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Why do you do it.

sludgie

Gold Member
As a new user I am curious as to why we use WLs. Is it just for physical use or a bad sexless relationship at home or maybe just for company. I am interested to hear others thoughts.
 
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26/07

As a new user I am curious as to why we use WLs. Is it just for physical use or a bad sexless relationship at home or maybe just for company. I am interested to hear others thoughts.
Start the ball rolling.
 

sludgie

Gold Member
Ok, got divorced 18 months ago and had only been with the ex for 28 years. The day after the divorce decided to try my first working lady as I was sick of porn and masturbation. I had forgotten the pleasure of a young women's body and the guarantee of sex was a great bonus. Very unsure at first although the young lady was helpful and did a good job for me.
I now find it easier to see a working girl rather than meeting, talking to and dating a women around my age . I also really enjoy the variety that is available to me at almost anytime I want company.
 
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26/07

Ok, got divorced 18 months ago and had only been with the ex for 28 years. The day after the divorce decided to try my first working lady as I was sick of porn and masturbation. I had forgotten the pleasure of a young women's body and the guarantee of sex was a great bonus. Very unsure at first although the young lady was helpful and did a good job for me.
I now find it easier to see a working girl rather than meeting, talking to and dating a women around my age . I also really enjoy the variety that is available to me at almost anytime I want company.
Thanks.
 

Channelle

Legend Member
Because I am a filthy kinky dirty minded soul, that has too much money & too much free time to conjure up more kink and booking ideas... My duty on Earth is to please women, before I trondle off to the big brothel in the sky!

Sometimes I lie awake at night thinking I'm sure I have an identical twin somewhere ... so close, but I don't have too much money.
 

TantraShiva

Legend Member
Because I am a filthy kinky dirty minded soul, that has too much money & too much free time to conjure up more kink and booking ideas... My duty on Earth is to please women, before I trondle off to the big brothel in the sky!

Always share that money around
 

Halo_2

Silver Member
As above not married and ugly, the last time I tried picking up led to a disaster where she told me to fuck off so I did and found another girl so she found out and decided to have a threesome and send it to everyone and I have never really recovered.
She blamed me for cheating :crazy:
 

SwaziWeelz

Bronze Member
Easier, I have a disability and it can be tricky picking up someone at a bar or on a dating site. I've had very satisfying relationships in the past but they tend to start after getting to know me...most just see the wheelchair when first meeting...not all mind you.

Hooking up with a WL once in a while staves off the dreaded blue balls and gives me some physical contact. Even with WL's I tend to find a gooden and see her regularly.

This is a handy spot to keep informed of who's out there just in case my usual isn't available.
 

Uncle Bobby

Diamond Member
I saw my first WL at Langtrees during a weekday when I was 18, was told by an older friend you have to try it when your 18.

fuck me ive never looked back, I’m happily married to a MILF! and we bonk/ get kinky every chance we get around the kids.

but I just can’t help it, walking into a brothel, massage parlour or booking knowing your going to get naked and feel amazing

I think I am addicted to sex haha
 

humdinger

Diamond Member
Intimacy devoid relationship - 2 yrs and counting without any sex or real intimacy and past 5 years you could count on one hand.
Started out bonking like rabbits, but all changed once a kid arrived. Which to be honest seems all too common due to PND, stress, time poor, hormonal changes etc. so I guess totally understandable, but it’s a big part of me to have that intimacy and to have it missing drives me to depression.

Had counselling, expressed my feelings to no avail. Resigned myself to it never getting better but too weak to go through the whole divorce thing again and the impact on my child and financially would ruin me.

So I punt when I can afford to, sscratch that itch and remain sane. Otherwise I would have hung myself long ago.

I question myself often, that if the intimacy in the relationship returns, will I still stray? I honestly don’t know, but do feel there would be a risk from wanting variety that I’ve now become accustomed too. Ironically I tend to seek WL that offer a similar resemblance to my wife. I guess so I can imagine making love to her.

