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Women not interested in sex.

Rodo

Rodo

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DeuceCoupe32 said:
Seems like I keep running into women, over 40, that I wouldn't mind dating, but they are no longer interested in sex or any form of physical contact. Most be me.
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Nuhhhhh seems to becoming the norm, had a GF who was HOT, wanted cock, then just turned off fuck it
 
stovo82

stovo82

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Online forums are full of angry, frustrated guys that can not get laid because we are too ugly, too short, or various reasons we can not get laid.

Women have rejected us loser guys and we have had to endure sad lives of loneliness. We have the right to be angry, bitter and frustrated and there is nothing we can do about it.
 
John Smithl

John Smithl

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No idea what to do said:
Enjoy sleeping with a women each night,
I need a really horny Lady that loves to suck and f**k

Any Ideas?
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Yep, that's understandable, yet don't need to be married to be with someone. Sleepovers with FWBs could be ok.
How have you survived financially with all of the divorces? Pre-nups?
 
John Smithl

John Smithl

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No idea what to do said:
Pay-outs that hurt
No Pre-nups,
Finances are still OK
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Glad to hear that things are still ok finance wise, the Frenchman; and that you're living the dream👍🇫🇷

I can certainly relate to the pain of divorce, particularly if kidlings are involved, and gotten used to being in a bed by myself.
 
No idea what to do

No idea what to do

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John Smithl said:
Glad to hear that things are still ok finance wise, the Frenchman; and that you're living the dream👍🇫🇷

I can certainly relate to the pain of divorce, particularly if kidlings are involved, and gotten used to being in a bed by myself.
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Can't sleep by myself, even when I go away for a business reason, so I take the Fav WL with me,
Or find a new one in another City for the night
 
stovo82

stovo82

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Porn and music videos have taught me how to respect women. I see only sex workers because rejection crushes my fragile male ego. I would rather lose a fight than get rejected by a woman. Rejection often comes with public humiliation.
 
John Smithl

John Smithl

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stovo82 said:
Porn and music videos have taught me how to respect women. I see only sex workers because rejection crushes my fragile male ego. I would rather lose a fight than get rejected by a woman. Rejection often comes with public humiliation.
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Please stop trolling
 
John Smithl

John Smithl

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Bluey said:
Where’s Gemma gone? She was good fun sticking it up him. Maybe she’s hit the ignore button too.
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Well noticed. Yes, I'm not sure where she may be.

One reason that I have been reluctant to ignore previously is that if comments like Stovo's go uncountered and cross-examined, is that other forum members (particularly women) may feel that comments like his are endorsed by silence. Men need to stand up and call out BS (without resorting to name calling). Just as I need to be called out too and I need to be held accountable for my comments, actions, non-actions, and silence.
 
Gobble_Doc

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John Smithl said:
Well noticed. Yes, I'm not sure where she may be.

One reason that I have been reluctant to ignore previously is that if comments like Stovo's go uncountered and cross-examined, is that other forum members (particularly women) may feel that comments like his are endorsed by silence. Men need to stand up and call out BS (without resorting to name calling). Just as I need to be called out too and I need to be held accountable for my comments, actions, non-actions, and silence.
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Agreed. I wish I had been able to say that as eloquently.
GD
 
Bluey

Bluey

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John Smithl said:
Well noticed. Yes, I'm not sure where she may be.

One reason that I have been reluctant to ignore previously is that if comments like Stovo's go uncountered and cross-examined, is that other forum members (particularly women) may feel that comments like his are endorsed by silence. Men need to stand up and call out BS (without resorting to name calling). Just as I need to be called out too and I need to be held accountable for my comments, actions, non-actions, and silence.
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True. Although when Gemma spoke up she was labelled “delusional” and an “imbecile”. Dammit. I like her female perspective. Although some of her punches hit home hard 🤣🤣🤣
 
Lacie4U

Lacie4U

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stovo82 said:
Porn and music videos have taught me how to respect women. I see only sex workers because rejection crushes my fragile male ego. I would rather lose a fight than get rejected by a woman. Rejection often comes with public humiliation.
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I kinda think your words / belief that “Porn and music videos taught me how to respect women” may contribute to rejection . If you only see SW you are paying for what you want to hear . 🤔
 
stovo82

stovo82

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I like being told what I like to hear. I like the act of the prostitute. I hate the humiliation that comes with rejection from asking women out.
 
