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nothing wrong with Chen giving out a bit extra if she's in the mood for it gus2012 .. each can "work it out" for themself
crashcrash
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Try Hong at XY Wellbeing in Carlisle if you do want a decent remedial massage only. Pay cheaper (provide HICAPS) for better results. She dose good man waxing as well. Can find the shop on Google Maps.
gus2012
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The review states that she said no to every advance yet the poster proceeded anyway. Thats not cool, thats harrassment. I sent Chen a copy of the review so she knows whats being said about her, and to expect a wave of punters...the rest is up to her. I have known her for years and know what sort of lady she is. Punting is punting but there are boundaries. If anyone has luck with her congratulations, but it needs to be mutually consentual. The review as written implies that was not the case. I dont think we should be treating any lady like that.
Tallboy
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Well said. The truth of it.
Channelle
Legend Member
That was my point exactly Gus.
In the end it seemed like all were happy and both enjoyed all that happened, so I guess all ok.
But there was a lot of No 's from the lady.
And for me, I'm all for the 1st No meaning No, and it not being a starting point to open negotiations.
And yes, then I will 'miss out and so be it, and I just get a good massage.
In the end it seemed like all were happy and both enjoyed all that happened, so I guess all ok.
But there was a lot of No 's from the lady.
And for me, I'm all for the 1st No meaning No, and it not being a starting point to open negotiations.
And yes, then I will 'miss out and so be it, and I just get a good massage.
Tallboy
Gold Member
Hey guys anyone tried mt chens in bassendean accross from the pub there ? Was driving through for work and thought i would give it a shot. Very friendly lady. I opted for 30 mins as i still had work to do and laid face up complety naked and covered with towel. As she walked in you could see she was expecting to see my back but i said i just wanted my legs and stomach done. She moved the towel a fair bit and exposed myself then quickly covered back up realising i was naked. She gave the greateat legit tease i have had in a long time, constantly going into my groin around my balls letting him pop out when he was hard, she would just grab it and put it aside then when i knew time was nearly over as she was wiping all the oil off i had to ask if extras were available, she smiled and said no. I even said what if i give you a 100 on top because she got me really worked up and still said no. So i hinted i could do myself and still smiling away and saying no . I likes was a little shocked after the 30 mins of non stop teasing but was happy to wait till i got home. Then out of no where after she wiped me complety free of oil she grabs more oil and does between my balls, legs and arse one more time massaging that bone bit below my balls at this stage im hard as a rock again and thought f**k it, threw the towel on the floor and gave myself the handjob and she just kept teasing me while i was going full steam ahead, i had the courage to try and touch her as she was wearing some sexy shorts and she didnt seem to mind so slid my hand up them and gave her a little squeeze, i exploded everywhere and she helped me clean up . After all that i would of been there for 45 mins and she only asked for 50 dollars , i gave her 100 to make up for all the mess i made. Texted her after saying how great it was and she was lovely to reply back and forth saying i made her weekend. Few weeks later tried again still no hand rub but got the same outcome could touch her and myself
Maybe few more visits she will finally give in like i finally got deb to doymmv
If anyone has had similar exp there or got hj id love to hear back or did i just get lucky
Cheers guys cheers
I think the fact that she allowed touching, did all the tease AND massaged all over the ball area at the end is pretty indicative that she was happy to do so.
The txt after wards and warm words exchanged also lead to respectful, shared time.
Follow up cost a with the same result confirm her being happy to provide that service.
As always - YMMV!
MartinD
Silver Member
Long time lurker here not much of a contributor, i don’t post much as I simply enjoy genuine massages and on here to find out who to avoid in order to not have the awkward conversation about extras. (Long story but owners of shop in Beaufort street scared the daylights out of me once when I said no to their girl)
I do have a question though, what leads guys to go to genuine massage places and push for extras, I get it if you are offered then good for you, but pushing to the point where it’s borderline aggressive and not even considering her saying ‘NO’
Also when you finally get a yes after harassing them for so long do you ever think they just doing what they have to do to stop you from possibly raping them, I mean you may think Gus sounds self righteous but I’m with him, this behaviour just ends up driving genuine therapists out of the business for fear and we will be left with mediocre massage parlours offering rub and tug. I think it would be stupid of me to go to the rub and tug shop and ask for a therapeutic massage but somehow seems the opposite is perfectly fine according to you lot.
NO means NO show some respect.
I do have a question though, what leads guys to go to genuine massage places and push for extras, I get it if you are offered then good for you, but pushing to the point where it’s borderline aggressive and not even considering her saying ‘NO’
Also when you finally get a yes after harassing them for so long do you ever think they just doing what they have to do to stop you from possibly raping them, I mean you may think Gus sounds self righteous but I’m with him, this behaviour just ends up driving genuine therapists out of the business for fear and we will be left with mediocre massage parlours offering rub and tug. I think it would be stupid of me to go to the rub and tug shop and ask for a therapeutic massage but somehow seems the opposite is perfectly fine according to you lot.
