A man will never ask for help of his significant other most times things are not going well. Naturally trying to protect her or the family.
We won't answer truthfully when asked and the persistence of prying often leads to a argument or tension as she will know something is up.
Instead of asking if he is ok so three simple things and his problems may start not seeming so bad or he will open up.
1. Hug and kiss him as he leaves for work treat it like the first time and embrace him. ( I don't mean a blow job or sex this is good and if it naturally led to that then so be it. But for me if I am emotionally exhausted sex for me is hollow and transactional. But a real kiss or a true embrace fills up my cup.
2. A small g
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A man will never ask for help of his significant other most times things are not going well. Naturally trying to protect her or the family.
We won't answer truthfully when asked and the persistence of prying often leads to a argument or tension as she will know something is up.
Instead of asking if he is ok so three simple things and his problems may start not seeming so bad or he will open up.
1. Hug and kiss him as he leaves for work treat it like the first time and embrace him. ( I don't mean a blow job or sex this is good and if it naturally led to that then so be it. But for me if I am emotionally exhausted sex for me is hollow and transactional. But a real kiss or a true embrace fills up my cup.
2. A small gesture or gift for him ata. Random moment. Could be a favourite meal a back rub , a bottle of wine. Or arrange him to see his mayes..Anything that you know makes them smile.
3. Be patient everyone processes things at a different pace. With cost of living stresses Family work life and the old black dog that appears in all men's life . It isn't always easy for us to realise or rationalise when and if we can talk about an issue.