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Would that not depend on the age of the couple?
One day great career in business, a year later working girl in Langtrees! Why we work in brothel?
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Wow, we had more stuff back then when we were a smaller town.
Dallas
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28 because everything was pretty much perfect then. I had endless job and date offers, I had so much energy there wasn't enough hours in the day to use it and I played in a rock band and got paid lots for having a great time, working on a cruise ship and sex back then couldn't kill you 
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Please Do Happy2................
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Yeah Dallas I have been told by other men of your vintage.that the 60's were a great time for free love and safer sex28 because everything was pretty much perfect then. I had endless job and date offers, I had so much energy there wasn't enough hours in the day to use it and I played in a rock band and got paid lots for having a great time, working on a cruise ship and sex back then couldn't kill you
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28 because I'd learnt a lifetime of things by then, still enough time to settle down without being over the hill, don't have to worry about facial lines or too much exercise, settled into my own home, still young enough to go out "anywhere" with the girls, and the list goes on..........................x
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Ally Summers
21 because so I could slay heaps of pussy and never get worn out
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Yeah Dallas I have been told by other men of your vintage.that the 60's were a great time for free love and safer sex
hey I was only just born then.. not a lot of free love going on for me then until the 80's but even then it came at a price - that being hours wasted at smoke filled night clubs with expensive drinks. At least when I was a muso I got paid for being in there
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Ahoy;- Hmmmmm My favourite place;- "that being hours wasted at smoke filled night clubs with expensive drinks." Pirate heaven
hey I was only just born then.. not a lot of free love going on for me then until the 80's but even then it came at a price - that being hours wasted at smoke filled night clubs with expensive drinks. At least when I was a muso I got paid for being in there
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32 was probably my sweet spot, cos I looked several years younger but had the maturity of an older gent, and was under the illusion my best years were still ahead.
Over a decade on, I look and feel older and have nothing to look forward to other than being a grumpy old man -- nearly there, I think. Don't get me started on these young people today...
Over a decade on, I look and feel older and have nothing to look forward to other than being a grumpy old man -- nearly there, I think. Don't get me started on these young people today...
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I am granted what I am granted. ....that I guess is a result of all my collective actions in all my past lives and before.
If I was to put a desire out there though. .... I would love a great singing voice........
If I was to put a desire out there though. .... I would love a great singing voice........
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Happy2
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So would a lot of pop stars But their still making squillions
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Remember the scene from Sienfeld When Jerry was asked , when a girl fight was onIs there anything sexier than a hot bird saying this?
Yes. Watching her do it.
Why are men so attracted to watching two girls fight?
"Because in the back of a mans mind He's pretty sure it will end up as two girls kissing"
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Maybe I misunderstood but I interpreted 'slaying heaps of pussy' as happenings well beyond kissing.
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Its all gotta start from somewhere
Reminds me I have to shoot some feral cats
Im gunna slay some Pussies!!
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Sometimes I forget about your ready access to firearms. Perhaps I should be nicer in future.
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Nope.
I am mid 50's and as horny as I was at 17, with no sign of slowing down.
My desire is to live long and die on the job.
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some can some can't, went with my last Lady for 20 odd years, had the best sex going but then it just faded away. More on my part, just changed and never got it back. We did live together for the last 5 yrs of her life as great friends. I can even remember the last time we had sex which was 2004 which was still good but very different for me. Funny thing everyone still thought we were, when no one had no idea. Couldn't even convince a W/L that i was only a friend to her, which could of turned out much different!!!
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Even is sex isn't on the table some couples can simply cuddle for a few minutes each morning and be happy.