John Smithl

John Smithl

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stovo82 said:
I like being told what I like to hear. I like the act of the prostitute. I hate the humiliation that comes with rejection from asking women out.
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It's called cognitive bias; "thinking and feeling shortcuts" create our own reality from what we like to hear, which reinforces and makes stronger the things we hate/avoid/deny; and keeps spiraling. Only we can retrain ourselves.
 
stovo82

stovo82

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Woman is not interested in sex with you. She has endless choices and can easily get a better guy. Online dating proves this where an average woman gets 100 replies per day. Average guy is lucky to get 1 reply per day.

80% of divorces are initiated by woman because she has used online dating or social media to find better match.

It is hopeless. Paying for sex is easiest option and saves losing it all on inevitable divorce.
 
JezzaJ

JezzaJ

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Master Yoda said:
After a string of relationships, flings, FB, FWB, etc. I can safely say I have fucked up so much I gained a tool chest of how to deal with a woman. Or more accurately, how not to.

Post the Yoda lifestyle I am 7 years into a relationship that has been exclusive I have maintained a more than satisfactory level of sexual lifestyle. Is it perfect or like when we first met? No. But am I still getting a blowjob everyday? Yes :).

I found that rather than pointing the finger at my partner, I ask what I am doing or what I am not doing. So far so good. And those who know me know I am no spring chicken and hardly look like Tom Cruise. But I do put in an effort for her sake and stay in shape.

Will it always be like this? I don’t know. I will cross that bridge when I come to it.

Future ain’t here yet and the past is gone. I can only give my best now and I may get what I want by default.

May the Force Be With You.
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Full support to you Master Yoda
 
stovo82

stovo82

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The strong, tall, muscular Alpha Male steals all the women and leaves us all in his wake. Beta husbands are left with loveless marriages. Time for divorce.
 
Nev

Nev

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stovo82 said:
The strong, tall, muscular Alpha Male steals all the women and leaves us all in his wake. Beta husbands are left with loveless marriages. Time for divorce.
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If hegemonic masculinity doesn't work for you, don't fight it head on, outflank it. Fighting brawn with brawn is stupid if you are not brawny.

"Hegemonic masculinity" is academic jargon for Alpha Male stuff. Use it in search terms on Google Scholar (not Google or Youtube) to find real science, not bulldust. A lot of the science is settled enough to be summarised in readable books like https://www.taylorfrancis.com/books/mono/10.4324/9780429061417/evolutionary-psychology-david-buss
If you'd rather spend money on companionship than books, any uni student can freely get you a copy of this or something similar.

If you're interested enough to complain but not study, wipe your chin. It's either not that important to you or your self discipline is softer than my penis. Harden up.
 
A

Albany

Nev said:
If hegemonic masculinity doesn't work for you, don't fight it head on, outflank it. Fighting brawn with brawn is stupid if you are not brawny.

"Hegemonic masculinity" is academic jargon for Alpha Male stuff. Use it in search terms on Google Scholar (not Google or Youtube) to find real science, not bulldust. A lot of the science is settled enough to be summarised in readable books like https://www.taylorfrancis.com/books/mono/10.4324/9780429061417/evolutionary-psychology-david-buss
If you'd rather spend money on companionship than books, any uni student can freely get you a copy of this or something similar.

If you're interested enough to complain but not study, wipe your chin. It's either not that important to you or your self discipline is softer than my penis. Harden up.
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$$$ wins EVERYTIME!
 
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