The Unfaithful Truth: Why Married Men Seek Sex Workers

[Amanda O]

Touching on the psychology of why men seek out sex workers from Master Yoda.

The Unfaithful Truth: Why Married Men Seek Sex Workers

Married men, hidden desires, and the world of sex work—why they seek it, what their wives don’t know, and the reality for those who provide the service.

au.langtrees.com

 

[ozwarlock67]

Because they don't any at home. Not that difficult to work out.

 

[Phoebe]

• To the husbands: Does this sound familiar? If you’re living this life, what brought you here? Do you justify it as a necessity, or does the guilt creep in?

Interesting was speaking to my mate who is a financier and big time punter globally, he mentioned to me the other day that if Australia ever introduces digital currency he knows that some big named parlors in Sydney may be forced to close for good because of that above statement most of the traffic and revenue they get is from married men overall during the year, so if that were to happen its going to be tough on Married men.. However the main reason why men seek out escorts who are married is for the fact that escorts will give head jobs no matter what, and will make him still feel like a king after say becoming a girls regular Wednesday afternoon client, so she makes him feel special, wanted tells him he has the best cock she has ever sat on and sucked etc etc, and will wash his back without hesitation, something we all know drops off after many years of married life.. plus men love variety which is the main reason why my mate has never married, not that he needs to rely upon escorts either he can pick up women with ease even at the age he is,.... which why men that love to play the field even get married at all??

• To the wives: Have you ever suspected something? If you found out, would you leave, or would you try to understand?

Wives and women know if said man has been with any lady... she after all does his washing, and can see snail trails in underwear and can smell perfume etc from another lady, she may not say anything in 2025, but wait till it all adds up and in 2029 said man better watch out, she will hand him the rope and structure and watch him slowly hang himself and he will be amazed as crap once she comes out and says it in 2029, women will only put up with it for so long, and she will wait for the best time to divorce or walk out, plus she will have a mountain of evidence too which he will be rolled in a court.. so hey... why even get married in the 1st place...

• To the sex workers: How do you feel about servicing married men? Is it just part of the job, or does it ever weigh on you?

I know one escort who if she thought the man was a complete w*anker she used to walk him to the front door of the parlor and then kiss him and leave makeup, lipstick marks in places he couldn't see but his wife could once she was doing his washing, other than that she didn't care as she said I am an escort I am here for the money NOT my issue if you are married and loose half or even all your estate etc in divorce settlements as she said we are escorts we sit in a parlor waiting on men to come in NOT the other way around.. hence the Term Call Girl... Bad luck if you get caught.. which leads to me say this a 3rd time.. why even get married and say those precocious wedding vows, to a Woman who You got down on bended knee ask her for her hand in marriage...

Sorry if this may come over as I am on the side of the Female, but after the years I have been in this game, its has made me think that way... I could be wrong...

 

[Flush]

Curious what people think about married men seeing dominatrixs? Where they might be intimate, but not actually have sex. The man is going because he wants to live out fantasies he will never get at home. Is it the same thing

 

[sludgie]

Touching on the psychology of why men seek out sex workers from Master Yoda.

The Unfaithful Truth: Why Married Men Seek Sex Workers

Married men, hidden desires, and the world of sex work—why they seek it, what their wives don’t know, and the reality for those who provide the service.

au.langtrees.com

Well written Yoda

 

[Phoebe]

Curious what people think about married men seeing dominatrixs? Where they might be intimate, but not actually have sex. The man is going because he wants to live out fantasies he will never get at home. Is it the same thing

Same deal... Married man is straying.....

 

[mrys]

There are a lot of loveless & sexless marriages out there that only endure because of children and/or some kind of dependancy. If it does become a marriage of convenience I see no harm in either party utilising the services of SW's. We all need some attention from time to time. What better way to get it than from a professional with no strings attached.

 

[Phoebe]

There are a lot of loveless & sexless marriages out there that only endure because of children and/or some kind of dependancy. If it does become a marriage of convenience I see no harm in either party utilising the services of SW's. We all need some attention from time to time. What better way to get it than from a professional with no strings attached.

