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The Unfaithful Truth: Why Married Men Seek Sex Workers

johnmatilda

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Phoebe said:
Lets twist this,.... Say the Husband can't get erections any longer or just looses interest sex all together even with other women not just his wife... and the wife still loves it, desires it and needs it daily maybe a few times of the day, she has kids with her hubby things are going great etc etc, would Husbands be all blase/cool/ okay with another man enjoying his wife??? or even said wife logs onto web and searches escorts and instead of going down the path of Male escorts she finds Ladies for Ladies instead, would he be all okay with this? or is this all one sided or what? as I bet some female escorts love doing bookings with women to mix things up a bit, even find there own femininity even more so.
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I may as well say it; I'm available for such a woman. Has to be decent looking, clean and drug free though. I'm running a promo: $10/30 mins. Best deal in Perth.
 
mrys

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Ahhhh John. So good to have you back. I suspect you may have to look deeper as to why she didn't want intimacy. It sounds like you have multiple situations where the lady in your life retreated when it involved intimacy. Usually when there are consistent patterns of reactive behaviour there is a consistent cause? Hmmmmmm..........food for thought.
 
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johnmatilda said:
No amount of communication will make a woman go from not desiring sex to suddenly desiring it. Any communication that results in the latter will make her resentful and feel coerced and backed into a corner. She is either sexually attracted to you or not. Cold hard truth unfortunately and as cold as this beer in my hand.
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I think thats your personal experience and not necessarily how all women react John, yes quite often they lose their desire for you but from my chats with my mates its often the no notice demands for a fuck, especially after alcohol from a husband who forgets or no longer bothers how to properly arouse their wife. Bear in mind women have body issues and that gets more pronounced over time, as well as menopause. I think we as men need to understand that a fuck is a privelige, not a right. Its her body, not yours, and at the end of the day how hot are you loooking now, and how good a lover
 
johnmatilda

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mrys said:
So good to have you back. I suspect you may have to look deeper as to why she didn't want intimacy. It sounds like you have multiple situations where the lady in your life retreated when it involved intimacy.
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Complacency and taking one for granted, expecting that the good times will continue to roll in.

mrys said:
Usually when there are consistent patterns of reactive behaviour there is a consistent cause?
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Indeed, it's the 👩.

You make it sound like I am the problem yet my situation is echoed by the many punters on this forum. But you're not good at reading relationships/others and I get that.
 
johnmatilda

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Mod7 said:
yes quite often they lose their desire for you but from my chats with my mates its often the no notice demands for a fuck, especially after alcohol from a husband who forgets or no longer bothers how to properly arouse their wife.
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Not my situation. I used to wine and dine and they got too comfy thinking I was simping.

Mod7 said:
Bear in mind women have body issues and that gets more pronounced over time, as well as menopause.
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That's not my particular situation.

Mod7 said:
I think we as men need to understand that a fuck is a privelige, not a right.
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Correct.

Mod7 said:
Its her body, not yours
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Correct, just like my wallet, my choice. My home, my choice.

Mod7 said:
and at the end of the day how hot are you loooking now
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100%. That's what I said when I said "She is either sexually attracted to you or not. Cold hard truth unfortunately and as cold as this beer in my hand.".
 
Madam Media

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johnmatilda said:
No amount of communication will make a woman go from not desiring sex to suddenly desiring it. Any communication that results in the latter will make her resentful and feel coerced and backed into a corner. She is either sexually attracted to you or not. Cold hard truth unfortunately and as cold as this beer in my hand.
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The point of communication is not to force the other or change the mind of the other. Its to decide how important sex is as a part of your relationship and how to manage it. If one party is opposed to allowing the other to see it else where then thats the deal breaker and you part ways. Also to point out women seek sexual relief elsewhere too if they are not getting it at home so it goes both ways.
 
johnmatilda

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Madam Media said:
The point of communication is not to force the other or change the mind of the other. Its to decide how important sex is as a part of your relationship and how to manage it. If one party is opposed to allowing the other to see it else where then thats the deal breaker and you part ways. Also to point out women seek sexual relief elsewhere too if they are not getting it at home so it goes both ways.
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No one said anything about forcing anyone to do anything. The point made by Phoebe about communication is to express how you feel about the lack of intimacy and how important it is. I am the first one to admit I've had this conversations with my exes and they were like OMG, I didn't know, thank you for discussing it. And while it improved things, it was short lived. I'm not the only one. Many men here in a sexless marriage. Point is, women don't desire sex as often as men do. Yes, there are outliers but they are few.
 
Phoebe

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women don't desire sex as often as men do <--- some women want sex 5 times a day ever heard of the term nymphomaniac?

Women desire sex when its not all about man gets erect man enters her man comes in 5 minutes man walks back into living room and watches the game.. women want to get off too.. ever thought about that...
 
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Phoebe said:
women don't desire sex as often as men do <--- some women want sex 5 times a day ever heard of the term nymphomaniac?

Women desire sex when its not all about man gets erect man enters her man comes in 5 minutes man walks back into living room and watches the game.. women want to get off too.. ever thought about that...
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Good in theory. Not in practice. I always get my partner off. Give her head before and after fucking and make sure she comes evrytime, even once I've already come myself. She still very rarely wants it.
 
johnmatilda

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Flush said:
Good in theory. Not in practice. I always get my partner off. Give her head before and after fucking and make sure she comes evrytime, even once I've already come myself. She still very rarely wants it.
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This. I've had similar experiences.
 
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johnmatilda

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Phoebe said:
some women want sex 5 times a day
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Some women. How many such women out of 10 random women? You are making references to statistically insignificant numbers.

Why are men lining up to bang Lily Phillips? Why are women not lining up to bang Lachlan Phillips?

You just described most men.
 
Phoebe

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johnmatilda said:
Some women. How many such women out of 10 random women? You are making references to statistically insignificant numbers.

Why are men lining up to bang Lily Phillips? Why are women not lining up to bang Lachlan Phillips?

You just described most men.
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Lachlan Phillips... Ever heard of the refractory period...... WOMEN don't have this issue, a man can come inside a woman and another man can enter her and do the same and she can keep on going as long as she is not sore, which anyone knows Vaginas overall can take a sh*t load of pounding and if said woman is used to it then well she can keep on going and going, and as @Mrs Langtrees "advised" me not so long ago the best 4 lettered word in a Brothel is .... NEXT and as long as the woman can keep on saying that then men will line up, and hand over $$$ to do so....

Can I ask? Have you ever been with A Natural Red haired woman? those on here that have know that creature wont ever back down, she will smile and say is that your A Game?
 
johnmatilda

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Phoebe said:
Lachlan Phillips... Ever heard of the refractory period...... WOMEN don't have this issue, a man can come inside a woman and another man can enter her and do the same and she can keep on going as long as she is not sore, which anyone knows Vaginas overall can take a sh*t load of pounding and if said woman is used to it then well she can keep on going and going, and as @Mrs Langtrees "advised" me not so long ago the best 4 lettered word in a Brothel is .... NEXT and as long as the woman can keep on saying that then men will line up, and hand over $$$ to do so....

Can I ask? Have you ever been with A Natural Red haired woman? those on here that have know that creature wont ever back down, she will smile and say is that your A Game?
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You missed the point I was trying to make but you just proved my point. Gracias!
 
wetungy

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I tend to believe that all humans are capable of pushing past their values when they try to cope with something emotional. Poor coping can show up in many different ways. Cheating is just one.
 
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