I think after a few weeks the itch would need to be scratched but the ones that are meant to be will make it work either way ♥
I think after a few weeks the itch would need to be scratched but the ones that are meant to be will make it work either way ♥
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While my marriage is not sexless, it has highs and lows...which are usually circumstancial. Never intended to be lacking in that departed but just are. Life happens.... I've now taken it upon myself to tell Him all the points in the day that I felt up for it... That way He knows I'm not just a drying up cow... Still want it...just in the midst of everything else going on it's not appropriate...Still want him...but other things for us both are higher on the priority ladder right now. Its about the maturity to cope with that. He is a gentleman and has never whined, begged or sulked about our sex life. Makes it much less stressful not to have that failure hanging over your head, that you haven't performed your "wifely" duty. I love him more for respecting me enough not to make me feel like a horrble witch. It's much easier to feel like a woman needed by her man when he treats her like he is a man. It's not hard to find the time or be in the mood when He acts like a man that wants His wife...the way a man needs a woman... Not like a adolescent thats not getting his own way...
I've had girlfriends with Husbands/Boyfriends that actually chuck tantrums about being denied sex. I think if there is too much pressure then it makes it harder to want it...
If two people make a healthy conscious decision and find their marriage leaning more towards companionship, and for lack of better term are sexless...then I guess they could be happy.
I've had girlfriends with Husbands/Boyfriends that actually chuck tantrums about being denied sex. I think if there is too much pressure then it makes it harder to want it...
If two people make a healthy conscious decision and find their marriage leaning more towards companionship, and for lack of better term are sexless...then I guess they could be happy.
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Very good points, Tanya and very well put. Thank you.
I can see exactly what you are saying here and it is all 100% valid. There is no fun at all in a wife giving in to performing sex, just because it is her duty. I get that sometime with my wife. She will say "OK, I can do my duty". No passion. No desire. No love. After accepting her "duty" one time and feeling nothing, it became all too clear that it would not be worth accepting that again. Hence, we now have a sexless marriage and I seek comfort and release in the wonderful world of professionals.
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I think it's a terribly sad thing for a woman to not want to have sex with her husband. Or even at all. I couldn't imagine what that would be like. I think being sexless in general is pretty much criminal. But if that kind of thing seeped into my marriage preferably I'd want my hubby to seek a business arrangement. Preferably without it crossing my radar, so I didn't have to be reminded of being a failure.
However- since I'm not wired in a 'vanilla' way and don't subscribe to egalitarian relationship values the expectations if my sexual availability do not dictate a free pass to shrug off sexy time. It's actually sometimes difficult posting my default one size fits all posts when my dynamic would have most people screaming abuse. Lol
However- since I'm not wired in a 'vanilla' way and don't subscribe to egalitarian relationship values the expectations if my sexual availability do not dictate a free pass to shrug off sexy time. It's actually sometimes difficult posting my default one size fits all posts when my dynamic would have most people screaming abuse. Lol
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@Tania Desire Great comment!
@Anastacia I agree!! My ex started losing interest a couple of years after we were married, and it very gradually got less and less but I kept thinking that it was going to pick up again, and I saw a councellor and tried to encourage her and I went at least 10 years without any.. and the incredible stress actually made me sick and affected my career and income and everything.. then I stood by her during her breast cancer and afterwards she wanted a divorce. People say lack of sex can't kill you but I disagree. Stress kills many people every year and for some of us, the levels of stress associated with no intimacy at all - not just the sex, is worse than high cholesterol , diabetes, excessive weight and no exercise combined. I know this because I've got friends with the latter who still have sex and are happy enough.
@Anastacia I agree!! My ex started losing interest a couple of years after we were married, and it very gradually got less and less but I kept thinking that it was going to pick up again, and I saw a councellor and tried to encourage her and I went at least 10 years without any.. and the incredible stress actually made me sick and affected my career and income and everything.. then I stood by her during her breast cancer and afterwards she wanted a divorce. People say lack of sex can't kill you but I disagree. Stress kills many people every year and for some of us, the levels of stress associated with no intimacy at all - not just the sex, is worse than high cholesterol , diabetes, excessive weight and no exercise combined. I know this because I've got friends with the latter who still have sex and are happy enough.