[Master Yoda]

Master Yoda, I want to know what is perfect if getting a blow job once a day is a step down from that?

Perfection would be a lifetime shared with the love of my life with the excitement and rush of the day we spent on the day that led to the first night we made love.

I have seen this in a couple I know well that have 4 kids over 24 years and cannot keep their hands off each other.

Things are good in my life. But I miss those days

 

[Saggynutz]

As a woman, sometimes it’s really hard to read some of these negative comments.

Well to be fair, there are plenty of "Men are all bastards..." conversations on the web.
I expect on this forum is a self selecting group, of mostly men some of whom are dissatisfied with their lack of sex at home.

I'm not disagreeing with you, but perhaps you shouldn't take it personally.

 

[eightdates]

I'm not so sure that 40 has anything to do with it really .. they possibly never did enjoy it per se` ??
Plenty of 40+ ladies still horney AF

Is there a dating app with this specific category ?

 

[Katrina Kiss]

Seems like I keep running into women, over 40, that I wouldn't mind dating, but they are no longer interested in sex or any form of physical contact. Most be me.

I am over 40. I I would go grazy without sex. Sex releases seriton, a chemical which makes you feel happy. The same chemical antidepressants release. Plus, it is good for heart health. Like most things use it or loose it. Sex is one off the best pleasure in the world. ❤

 

[DeletedUser]

An interesting thread! Thought provoking came to mind.
like most guys in here have owned up, I too would put myself in the boat of men that probably let it slip, (body and comfort) and probably thinking, oh it’s going to be on tap etc etc.
wrong!! You’ve still gotta work a relationship everyday! When it’s good it’s great, when it’s bad it’s, don’t even think about it.
Im not blaming anyone but myself, and went on the depression slide. Gained weight, (got comfortable factor) then got angry with myself for falling like I did.
Men can’t just blame their partner for lack of interest, we’ve gotta look in the mirror and think and understand the WHY first, then act.
im guilty as anyone!

 

[Luckypete 08]

Depression is a big problem, when you get medical advice and go on medication that affects your sex drive. Then you you come off the medication and put up with the Depression but your sexual interest has disappeared.
Well that's my story would like anyone's views.

had to take Zoloft for anxiety a few years ago and it completely shut down my sex drive.

 

[Luckypete 08]

I am over 40. I I would go grazy without sex. Sex releases seriton, a chemical which makes you feel happy. The same chemical antidepressants release. Plus, it is good for heart health. Like most things use it or loose it. Sex is one off the best pleasure in the world. ❤

Agree!

 

[georgo]

had to take Zoloft for anxiety a few years ago and it completely shut down my sex drive.

Same here zoloft certainly stuffs up your desire for sex. Came off Zoloft after several years my decision but the medication had done it's damage.

 

[Luckypete 08]

Same here zoloft certainly stuffs up your desire for sex. Came off Zoloft after several years my decision but the medication had done it's damage.

Yep i certainly know where you're coming from and i went on it then off and back on it but when on it nothing worked ....just a lifeless sex life

 

[Jake Phillips]

As a woman, sometimes it’s really hard to read some of these negative comments. Do men ever consider why their women lose interest? Many talk about ‘fat older women’ who are no longer horney and not interested in sex. Ever wonder why? My partner is at least 25kg bigger than when I met him. And nowhere near as sexy.
How do these judgey men compare to how THEY looked when they got together with their wives? Are they still sexy, or are they now “fat older men”
Just saying. Are they still as attentive, romantic, loving, or are they too busy watching footy, scratching their balls, and not helping around the house etc.
And how would they feel if their wives were regularly seeing men at massage parlours because they were so dissatisfied with how their relationship was at, and how they looked?
Again, just saying.
Funny thing is that despite seeing WL’s because their wives dissatisfy them so much, they are generally all so shit scared of being caught out and the women ending things with them. To the point of not punting as they have to check in now.
So are their women so bad after all???
Just had to put that all out there.

Hi Gemma, interesting post & yes you're spot on, alot of guys Don't look in the mirror while calling their wife fat as most middle age Aussie blokes are obese. However there are exceptions, some guys are fit, treat their wife with respect, do more than their fair share of housework, do their best to make her feel attractive, suggest therapy & still get shot down. Repeatedly. Kick a dog enough, he may have to find food elsewhere

 

[Jake Phillips]

Of course she makes you feel like the King of Uganda. You PAID her too. She didn’t seek you out because she thought you were actually the King, she just needs to pay her bills.
The wives and girlfriends aren’t paid are they……maybe they are not treated well enough to actually want to be intimate. Men can just have sex with no emotional attachment. Women like to feel special, and close. They don’t just want ‘a root’, after their own long day at work, then spent and hour cooking a nice meal after hanging out the washing. Or perhaps their lack of interest is that you are just really crap at it! Why would they initiate anything if it was rubbish?! Think about that. If it made her feel good why would she avoid it?
Just saying. If all the men in the world were kind, didn’t get bald and fat and ignore some personal hygiene skills, took time to be a bit more caring, help more around the house etc, WL’s would not get much work at all.
Look at some of the men around you in the places you visit…..would you want to have one of the lying on top of you?
Again, just saying.