I feel that a wife could forgive a Husband for seeing escorts over seeing another woman having an affair...

 

[The Voice]

• To the husbands: Does this sound familiar? If you’re living this life, what brought you here? Do you justify it as a necessity, or does the guilt creep in?

Interesting was speaking to my mate who is a financier and big time punter globally, he mentioned to me the other day that if Australia ever introduces digital currency he knows that some big named parlors in Sydney may be forced to close for good because of that above statement most of the traffic and revenue they get is from married men overall during the year, so if that were to happen its going to be tough on Married men.. However the main reason why men seek out escorts who are married is for the fact that escorts will give head jobs no matter what, and will make him still feel like a king after say becoming a girls regular Wednesday afternoon client, so she makes him feel special, wanted tells him he has the best cock she has ever sat on and sucked etc etc, and will wash his back without hesitation, something we all know drops off after many years of married life.. plus men love variety which is the main reason why my mate has never married, not that he needs to rely upon escorts either he can pick up women with ease even at the age he is,.... which why men that love to play the field even get married at all??

• To the wives: Have you ever suspected something? If you found out, would you leave, or would you try to understand?

Wives and women know if said man has been with any lady... she after all does his washing, and can see snail trails in underwear and can smell perfume etc from another lady, she may not say anything in 2025, but wait till it all adds up and in 2029 said man better watch out, she will hand him the rope and structure and watch him slowly hang himself and he will be amazed as crap once she comes out and says it in 2029, women will only put up with it for so long, and she will wait for the best time to divorce or walk out, plus she will have a mountain of evidence too which he will be rolled in a court.. so hey... why even get married in the 1st place...

• To the sex workers: How do you feel about servicing married men? Is it just part of the job, or does it ever weigh on you?

I know one escort who if she thought the man was a complete w*anker she used to walk him to the front door of the parlor and then kiss him and leave makeup, lipstick marks in places he couldn't see but his wife could once she was doing his washing, other than that she didn't care as she said I am an escort I am here for the money NOT my issue if you are married and loose half or even all your estate etc in divorce settlements as she said we are escorts we sit in a parlor waiting on men to come in NOT the other way around.. hence the Term Call Girl... Bad luck if you get caught.. which leads to me say this a 3rd time.. why even get married and say those precocious wedding vows, to a Woman who You got down on bended knee ask her for her hand in marriage...

Sorry if this may come over as I am on the side of the Female, but after the years I have been in this game, its has made me think that way... I could be wrong...

We have had no fault divorce laws since 1973, so why is all the 'mountain of evidence' relevant to being rolled in a court?

 

[mrys]

I feel that a wife could forgive a Husband for seeing escorts over seeing another woman having an affair...

Yep no heart involved. No betrayal just physical needs that need an outlet.

 

[mrys]

We have had no fault divorce laws since 1973, so why is all the 'mountain of evidence' relevant to being rolled in a court?

I agree 'irreconcilable differences' will cost the same as a mountain of philandering evidence.

 

[John Smithl]

We have had no fault divorce laws since 1973, so why is all the 'mountain of evidence' relevant to being rolled in a court?

... to destroy someone's character on record??

 

[Mod7]

We have had no fault divorce laws since 1973, so why is all the 'mountain of evidence' relevant to being rolled in a court?

I agree with this

 

[Mod7]

Ok as a married man who does see WLs without his wifes knowledge the scenario that has been missed here is the one where for medical reasons the wife has been unable to have sex for several years while the husband has been understanding and patient but still virile. He loves her, they are great partners who travel and enjoy family but he is still virile and after secretly wanking in the bathroom and becoming an increasingly cranky man finally decides to pay for sex rather than have an affair. He has no emotional attachment with WLs but has rediscovered sex as it should be, and that he has not experienced for many years. This is my experience and I will never tell her because I do love her and she is my life partner. Do I feel guilty? No. Im no longer the cranky man heading towardsa divorce. Will she see stains on my underwear or smell other womens perume on me? Of course not, to suggest that is silly in punting today. I am open with all my WLs about my situation and they tell me its very common. Suggesting that a WL might try and set me up to get caught would mean one of two things. Iam an asshole to the WL. Or I booked on Locanto.

