Menopause...

Winter W.

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i got this sharp pain in my chest, and i thought i'm having a hard attack. Then i look down...and i was standin on my own titty!
 
Dean3030

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My sex life was great until she turned 49 and then soon after that she had Menopause. We were having sex at least two times a week and then it just stopped. Apart from the occasional drunken night roll in the hay maybe four times a year but even now that is gone. She is now 55 and she still has menopause. I have not had sex with my wife in over three years.

I just cannot get intimate with her anymore. I try and hug and cuddle her, try all my former tricks at getting her aroused but not long after I start she starts yelling at me, "GET OFF ME, I'M GETTING A HOT FLUSH". I cannot even do anything right around the house because of her mood swings. I try and do something that pleases her but then next minute she is crying her eyes out. Man, no wonder a man turns to drink!

Thank goodness for our lovely W/Ls because I reckon without them I would be in a straight jacket by now. I feel I can confide with these ladies and definite release some pent up frustration. I still have my sex needs, I just cannot turn off that tap just like that. I just hope one day soon I can get my former wife back.
 
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Dean3030 said:
My sex life was great until she turned 49 and then soon after that she had Menopause. We were having sex at least two times a week and then it just stopped. Apart from the occasional drunken night roll in the hay maybe four times a year but even now that is gone. She is now 55 and she still has menopause. I have not had sex with my wife in over three years.

I just cannot get intimate with her anymore. I try and hug and cuddle her, try all my former tricks at getting her aroused but not long after I start she starts yelling at me, "GET OFF ME, I'M GETTING A HOT FLUSH". I cannot even do anything right around the house because of her mood swings. I try and do something that pleases her but then next minute she is crying her eyes out. Man, no wonder a man turns to drink!

Thank goodness for our lovely W/Ls because I reckon without them I would be in a straight jacket by now. I feel I can confide with these ladies and definite release some pent up frustration. I still have my sex needs, I just cannot turn off that tap just like that. I just hope one day soon I can get my former wife back.
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Dean3030 I thought I was reading my personal life! I know exactly your situation and how you are feeling, having experienced and still experiencing it. I like a drink or three but don't want to turn to it! Yes, the WLs are a life saver, one in particular for me. I hope your wife comes around for you in near future.
 
Dean3030

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Thanks Buk. ;)
Although I am partly jealous of you. You have found your favourite WL to unwound with. I am still looking for that one woman who I can bond with. I have found some very nice woman recently but as of yet, not one that I feel 100% comfortable with. It is not all about sex with these WL it is a chance for me to just open up and unload all my bottled up frustrations.
Lol, maybe I need a psychiatrist! :)
 
Gobble_Doc

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Dean3030 said:
Thanks Buk. ;)
Although I am partly jealous of you. You have found your favourite WL to unwound with. I am still looking for that one woman who I can bond with. I have found some very nice woman recently but as of yet, not one that I feel 100% comfortable with. It is not all about sex with these WL it is a chance for me to just open up and unload all my bottled up frustrations.
Lol, maybe I need a psychiatrist! :)
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I'm not sure which would be cheaper, have more success - WL or Psychiatrist?
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Dean3030 said:
Thanks Buk. ;)
Although I am partly jealous of you. You have found your favourite WL to unwound with. I am still looking for that one woman who I can bond with. I have found some very nice woman recently but as of yet, not one that I feel 100% comfortable with. It is not all about sex with these WL it is a chance for me to just open up and unload all my bottled up frustrations.
Lol, maybe I need a psychiatrist! :)
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No you don't need a Psyc just a good WL....among others. I've seen one lady for near on 4 years and we've shared problems, helped each other out (sex yes, but not only) and we went off overseas together for a short holiday. Some may say, "Shit u may as well be married." I say there is no comparison!! The sex we have is even better than when I was young and wild ( or maybe stupid). A bit sad at my age to say that sex is best now but better fantastic sex late than never. Don't know how long my luck, that is WL and I will last but I'm enjoying the 'ride' so to speak and her wonderful company.
 
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