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mrys

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There have been very few special women in my life but for one reason or the other, it was not meant to be e.g. some I met in a foreign country (yes, I was a passport bro but I had to come back). Still cherish those good times we had but that's all in the past. My statements on marriages/relationships was factual and I gave some examples.


I have and have found that I am happier doing my thing alone rather than pandering to someone else and trying to make them happy.

I am none of those things. I have been in some relationships where I felt bitter and lonely regardless.
I'm happy for you that you found some ladies you connected with John. Maybe some of them actually had real feelings for you and it wasn't just for the passport. You are sane to be cautious but damaged to question genuineness when it's real ( I do understand that it's a fine line between the two) Anything worth something is worth the risk of hurt mate.
 

johnmatilda

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evidence for all women
I posted one link with no commentary from myself in the most suitable thread for it in this forum and you automatically assumed that I am making a statement about ALL women? Well, ok, good for you.

And as for your one in a million statement, let's make it three in a million.


 

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Let me repeat myself since you continue to ignore me. Do you intend to apologise for what you said to the admin lady? I cannot make it any more simple
 

johnmatilda

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Let me repeat myself since you continue to ignore me. Do you intend to apologise for what you said to the admin lady? I cannot make it any more simple
I'll make it equally simple. No, as my post was not directed at her (I do not even know her so why should I direct anything at her?) which I have previously clarified.
 

mrys

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Mate, that's exactly what I was thinking this morning. She is an adult and can speak for herself and doesn't need Mr White Knight riding in for a rescue. I reckon he has some hidden interest or agenda or he is just trolling given his persistence rather than moving on.
Johnmatilda. Whilst you may not have intended to offend Tania you quite clearly did.'Perception creates our reality' I would have thought it would be wise and right to correct any misconception with an apology. If you didn't mean to offend then what's the harm in setting things right? I would have thought you would want to TBH.
 

johnmatilda

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Johnmatilda. Whilst you may not have intended to offend Tania you quite clearly did.'Perception creates our reality' I would have thought it would be wise and right to correct any misconception with an apology. If you didn't mean to offend then what's the harm in setting things right? I would have thought you would want to TBH.
At post #101, I said my comment was not directed at her. I wasn't making a personal attack on her, I don't know her to be bothered doing so. Yet internet policeman has been emboldened to make personal attacks on others here and seems to have a vested interest in doing so. Many others just move on but not this guy.

I'm offended by westozman for his name calling so I guess he owes me an apology then?
 

mrys

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At post #101, I said my comment was not directed at her. I wasn't making a personal attack on her, I don't know her to be bothered doing so. Yet internet policeman has been emboldened to make personal attacks on others here and seems to have a vested interest in doing so. Many others just move on but not this guy.

I'm offended by westozman for his name calling so I guess he owes me an apology then?
Honestly sometimes TS is like a schoolyard full of testosterone fuelled adolescents. You're missing an opportunity to be grow, but that's your call johnmatilda.
 

johnmatilda

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Honestly sometimes TS is like a schoolyard full of testosterone fuelled adolescents. You're missing an opportunity to be grow, but that's your call johnmatilda.
Should the innocent admit guilt for an opportunity to grow?

I encourage healthy debate and I'm very capable of admitting when I am wrong. My head is screwed on tight but not that tight.
 

johnmatilda

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To honest, I didn't even realise I was responding to Tania's post. I would have posted the same thing had it been any other member, male or female and everything else in between or not.
 

mrys

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What's with the whole simp thing gents? Someone who shows concern for a woman is not a simp. They are just being a concerned, empathetic and a considerate man. Have you lost sight of what a man is, how he is to behave and the values he supports? I could say you are a simp..... damaged, misogynistic and bitter.......but I won't :) Locking the post may be an option for the mediators but I hope they will allow me to continue to question your version of masculinity, because it's not healthy for you or your next love. If you ever have one.
 

johnmatilda

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What's with the whole simp thing gents? Someone who shows concern for a woman is not a simp. They are just being a concerned, empathetic and a considerate man. Have you lost sight of what a man is, how he is to behave and the values he supports? I could say you are a simp..... damaged, misogynistic and bitter.......but I won't :) Locking the post may be an option for the mediators but I hope they will allow me to continue to question your version of masculinity, because it's not healthy for you or your next love. If you ever have one.
Wait, what? Concern? Sorry, was someone injured? By a poem? I hope aliens don't conquer us with mere words without even stepping foot in this planet!

Tania, by her post, shows she is a very capable, independent and industrious woman. I don't think she needs any man to speak on her behalf.
 
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langfordguy82

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We're in a conflict of interest situation here, hookers love simps cos they give them money for nothing. We'll never agree on this. My only advice to my fellow males is holy fuck wake up. Stop giving these women your money. You can do better and you deserve better. WAKE UP
 

Tania Smiley

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Where did I say the poem was directed at you? As with everything on this forum, unless directed at someone specific, we speak in general terms. And there are exceptions to every rule.

I'm curious as to whether you had to give up half of each of those two houses and pay him alimony...genuinely curious as I have to take on board both sides.

And you just proved my point that marriage/defacto relationships ought to be avoided.

Surprised a simple poem is a trigger. Feel free to replace she/her with he/his and add your own.
Look mate.

You literally replied to me with it.
We do not really like women "bashing" as such on the forum. Albeit verbal but this is a Safe Place for WL's and a lot of them, members and staff have been in some awful situations.

So from now on perhaps find somewhere else to vent any bitterness as here is not the right place. Definitely not how you go about it.

Now let's all just chill :)
 

mrys

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Did Andrew Tate produce that video? In any relationship, one or the other can bail to look for something more fulfilling. Just because they love each other doesn't mean it's nirvana for them both. There is no harm is seeking completeness, it's just a shame people get bruised in the process. Better to strive than accept the status quo. Life is not a dress rehearsal.
 

johnmatilda

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Did Andrew Tate produce that video? In any relationship, one or the other can bail to look for something more fulfilling. Just because they love each other doesn't mean it's nirvana for them both. There is no harm is seeking completeness, it's just a shame people get bruised in the process. Better to strive than accept the status quo. Life is not a dress rehearsal.
I agree sir. But why then do they cry about their actions and regret then post it on the Internet??
 

mrys

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I agree sir. But why then do they cry about their actions and regret then post it on the Internet??
Because we are all human. With insecurities and demons within to understand. I wouldn't do it but for some it's cathartic, for those that seek attention to their plight it may be a search for validation. For others it's a way to free themselves from guilt. And for a few it's a commercial decision. I'm guessing the content of that video had limited commercial advantage for the creator.....I hope so because that's what it deserved.
 

johnmatilda

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Because we are all human. With insecurities and demons within to understand. I wouldn't do it but for some it's cathartic, for those that seek attention to their plight it may be a search for validation. For others it's a way to free themselves from guilt. And for a few it's a commercial decision. I'm guessing the content of that video had limited commercial advantage for the creator.....I hope so because that's what it deserved.
If they have insecurities and demons within then TikTok/YouTube is not the place. They should be in therapy and get real help.
 
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