 

[johnmatilda]

There are a lot of loveless & sexless marriages out there that only endure because of children and/or some kind of dependancy.

This is why. And also because over time, the wife becomes unappealing.

 

[johnmatilda]

We have had no fault divorce laws since 1973, so why is all the 'mountain of evidence' relevant to being rolled in a court?

100% correct.

 

[johnmatilda]

I feel that a wife could forgive a Husband for seeing escorts over seeing another woman having an affair...

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

 

[johnmatilda]

... to destroy someone's character on record??

This.

 

[johnmatilda]

Ok as a married man who does see WLs without his wifes knowledge the scenario that has been missed here is the one where for medical reasons the wife has been unable to have sex for several years while the husband has been understanding and patient but still virile. He loves her, they are great partners who travel and enjoy family but he is still virile and after secretly wanking in the bathroom and becoming an increasingly cranky man finally decides to pay for sex rather than have an affair. He has no emotional attachment with WLs but has rediscovered sex as it should be, and that he has not experienced for many years. This is my experience and I will never tell her because I do love her and she is my life partner. Do I feel guilty? No. Im no longer the cranky man heading towardsa divorce. Will she see stains on my underwear or smell other womens perume on me? Of course not, to suggest that is silly in punting today. I am open with all my WLs about my situation and they tell me its very common. Suggesting that a WL might try and set me up to get caught would mean one of two things. Iam an asshole to the WL. Or I booked on Locanto.

I approve of this. Go forth and empty those balls. No man should feel guilty if he is unable to empty at home as long as he has tried to address the issue with his partner, or if she has medical issues etc.

 

[Madam Media]

TBH the main thing is communication. Wether its opening a marriage so both parties can see other people or having an agreement or even just ending the ties there. It is unfair to the other party is one side is getting their rocks off and the other doesnt know.
Society has forced us to believe that sex = loves and regardless how YOU yourself feel, it may not be what your partner feels thus leading to the hurt and betrayal

 

[Phoebe]

https://www.bodyandsoul.com.au/houseofwellness/is-it-ok-if-married-couples-hardly-ever-have-sex/news-story/186afc86bbafa9d3bf3df88b244c5f9a?utm_medium=nca&utm_source=lifestyle_partner_strap&utm_content=bodyandsoulhow

 

[Mod7]

https://www.bodyandsoul.com.au/houseofwellness/is-it-ok-if-married-couples-hardly-ever-have-sex/news-story/186afc86bbafa9d3bf3df88b244c5f9a?utm_medium=nca&utm_source=lifestyle_partner_strap&utm_content=bodyandsoulhow

I agree with this Phoebe but you both have to want to solve the problem

 

[Phoebe]

I agree with this Phoebe but you both have to want to solve the problem

Which involves talking.

 

[naughtish]

Ok as a married man who does see WLs without his wifes knowledge the scenario that has been missed here is the one where for medical reasons the wife has been unable to have sex for several years while the husband has been understanding and patient but still virile. He loves her, they are great partners who travel and enjoy family but he is still virile and after secretly wanking in the bathroom and becoming an increasingly cranky man finally decides to pay for sex rather than have an affair. He has no emotional attachment with WLs but has rediscovered sex as it should be, and that he has not experienced for many years. This is my experience and I will never tell her because I do love her and she is my life partner. Do I feel guilty? No. Im no longer the cranky man heading towardsa divorce. Will she see stains on my underwear or smell other womens perume on me? Of course not, to suggest that is silly in punting today. I am open with all my WLs about my situation and they tell me its very common. Suggesting that a WL might try and set me up to get caught would mean one of two things. Iam an asshole to the WL. Or I booked on Locanto.