Sad I know, and the solution I know, but despite this I don’t have the balls to change my life. One day I’ll probably get caught and it will be changed for me. I don’t feel good about cheating and to be honest it really gets to me that so do, but I feel totally empty without a woman’s touch and for me it’s a need and not a want.

F...ked up situation that I’m sure many on here also struggle with.

I would have never strayed if the intimacy within my relationship remained to some extent, even if a trickle.
 

Fantapants

Silver Member
Intimacy devoid relationship - 2 yrs and counting without any sex or real intimacy and past 5 years you could count on one hand.
Started out bonking like rabbits, but all changed once a kid arrived. Which to be honest seems all too common due to PND, stress, time poor, hormonal changes etc. so I guess totally understandable, but it’s a big part of me to have that intimacy and to have it missing drives me to depression.

Had counselling, expressed my feelings to no avail. Resigned myself to it never getting better but too weak to go through the whole divorce thing again and the impact on my child and financially would ruin me.

So I punt when I can afford to, sscratch that itch and remain sane. Otherwise I would have hung myself long ago.

I question myself often, that if the intimacy in the relationship returns, will I still stray? I honestly don’t know, but do feel there would be a risk from wanting variety that I’ve now become accustomed too. Ironically I tend to seek WL that offer a similar resemblance to my wife. I guess so I can imagine making love to her.

Sad I know, and the solution I know, but despite this I don’t have the balls to change my life. One day I’ll probably get caught and it will be changed for me. I don’t feel good about cheating and to be honest it really gets to me that so do, but I feel totally empty without a woman’s touch and for me it’s a need and not a want.

F...ked up situation that I’m sure many on here also struggle with.

I would have never strayed if the intimacy within my relationship remained to some extent, even if a trickle.

Don’t beat yourself up mate. Gotta do what you gotta do...enjoy it!
 

Dionysus

Gold Member
I've been happily married for many years, but love the thrill of visiting W/Ls. I guess it's the underground nature of the whole thing. Hush, hush....this is really something you shouldn't be doing and nor should the girl!!
The sex has been much better with the best W/Ls than with any of my partners too.
 

Paco

Gold Member
Intimacy devoid relationship - 2 yrs and counting without any sex or real intimacy and past 5 years you could count on one hand.
Started out bonking like rabbits, but all changed once a kid arrived. Which to be honest seems all too common due to PND, stress, time poor, hormonal changes etc. so I guess totally understandable, but it’s a big part of me to have that intimacy and to have it missing drives me to depression.

Had counselling, expressed my feelings to no avail. Resigned myself to it never getting better but too weak to go through the whole divorce thing again and the impact on my child and financially would ruin me.

So I punt when I can afford to, sscratch that itch and remain sane. Otherwise I would have hung myself long ago.

I question myself often, that if the intimacy in the relationship returns, will I still stray? I honestly don’t know, but do feel there would be a risk from wanting variety that I’ve now become accustomed too. Ironically I tend to seek WL that offer a similar resemblance to my wife. I guess so I can imagine making love to her.

Sad I know, and the solution I know, but despite this I don’t have the balls to change my life. One day I’ll probably get caught and it will be changed for me. I don’t feel good about cheating and to be honest it really gets to me that so do, but I feel totally empty without a woman’s touch and for me it’s a need and not a want.

F...ked up situation that I’m sure many on here also struggle with.

I would have never strayed if the intimacy within my relationship remained to some extent, even if a trickle.
Sad situation all around . Good luck, stay strong.
 

sludgie

Gold Member
WTF.... Like really WTF... who gives you the right to say to any girl what she can or can't do as an Adult Woman.. really.... Nice.
I don't quite follow what you are saying. I can't remember anything on this topic saying who has the right to tell a woman what to do. Have I missed something
 

Dionysus

Gold Member
WTF.... Like really WTF... who gives you the right to say to any girl what she can or can't do as an Adult Woman.. really.... Nice.
Of course I think that girls should be able pursue their chosen career. I am imagining what many people in polite society would think. This is after all very much something that happens behind closed doors and isn't discussed with friends and family.
 
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