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abrolhos

Is it odd that I want to see a guy having sex with my wife.We have been married for a long time and I am the only guy that has fucked her?:love76:
 
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Sweet Nightingale

Honest reply...

It is pretty odd but then again, if she's happy to oblige...

As long as it doesn't turn ugly for both of you, then I guess...... it's not something one can define in a yes and no reply.

Kiss :)
xxx
 

DeeAnn D

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Honest reply...

It is pretty odd but then again, if she's happy to oblige...

As long as it doesn't turn ugly for both of you, then I guess...... it's not something one can define in a yes and no reply.

Kiss :)
xxx

I agree Nightingale, but then again you would be surprised how many guys actually would like that to happen there is more around than you think.
 
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frendoto

I agree Nightingale, but then again you would be surprised how many guys actually would like that to happen there is more around than you think.

That's exactly what I was going to say. I've been invited to do it twice but declined. I'd prob do now, though, as it'd be a buzz.
 
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Sweet Nightingale

Yes, I agree as well.

It does seem that some men get a buzz/kick out of seeing someone else, sometimes a complete stranger humping their wife. I still think that it comes down to the woman herself and no one else. If she wants it, thinks it is a good idea and she can get something out of it, then I would say it is ok.

The point here is also that this particular woman has never experienced another man apart from her partner. For sure not something we are used to in the last couple of decades or so.

Love always
xxx
 

Sir Stefan

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It is a male 'instinct' thing which is a latent desire lurking subconsciously within some, but not all, Males.... dates back to that ownership and dominance thing from the cave dweller days!

I have had a sexual relationship with no less than 5 Women who's husband/Partners were aware of...and encouraged the situation. Some wanted to watch, whilst others didn't.
 

happytimes

what you see is wat you get and alot more
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Hi Abrolhos, No it's not odd for you to want to watch another guy fuck your wife as long as she wants it to. Not just doing it because you want it to happen.
Also how would you feel if the guy fucking your wife got her off much more than you ever did? It can be a dangerous game,but then it can be alot of fun and enhance your sex life.
Just take it steady would be my opinion.
 

Bluegrass9

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Yes I agree that sometimes one should take some time to think before doing anything.

Myself I find no excitement to watch or let another male have sex with my wife.

Okay I wold enjoy watching a female having sex with my wife but it will never happen.

Having sex with another's wife I would enjoy as long as I knew 100% that thats what they both wanted.
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frendoto

Just to clarify my own post: I was invited to be the 3rd person twice but declined. Didn't feel comfortable with it. Times have changed!

I've never really been attracted to the idea of watching someone else have sex with any girlfriend i've had. However, the idea of swinging and 3somes are growing on me.
 
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abrolhos

Hi Abrolhos, No it's not odd for you to want to watch another guy fuck your wife as long as she wants it to. Not just doing it because you want it to happen.
Also how would you feel if the guy fucking your wife got her off much more than you ever did? It can be a dangerous game,but then it can be alot of fun and enhance your sex life.
Just take it steady would be my opinion.

Thanks for all of your comments and advise. I want some guy to "Fuck" her not make love so I would hope that she gets off with the excitement of a different guy licking her pussy and stroking his cock inside that lovely pussy.

I know she loves me and that sex is not love.
 
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Ozzie-A

We have been married for over 25 years and have had sex with others most of the time, both together and alone. I love seeing other guys (or women) fuck her :) It is so hot seeing her suck another guy or seeing and hearing her enjoying sex with other guys :)
 
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tremendouslyok

My wife does consent to fuck others occasionally. It would be every night if I had my way
 
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Ashley30

As long as you both keep the communication lines open with each other and no insecurity creeps in ..
Then go for it an have a blast it can be a very sexy, erotic experience!!!

Have Fun
Ashley xx
 
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Rachael

Hi Everyone

For some people sharing your partner can be very erotic. I would advise extreme caution. Make sure you are both into it. From talking to couples wishing to try this at my wk at Langtrees, I find it is either the male or female doing it merely to keep their partner happy. It can lead to jelousy and an eventual breakup. Make sure you keep the lines of communication open and discuss what each of you is willing to do.

have fun
rachael
 

askda01

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i would love to have someone watch me fuck thier wife just send me your email if your interested
 
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TessInBrisbane

Not odd at all!

I love seeing my partner with other women and he loves seeing me being fucked by other men.

Whatever floats you boat I reckon

Cheers

Tess xoxoxo
Tess In Brisbane Escort
 

aarsam

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It's not odd at all. Ihave been with my wife 16 years and we have done this. My advice would be to go out and meet a stranger whom you are both comfortable with and take it from their. Don't do this with a friend or aquaintance as it could leed to a uncomfortable situation. Never let feelings towards the 3rd party eventuate as this could harm your marrage
 
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Janet

Hi there,
yes it is VERY common that people have thoughts about their partner having sex with someone else. Your are probably curious how her sexual responses would be when being with someone else and not with you. You are curious whether or not another man could trigger different reactions, supposedly more intense or exciting responses, in her than you did for many years, after everything already turned into "routine", after the eroticism was faded off. The curiosity how your wife might react sexually to another, new partner also has to do with questioning yourself as a lover for her, supposedly and deep down inside. You could suggest it to her at the right moment and she might be open for it, dependent upon her sexual liberalism in general. You could suggest to her to visit a swinger club together. This is why long term couples visit swinger clubs: they are curious to have sex with their partner in a different environment, to become turned on seeing their partner sleeping with someone else and, reversed, being watched by their partner while doing someone else. It has to do with wanting break down the dyadic relationship and involving a third or more persons, at least temporarily or occasionally. As a matter of fact a lot of people find visiting a swinger club or involving some one else occasionally very stimulating and re-vitalizing for their sex life. And this is HOW you could explain it to your wife, when bringing up your desire. She cannot say more than "No". Keep this in mind. Most people in swinger clubs are in their middle age, I believe.
 

Onwithit

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QUOTE "it is verey common that people have thoughts about their partner having sex with someone else"

Seen that before LM .

But it's all true, I believe.
 
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Tessa

Is it odd that I want to see a guy having sex with my wife.We have been married for a long time and I am the only guy that has fucked her?:love76:

Its not odd at all, each to there own
BUTT here's a question for you, what if she enjoys it that much that she decides she wants to explore/experiment more but without you......It happens.....

Just a thought

Again everyone's wants and needs are different its all about communication!

Good luck :)
 
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funcouple

we have been swinging for a while now love watching her with others.
 

funfun

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Hi there funcouple,I would like too have some fun and laughter with you guys sometime.Im tall good looking athletic build dark hair clean and shaved.I have never tried swinging,but have for alongtime fantasy about exploring this exciting experiance.anyway if you want to know more/I KNOW I DO /my email is mowerman6@gmail or pm me.

p.s.please hurry.xxx thanks funfun
 
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