NO means NO show some respect.
toreitup123
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She works alone
toreitup123
Gold Member
I was happy to leave it when said no and be happy with just the tease but then she was the one to get more oil and focus just on the area. I thought massage was over when she wiped it all off but as she started to tease again i thouht it was fair game, she seemed fine about and we hav3 mesaaged back and forth about seeing each other more and more, so i take it she is also keen ??
toreitup123
Gold Member
I wouldnt just bat off if i didnt feel she wasnt in to it she implied it by rubbing the area and smiling after the 30 mins was up. Then helped clean up and a hug goodbye. If i felt i did anything wrong i wouldnt keep in touch and keep visiting her let alone post it on here but i see where you guys are coming from next time no matter how much they tease ill make sure its a deffiantly a yes before i proceed to play
Jiffy
Silver Member
Except the only person not anonymous in this situation is this Chen lady. Recent history would suggest that what follows now is a small army of porn-brained degenerates will descend upon this humble masseuse looking to one-up the OP and be the first to crack this nut.
It sounds like he might have been building a repor with her, maybe she was just stringing him along to get that sweet $50 tip, or maybe she was genuinely excited/intrigued by the encounter and it may have led to something more down line...
He'll likely never know now after telling his story to a bunch of strangers for a quick dopamine hit.... Many such cases.
You live and you learn. I've had to stop myself from responding to certain threads about my experience with X or Y that went outside of what could be described as part of a 'service'. I had to ask myself whether posting such things would benefit anyone (including myself down the road)other than my own ego in the moment.
Jiffy
Silver Member
I don't think you did anything wrong there mate. Not my style but the way she responded proved she wasn't insulted. None of us were there and alot of context is lost in retelling an encounter ( body language, eye contact, facial expressions).
You fucked up by posting it here though as someone has already told her about your posts. I wonder if you'll get any more texts and if so what the tone will be.
toreitup123
Gold Member
Yeah i do realise that, hopefully she doesnt get to many people trying her luck
i have an appointment with her tmr so hopefully it all goes well. I was just curious if she was like every other asian massage place and does this to new customers, i know a few places that would say no then after 2 or 3 visits and they get to know you there all over it like no tmr. But i guess im better off keeping my stories to myself and just see how it goes next time
Sky1983
Silver Member
Hi Mate. You made another mistake here. She now might know who post this. And I bet you might be not allowed to touch her anymore though she might not know it's you post this here. She will let NO one touching her at least for tomorrow. A bit awkward now. If I were you, might be better leave it find someone else instead. Got told. The bad energy could pass through massages. She might not tell you anything she had already known when the $ comes first. But the bad energy would be passed through if she is not happy with what you have done to her. Wired things I know but it exists no doubt. But still wish you a good luck for tmr.
Everyone here is right. I like reading different true stories, thoughts and experiences except those making up stories (some did and don't understand why).
toreitup123
Gold Member
I dont normally touch at all even at body heat etc just because i feel sorry for the girls needing to do this for extra money, but this time there was deffiantly a spark between us and its getting more and more each time we talk on the phone or msg
I will go in and see what happens worse case i get a bad massage
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Kieronlines
And this is why reviews are slow to hit the forum whilst I agree in principle, she said no and no means no I would have respected the no. We weren’t in the room we didn’t see Chen’s demeanour or reactions at the time. Ultimately she proceeded willingly it seems. Dobbing, for want of a better word, a forum member in to the lady because you have known her for years is poor form.
What’s written in here should stay in here.
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Deleted member 49173
the way I read toreitup's review , there was an 'end' to the No Thanks period of time and a clean up process , and then a new beginning with the application of additional oil .. so the 'No' had been had been recognised and accepted as such. 3times too many ?? maybe depends on the severity of the NO reply .. ??
had the said WL been absolute on the meaning of No, then I am pretty sure there would not have been a follow-up from her ..
and it seems it has become a 'beyond the call of duty' professional friendship to boot .. Good onya toreitup I say.
FYI .. I'm also in 100% agreement with others comments on harrassment etc, but seems 2 me this wasn't a rape situation at all.
and big shout out THANK YOU to the white knight for passing it on to the WL .. not !! I mean WHY ???????
had the said WL been absolute on the meaning of No, then I am pretty sure there would not have been a follow-up from her ..
and it seems it has become a 'beyond the call of duty' professional friendship to boot .. Good onya toreitup I say.
FYI .. I'm also in 100% agreement with others comments on harrassment etc, but seems 2 me this wasn't a rape situation at all.
and big shout out THANK YOU to the white knight for passing it on to the WL .. not !! I mean WHY ???????
steelblue
Gold Member
Now $300 with body slides and her age now 45 - she just turned 50 but could easily pass for 45.
I wonder If she has many takers?
SB
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Sweetchicken
Silver Member
Where does it say the price etc? Had anyone been recently since the new adds came up? I doubt that is her in the photos, but the new profile setup and bikini thing seems bizarre from someone who gives the most disinterested wristys going around
steelblue
Gold Member
Where does it say the price etc? Had anyone been recently since the new adds came up? I doubt that is her in the photos, but the new profile setup and bikini thing seems bizarre from someone who gives the most disinterested wristys going around
In her revised Locanto ad. It’s her in the photos for sure as these are from her IG account Agree she’s changed her tune radically - I think she may be going through hard times.
handyhands
Bronze Member
what type do they offer?
Sweetchicken
Silver Member
Natural breasts?? Your kidding me right?
Thick meat
Gold Member
I’d only return if I could fuck her. If only to try and put a smile on her face. The service she gives is worth no more than $100.
I'm guessing you don't think it's going to last long then
crashcrash
Silver Member
Then guess won't last long. They will find out soon. However, if you keep giving them money, the "relationship" might be last longer.