Uncle Bobby
Diamond Member
Offence is taken not given
Is Whore an offensive name for WL?
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Whores traditionally whored their bodies out for money. But today a whore can be a person that compromises himself in any kind of way for monetary gain. It's also a nasty thing to call someone (especially a woman) who has a lot of sex and is often used as a vulgar insult similar to bitch. It's not really an appropriate word to call someone, including actual prostitutes.
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Well
I didn't think Bitch was that serious?
Most people use the Bitch word.
TBH I just though it was for the female dog?
The Frenchman 
I didn't think Bitch was that serious?
Most people use the Bitch word.
TBH I just though it was for the female dog?
The Frenchman 
Joe Ozzie
Legend Member
I agree 100% - except for the case of context, eg. role playing games. There are cases where insults are part of play.
In general, respect is the way we should treat each other.
It is one of those terms that can be used amongst the workers themselves, but it is offensive if used by outsiders.
asianguy77
Well-Known Member
Woweeee.. I created this thread 11 years ago. Time flies...
Just like Mrs Langtrees said if you are very close to a WL and frank with her and if she does not get offended, these words do not bother them but if you say the same words to someone which you have not met before and see them rarely it'll mostly be an offensive.
Farm Boy 2
Legend Member
Never heard a Sex Worker use that word so yes it will offend.
Nope I refer to my self as a hooker people say don't call yrself that
It's don't matter what u label it doesn't change what we do that's
HAVE SEX FOR CASH
svengali
Foundation Member
I totally get where this comes from, Casey.
You have chosen this profession and are not ashamed of it, nor should you be. It is the same as me referring to myself as a "Pom" or a black man referring to himself as a "Nigger"; a way of thumbing your nose at an insult.
Personally, in my punting days I always treated my ladies respectfully and always referred to them simply by name or as "ladies.
People who try to put others down over their chosen profession should remember the words of a Napoleonic spy who was being honoured for his services (which was unusual as spies were generally looked down on by military people). When a snooty army officer made a derogatory comment he replied "Monsieur, he who eats meat has no cause to scorn the butcher".
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My definition
Whore
Someone who fucks anyone
Slut
Someone who fucks anyone
No money needed., they simply fuck because they enjoy fucking
Sex Worker or Escort
Usually there own choice to receive money for fucking
an accepted occupation of employment IMO
The Frenchman
Whore
Someone who fucks anyone
Slut
Someone who fucks anyone
No money needed., they simply fuck because they enjoy fucking
Sex Worker or Escort
Usually there own choice to receive money for fucking
an accepted occupation of employment IMO
The Frenchman
I think it's more offensive when guys are try to take you on
Honey to me iv been more insulted by men who use terms like working ladies ladies of the night buy there actions words r only words I rather b called a who're then treated like a cum bucket the say whole like of nice things to just up load a load it the story of my life ....treat a ladies any ladies with respect or any person is in yr action using nice vocabulary means nothing if yr action is the total opisite
ozwarlock67
Legend Member
Yes, it's offensive and disrespectful.
I have gone as far as to say "sexual relations counsellor".
I have gone as far as to say "sexual relations counsellor".
So true ❤
CDSC
Gold Member
I was recently seeing a working lady who had a sticker on the back of her phone saying ' let me be your whore'. She was a great girl and I saw her many times .. she had loads of problems and when I could I tried to help. She has severed contact now . Probably for the best .. leaves me free to see who else is for me?
I feel it's disrespectful and would never use the term no matter work nor would I use the term 'hooker'. Working Lady or Sex Worker would be the term if I had to use a term, but I prefer to call them by their name, much nicer...
SilentBoob
Gold Member
If someone is taking the time to have sex with me I just wouldn't use it as a term.
Paid or unpaid.
If they are going to take the time to respect that I am offering them my $ for their body, personality and time, I am going to offer that same respect back and not call them a 'whore'.
Calling them a 'whore' to their face or in my mind, it just disrespects the whole exchange.
These ladies are offering me more than I am offering them, why would I call them anything but the name they gave me?
Paid or unpaid.
If they are going to take the time to respect that I am offering them my $ for their body, personality and time, I am going to offer that same respect back and not call them a 'whore'.
Calling them a 'whore' to their face or in my mind, it just disrespects the whole exchange.
These ladies are offering me more than I am offering them, why would I call them anything but the name they gave me?
Senfam
Diamond Member
I agree, always address them with their name, and appreciate the service they are providing,even if sometimes not always up to standard, treating people with respect goes a long way and is often rewarded on repeat visits.