Hi Gemma, nice comments & love a good debate, if the man has to make her feel special, arrange date nights, clean the house, hit the gym,cook dinner, earn a good living just so he could potentially get sex. Does this not sound a little one sided to you?
Cheers, Jake

 

[Saggynutz]

Is there a dating app with this specific category ?

My neighbour is in his 50's and has found a few 40+ women who still enjoy sex.
Plenty out there I am sure.

 

[eightdates]

My neighbour is in his 50's and has found a few 40+ women who still enjoy sex.
Plenty out there I am sure.

I'm sure they are out there and god bless them. Most women in their 40+ I observe over time tend to see sex as a chore, not something they enjoy. Perhaps its a generational thing where it was not something women shouldn't be exploring/enjoying ?

 

[Master Yoda]

I'm sure they are out there and god bless them. Most women in their 40+ I observe over time tend to see sex as a chore, not something they enjoy. Perhaps its a generational thing where it was not something women shouldn't be exploring/enjoying ?

They are out there. I have at times had to be polite as I belong to my girl now.

Plenty of lovely women out there.

You know I know of a couple who separated recentlay in their 60s that separated because the woman wanted sex and the gentleman did not.

That’s a little different

 

[Katrina Kiss]

A smart man never marries and he does not have kids.
He spends more money on brothels and buys a sports car.

Don't you want someone to snuggle with on a cold winter night? There is nothing better.

A smart man never marries and he does not have kids.
He spends more money on brothels and buys a sports car.

DONT

 

[Master Yoda]

Don't you want someone to snuggle with on a cold winter night? There is nothing better.

DONT

Yeah I had my wild days and many know about it. But someone to come home to is the best

 

[Katrina Kiss]

My wife is still very interested in sex, unfortunately it’s me. Possibly down to depression though

Sex is proven to help with de

Same here with the medication side off things, especially the last couple did the lack of sex drive

Sex is proven to help depression.
As it realised

Yeah I had my wild days and many know about it. But someone to come home to is the best

Lucky I have my dog great company for people who live on there own. Always give you so much

 

[Katrina Kiss]

I pay and we play, Yes sometimes expensive but I enjoy her company,
Say's she enjoys mine, Maybe just a good actress

The Frenchman

Old fat lazy women are not interested in sex.
Fit thin women are more into sex.

Definitely not correct. Alot of factor's come into why people lose their sex drive. I will do a post about later on. Slim fit females keep have less of a sex drive than the unfit females. This is a fact.
I know from females I have meet through out my life.

 

[Plumage]

There is research that suggests there is no link between excess body weight and desire, arousal, lubrication, orgasm, satisfaction, or painful sex in women. (There are some exceptions, namely: "women with gestational diabetes, polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS), pelvic organ prolapse or urinary incontinence".)

Effect of Body Weight on Sexual Function in Men and Women - PMC

Obesity is a growing problem worldwide. This review aims to summarize the literature on the effects of weight on sexual function in both men and women from the past 5 years. In recent population-based studies of men and women, no relationship ...

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

 

[Saggynutz]

I'm sure they are out there and god bless them. Most women in their 40+ I observe over time tend to see sex as a chore, not something they enjoy. Perhaps its a generational thing where it was not something women shouldn't be exploring/enjoying ?

I would suggest it more boredom with having the same partner and doing the same thing. Why do most guys see multiple WLs? It's often "the grass is greener" syndrome. They will go after what's visually appealing, since they all make a lot of promises.
We all have a picture of the great time we will have before we get there.

I've had a lot of good times with very plain WLs who show some level of enthusiasm and crap times with the good looking ones who starfish and do the bare minimum.

Like most things in life, if you feel obliged to do something, it's a chore but if you want to do it, it's a pleasure. Plus I think into your 40's you have a lot of emotional baggage associated with sex and relationships which carries over to new partners.

 

[stovo82]

My ideal woman is short with a dress size of 6 or 8. This heavily limits my number of matches. I just like the look of the short petite ladies and would be fine if sex rarely or never happened. I understand body shape has no effect upon a woman's sexual desire.

 

[indie2003uk]

Sex is proven to help with de

Sex is proven to help depression.
As it realised

Lucky I have my dog great company for people who live on there own. Always give you so much ❤

Yeah have tried didn’t work, tried kinks as well but no luck there and now even less interested

 

[AlwaysUp]

My ideal woman is short with a dress size of 6 or 8. This heavily limits my number of matches. I just like the look of the short petite ladies and would be fine if sex rarely or never happened. I understand body shape has no effect upon a woman's sexual desire.

My ideal woman charges by the hour. Period.