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Wayne Kerr

I told a friend about his wife's infidelity. He appreciated me telling him. He separated and moved on.
 
SAO26.2

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The problem with getting involved is that you can't know for sure what's going on. Things may seem so clear to you, until you step in the middle of it and discover you were wrong. You're unlikely to offend anyone by minding your own business.
 
johnlou

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SAO26.2 said:
The problem with getting involved is that you can't know for sure what's going on. Things may seem so clear to you, until you step in the middle of it and discover you were wrong. You're unlikely to offend anyone by minding your own business.
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so true SAO26, your friends might have an arrangement that does not concern you or anyone else , that is what is called " PRIVACY " ( not your business ) and it could get messy and or embarrassing for you and your friends .

i say sit on the fence until you know 110% of what is going on :) :)

you might think you are doing the right thing but that is your opinion, and you know what , your opinion doesn't matter :)
 
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SAO26.2 said:
The problem with getting involved is that you can't know for sure what's going on. Things may seem so clear to you, until you step in the middle of it and discover you were wrong. You're unlikely to offend anyone by minding your own business.
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Saw a husband from 1 couple i know and a wife from another couple having coffee at a shopping center miles from where either lives yesterday. Were all friends but i didn't show myself. They looked in deep converation but werent holding hands or nothing. reminds me of this thread. What do I do?
1 tell her husband
2 tell his wife
3 front him
4 front her
5 front both of them together or seprate
6 too late now but should i of butted in and ask whats going on?
7 investingate further and then decide
8 forget it

I already decide #8 but could lose all of them if there having an affair. But i also could lose all of them and all my other mates in that group if i jump to conclusion and it was nothing. Shes a rep hes a contractor its possible they just bumped in each other. I would have a coffe with anyone i know if i bump into them somewhere and id knock the crap out of anyone that tried to make a bullshit story about it.
 
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What an interesting conversation to be having in the context of this forum... dont you think?

Far and away the large percentage of men who see the WL's I know are partnered in some way, be it marriage or bf/gf or whatever.

Are guys with WL partners all being cheated on? The easy answer is "yes, of course" ... or is cheating only something that happens for free? (its a rhetorical question)

My lady has a view on this...fyke anyone you want, but make sure you bring your heart home.

Over time I've gotten to know a fair number of WL and socialise (outside of 'work') with a small group of them. Over this time some of them gain boyfriends and very often I'll meet and become friendly with those guys. Occasionally those partnerships become more serious and its fairly normal to see an expressed desire from the guys for their girlfriend to stop working. Yet I _know_ that the girls continue to work whether full or part time....

Thats 'cheating' in the normal use of the word.

I am starting to wonder if we all collectively buy in to the social construct of exclusive partners just a bit too much - and this in turn then closes almost all possibility for mature and adult discussion on the subject ... which then leaves 'cheating' as the only solution to what must be a fairly normal desire to have many partners over ones life (given the number of people who do indeed have multiple partners ... it must be 'the norm' right?)

At the moment I'm in the 'leave it be' camp, but still feel uneasy sometimes, I don't know why.
 
johnlou

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gazzman said:
Saw a husband from 1 couple i know and a wife from another couple having coffee at a shopping center miles from where either lives yesterday. Were all friends but i didn't show myself. They looked in deep converation but werent holding hands or nothing. reminds me of this thread. What do I do?
1 tell her husband
2 tell his wife
3 front him
4 front her
5 front both of them together or seprate
6 too late now but should i of butted in and ask whats going on?
7 investingate further and then decide
8 forget it

I already decide #8 but could lose all of them if there having an affair. But i also could lose all of them and all my other mates in that group if i jump to conclusion and it was nothing. Shes a rep hes a contractor its possible they just bumped in each other. I would have a coffe with anyone i know if i bump into them somewhere and id knock the crap out of anyone that tried to make a bullshit story about it.
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gazzman unless you have a crystal ball you will not know what will happen , which ever way you go , number 8 is the smartest choice but with curiosity ( keep your eyes and ears open )
 
TheRoamingEyeball

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In an ideal world relationships would equal absolute communication. If that communication means you own up to wanting a non-monogamous relationship before the relationship gets serious I don't see why you wouldn't eventually find someone similar minded. Too many miscommunications happening out there when all it takes is to be honest about what you *want* rather than what society tells to you have (eg one woman, one man, 2.5 kids, etc). The pressure society puts on people to conform is immense, it's a shame people cheating on each other is an outcome.
 
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Wayne Kerr

Wise words indeed... Society pressure has no bearing on my way of thinking.

But you are right though communication is the key.
 
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Wayne Kerr

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You wanted to be Gregg Chappell? A all round Waynekerr
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Chapelli was a bit before my time.

Unfortunately the Australian 1st XI lost me to the world of sin. The light shone bright but it was a red light.
 
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buckland boy

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A trade school teacher. Just as well I never got into that. I just wouldn't have had the patience needed.
 
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Armada said:
Samantha Jones said that, and i agree with it 100%. What do you think?
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I agree, but only because generalisation regarding people is ultimately a lazy and stupid thing to do :p Never assume what people are capable of! One would hope in an ideal situation *some* kind of attachment would form after ten dates, some empathy and compassion so there isn't the fuck and run sociopathic tendency!
 
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The statement may have had some meaning in its original context. As a stand alone it is pretty meaningless. After all, in real life guys and girls can dump each other any time for any reason.
 
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wr3xr

From a guys POV (well mine but im sure many blokes on this site will disagree #knightsinshiningarmour) we want what we cant have. Once we get it, even after 10 dates, the thrill of the chase is over and we arent emotionally attracted to you so its on to the next girl or continue a FWB relationship where 95% of the time the girl will develop feelings and the bloke does a runner.

Mind you, these days its not so common. So many girls are DTF that its easier to just download an app and forget about the games lol
 
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