This is 100% true. I’m married with a child and love my wife a lot. And we do travel , someone time with family etc. Unfortunately sex wise her sex drive is much much less than me and doesn’t not even do basics such as oral to me or me on her self . I really have no option than seeing WLs time to time as leaving her is not an option I can think about . Of course one day I might get caught and all this will be over but I just can’t stop the habit

 

[Phoebe]

Lets twist this,.... Say the Husband can't get erections any longer or just looses interest sex all together even with other women not just his wife... and the wife still loves it, desires it and needs it daily maybe a few times of the day, she has kids with her hubby things are going great etc etc, would Husbands be all blase/cool/ okay with another man enjoying his wife??? or even said wife logs onto web and searches escorts and instead of going down the path of Male escorts she finds Ladies for Ladies instead, would he be all okay with this? or is this all one sided or what? as I bet some female escorts love doing bookings with women to mix things up a bit, even find there own femininity even more so.

 

[mrys]

Lets twist this,.... Say the Husband can't get erections any longer or just looses interest sex all together even with other women not just his wife... and the wife still loves it, desires it and needs it daily maybe a few times of the day, she has kids with her hubby things are going great etc etc, would Husbands be all blase/cool/ okay with another man enjoying his wife??? or even said wife logs onto web and searches escorts and instead of going down the path of Male escorts she finds Ladies for Ladies instead, would he be all okay with this? or is this all one sided or what? as I bet some female escorts love doing bookings with women to mix things up a bit, even find there own femininity even more so.

If it's ok for the male it's ok for the female too. I'd suggest he becomes a voyeur for her encounters..........might make his little fella hard again

 

[johnmatilda]

I agree with this Phoebe but you both have to want to solve the problem

100%. As they say, it takes two to tango. I've been in relationships whereby as time goes on, she is no longer interested in sex and trying to communicate about it results in me being told to use my hands or see a WL. I did both after I dumped her.

 

[johnmatilda]

TBH the main thing is communication. Wether its opening a marriage so both parties can see other people or having an agreement or even just ending the ties there. It is unfair to the other party is one side is getting their rocks off and the other doesnt know.
Society has forced us to believe that sex = loves and regardless how YOU yourself feel, it may not be what your partner feels thus leading to the hurt and betrayal

No amount of communication will make a woman go from not desiring sex to suddenly desiring it. Any communication that results in the latter will make her resentful and feel coerced and backed into a corner. She is either sexually attracted to you or not. Cold hard truth unfortunately and as cold as this beer in my hand.

 

[johnmatilda]

This is 100% true. I’m married with a child and love my wife a lot. And we do travel , someone time with family etc. Unfortunately sex wise her sex drive is much much less than me and doesn’t not even do basics such as oral to me or me on her self . I really have no option than seeing WLs time to time as leaving her is not an option I can think about . Of course one day I might get caught and all this will be over but I just can’t stop the habit

We feel you brother. As God said, go forth and multiply (but don't do that, wrap it up!).

 

[johnmatilda]

Lets twist this,.... Say the Husband can't get erections any longer or just looses interest sex all together even with other women not just his wife... and the wife still loves it, desires it and needs it daily maybe a few times of the day, she has kids with her hubby things are going great etc etc, would Husbands be all blase/cool/ okay with another man enjoying his wife??? or even said wife logs onto web and searches escorts and instead of going down the path of Male escorts she finds Ladies for Ladies instead, would he be all okay with this? or is this all one sided or what? as I bet some female escorts love doing bookings with women to mix things up a bit, even find there own femininity even more so.

It's ok however the scenario you described is not realistic. You're talking about a statistically insignificant portion of the male population that cannot get erections or not wanting sex. That's why 99% of escorts are female to cater to the male population. If what you describe were reality, there would be a lot more make escorts. And I'm going to guess that the majority of LT customers are male.

Do tell though; how many women book a sexual session at LT? Genuinely interested.