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The One
Member
I first started visiting WLs when I was 24 or 25. Typical young bloke, frustrated trying to get a root at pubs, so initially it was the convenience but soon I really started linking the variety. Like one of the other posts, I love women and the female body, and just need that variety to explore. I'm kinky too, and I liked how open WLs are compared to 'most' women.
As I got into my 30s I was more confident and had my share of girlfriends, but I never stopped visiting WLs
Then I got married, but I still needed the variety. Sadly, my wife pretty much let herself go the moment we got together (even before we tied the knot - more stupid me) and isn't remotely experimental, so the decision to keep seeing WLs was easily justified in my mind. Actually, I thought it made for a happier home life, because I wasn't frustrated about the sex and we now have a wonderful family.
Because I am very protective about my family I always had (have) a rule about only seeing WLs because there's no emotional connection or trace. And ironically it was because I once broke this rule that I was caught out cheating..! Luckily for me I didn't lose my family, but I will never have an affair again.
I haven't seen a WL for some time now, but that's more due to circumstance and finances.
As I got into my 30s I was more confident and had my share of girlfriends, but I never stopped visiting WLs
Then I got married, but I still needed the variety. Sadly, my wife pretty much let herself go the moment we got together (even before we tied the knot - more stupid me) and isn't remotely experimental, so the decision to keep seeing WLs was easily justified in my mind. Actually, I thought it made for a happier home life, because I wasn't frustrated about the sex and we now have a wonderful family.
Because I am very protective about my family I always had (have) a rule about only seeing WLs because there's no emotional connection or trace. And ironically it was because I once broke this rule that I was caught out cheating..! Luckily for me I didn't lose my family, but I will never have an affair again.
I haven't seen a WL for some time now, but that's more due to circumstance and finances.
peachmango
Gold Member
For those having lack of initimacy in their relationships, do you find the lack of sex kinda makes you finish quick when you do see a WL?
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garth1
That’s a quote the Incan relate so much to great postI first started visiting WLs when I was 24 or 25. Typical young bloke, frustrated trying to get a root at pubs, so initially it was the convenience but soon I really started linking the variety. Like one of the other posts, I love women and the female body, and just need that variety to explore. I'm kinky too, and I liked how open WLs are compared to 'most' women.
As I got into my 30s I was more confident and had my share of girlfriends, but I never stopped visiting WLs
Then I got married, but I still needed the variety. Sadly, my wife pretty much let herself go the moment we got together (even before we tied the knot - more stupid me) and isn't remotely experimental, so the decision to keep seeing WLs was easily justified in my mind. Actually, I thought it made for a happier home life, because I wasn't frustrated about the sex and we now have a wonderful family.
Because I am very protective about my family I always had (have) a rule about only seeing WLs because there's no emotional connection or trace. And ironically it was because I once broke this rule that I was caught out cheating..! Luckily for me I didn't lose my family, but I will never have an affair again.
I haven't seen a WL for some time now, but that's more due to circumstance and finances.
Fustradted at trying to get a root at clubs n pubs your just like many other guys just find it hard to get a girl anywhereI first started visiting WLs when I was 24 or 25. Typical young bloke, frustrated trying to get a root at pubs, so initially it was the convenience but soon I really started linking the variety. Like one of the other posts, I love women and the female body, and just need that variety to explore. I'm kinky too, and I liked how open WLs are compared to 'most' women.
As I got into my 30s I was more confident and had my share of girlfriends, but I never stopped visiting WLs
Then I got married, but I still needed the variety. Sadly, my wife pretty much let herself go the moment we got together (even before we tied the knot - more stupid me) and isn't remotely experimental, so the decision to keep seeing WLs was easily justified in my mind. Actually, I thought it made for a happier home life, because I wasn't frustrated about the sex and we now have a wonderful family.
Because I am very protective about my family I always had (have) a rule about only seeing WLs because there's no emotional connection or trace. And ironically it was because I once broke this rule that I was caught out cheating..! Luckily for me I didn't lose my family, but I will never have an affair again.
I haven't seen a WL for some time now, but that's more due to circumstance and finances.
I see, put down the beers..
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SilverSurfer44
Some People love sex and it is regarded for I think as the greatest pleasure of life. Some people don't and it doesn't bother them.
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SmilyECoyote
hear hear
Don’t feel bad, you’re not doing anything wrong, it’s a common experience with dating sites. Evidence shows that 80% of women only reply to the top 20% of men. (On Tinder it’s 95% replying to the top 5%). Unlike men who are quite willing to date ‘down’, women on social media nearly always date ‘up’ in terms of looks, income and social status.Are there many ladies out there that are happy to just go out for dinner/drinks? That is something I really miss doing since becoming single again. I have not dated for over 30 yrs and am finding this whole online dating thing very difficult. You will start chatting with a lady and next thing you know you just get no response, I don’t know what I am doing wrong or if I am doing anything wrong
the last time I dated they were in person, if they were not interested they would tell you, and walk away it was obvious then now it’s a guessing game. So now I see ladies to get the intimacy that I have been missing for years, I tend to book longer times, 2hrs would normally be short for me, 4hrs would be the average time I book.
humdinger
Diamond Member
Depends on how things are at home, if harmonious (but still void of intimacy) then perhaps a little guilt comes into play and I cum quick, but if the normal turmoil and grief at home, I tend to not be so effected.
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SmilyECoyote
I just can't help myself, I have no self discipline, a pressing need to fark every female within reach whether paying for it or not egotistical and selfish. There I think I've covered most bases.
JT777
Diamond Member
Pondered this question long and hard.
Escape from reality seems the big reason.
Forget about work and the daily grind for an hour. Just be in the moment.
If I find my mind wandering back to life’s constraints I’m not into the WL.
Of course it is also fun and exciting
Variety is good.
And pussy. Nah it’s just cos I like pussy
Escape from reality seems the big reason.
Forget about work and the daily grind for an hour. Just be in the moment.
If I find my mind wandering back to life’s constraints I’m not into the WL.
Of course it is also fun and exciting
Variety is good.
And pussy. Nah it’s just cos I like pussy
Its in my Blood, in my hormones the way my brain ticks, I have this constant need to have sex, it started when I became a teen and to this day it has never shut down. I never had a need to become a dog and spread my desire to every women i see, but, I do have a need for sex. If you have a partner/wife this need is easy to vent but when you are alone this need starts to take over every thought you have in every day.
So;- Give me an average curvy women and I will give her a smile on her dial and finally raise your glass high and give thanks to all the working ladies working today. Cheers and pass the rum
So;- Give me an average curvy women and I will give her a smile on her dial and finally raise your glass high and give thanks to all the working ladies working today. Cheers and pass the rum
Glad you can afford all these lovely ladies.
wish I could