I am so glad that this has been mentioned, my partner for 11 years whom I have 2 beautiful kids with was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure 6 years ago and has lost all desire to be intimate physically. We tried for a year, got help and I have even initiated in many ways myself only to fail by no fault of her or mine is just how to cookie crumbles. It was getting bad for me as I was not sexually satisfied, but leaving my partner and kids was not something I wanted to do as I do love them with all my heart. It took me awhile to seperate my emotional needs to my physical needs and I always put my family first.
There’s nothing honourable with what I am doing but the man got to eat and the man also has got responsibility to his family.
Thought I get this off my chest since we are on the topic on punting wisdom .