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wtcatmwp
Look guys, I don't know whether a SIMILAR story was in playboy or on SBS and frankly I don't care. No doubt there is a porno out there that is similar as well.
This is my story, my life, and it is true. If you would prefer that I no longer posted here because I seem fraudulent then say the word and I will be gone.
As for the rape comments, I don't feel that it was and surely my opinion counts for something on the subject. I wont be pursuing this in any shape or form.
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wtcatmwp
Wow, what is with the anger today?
I have not been isolated by anyone. Well by myself maybe, and only because it is hard to go to friends and say guess what I've been doing and then tell this story.
Of the 2 friends I have told both have said my boyfriend should be in the doghouse for setting me up but seeing as though I am enjoying it what would be the point in not continuing.
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Naughty Thoughts
Oh my apologies, I didn't mean to come across as angry. I'm just looking at the situation from a "worst case scenario" approach. If there's no malice and no bad intent then there isn't a problem. It's just something to watch out for.
I hope you don't feel unwelcome on the forum, we try and be friendly towards everyone, but with the internet being the way it is, it is easy for what was intended when someone wrote a comment to be taken a different way by a person that read it.
My previous post was intended with a "professor giving a lecture" voice rather than "zealot screaming on a table" voice.
I hope you don't feel unwelcome on the forum, we try and be friendly towards everyone, but with the internet being the way it is, it is easy for what was intended when someone wrote a comment to be taken a different way by a person that read it.
My previous post was intended with a "professor giving a lecture" voice rather than "zealot screaming on a table" voice.
asianguy77
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There was an episode on one of the US tv shows, where the mum accidently slept with the daughters boyfriend at a masquerade ball, with the mum thinking it was her husband and the boyfriend thinking it was his girlfriend, who was finally giving her viriginity to him? lol :
Hint: the tv show is also shown in Australia lol anyone know which show this is from??
Hint: the tv show is also shown in Australia lol anyone know which show this is from??
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that guy28
There was an episode on one of the US tv shows, where the mum accidently slept with the daughters boyfriend at a masquerade ball, with the mum thinking it was her husband and the boyfriend thinking it was his girlfriend, who was finally giving her viriginity to him? lol :
Hint: the tv show is also shown in Australia lol anyone know which show this is from??
I wanna say passions or days of our lives.
OR the bold and the beautiful.
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Ghost Protocol
"chances" does anyone else remember that old show ???
best boobs on aussie tv, untill underbelly came around
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best boobs on aussie tv, untill underbelly came around
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RICHIE2012
I don't know Rochelle personally but I have been following this Forum for a while and I think that she is a really genuine person.
I don't think that she was simply having a dig at you.
I believe, for what its worth, that she was complimenting you on the highly articulate manner in which you set out your post.
You certainly did a good job - look at how much interest and response you have evoked!!
Take care.
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asianguy77
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Asianguy you bastard.
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wtcatmwp
Yes, ok, sorry. A bit of an overreaction I guess.
I have a bit on my mind at the moment and your posts are certainly thought provoking.
For those that are interested, as opposed to those that just want to claim this is a stolen story from somewhere, I have had a long discussion with my boyfriend about all this.
The Australia Day weekend away is still on but only as a holiday. He assures me nothing will be pursued that weekend.
The threesome is off. He says he enjoys being with other men and has given me the ok to find other guys if and when I feel the need for us to share.
He apologised for the sneaky way in which he initiated the whole threesome scenario.
He also suggested that we stop the threesomes (with other women) completely for a few months as well to give us time just to be us. To be honest I am not sure I want that but maybe he has a point.
I think I have realised that I might just be a 'slut'. I mean I don't want to stop the threesomes with other women, I don't want to stop being with his mate (even though it's doing my head in). In fact I am now starting to wonder what other guys would be like sharing with us.
I am angry with him at the moment. We have an insanely good sex life, but just recently the lines have been blurred because we have introduced sex with friends and possibly my boss. Now our sex life has head numbing issues rather than just being fun. Why couldn't we just stay away from our friends?
And to stick up for him just a little, it was me who first introduced friends into our sex life. I started becoming really close with a dear friend who I have known since kinda. We were together a few times and I invited her home to share my boyfriend. It went really well but I think by doing that I opened the door.
Sorry for the long post, I needed to vent a bit. It feels good to write it down.
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OK, feel i need to jump into this thread!! There has been a lot of negative and warning comments coming from members, and i am sure many of those are said out of care for another person, but regardeless of that, it really isnt what this girl needs!
Hun, if you are enjoying it, just enjoy it. I mean, yes, so it was sneaky the way they introduced you into it, and you are probably right that getting involved with friends was probably not the best idea... But you are an adult and if you are enjoying it then make the most of it while it lasts!
A very good friend of mine once said, fuck first, friends second. Never the other way around!
Personally, I have found that if i was friends with somone then ended up in bed with them, by the time it ends (and it inevitably will) the friendship is altered, sometimes damaged beyond repair!
Whereas, fuck then become friends after and it is much MUCH easier.
I think he has been very sensible recommending you two take some time out of the swinging world and spend time together again, rebuild your relationship and learn to love each other without needing others there, before bringing other people back into your bed.
This forum is a wonderful place to work through this sort of thing - there will always be people who jump to conclusions, whether thats positive or negative, it is all in the way the posts are perceived.
Good luck with your persuits and keep us updated!
Hun, if you are enjoying it, just enjoy it. I mean, yes, so it was sneaky the way they introduced you into it, and you are probably right that getting involved with friends was probably not the best idea... But you are an adult and if you are enjoying it then make the most of it while it lasts!
A very good friend of mine once said, fuck first, friends second. Never the other way around!
Personally, I have found that if i was friends with somone then ended up in bed with them, by the time it ends (and it inevitably will) the friendship is altered, sometimes damaged beyond repair!
Whereas, fuck then become friends after and it is much MUCH easier.
I think he has been very sensible recommending you two take some time out of the swinging world and spend time together again, rebuild your relationship and learn to love each other without needing others there, before bringing other people back into your bed.
This forum is a wonderful place to work through this sort of thing - there will always be people who jump to conclusions, whether thats positive or negative, it is all in the way the posts are perceived.
Good luck with your persuits and keep us updated!
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Will your boss be dressed as batwomen 
I don't believe it's a good idea to sleep with your boss, especially in a 4some. It's going to lead to complications.
I don't believe it's a good idea to sleep with your boss, especially in a 4some. It's going to lead to complications.
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Peter
Puts a new way of thinking about getting the sack.Will your boss be dressed as batwomen
I don't believe it's a good idea to sleep with your boss, especially in a 4some. It's going to lead to complications.
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RICHIE2012
I think that you have been given very good advice in recent posts.
I still believe that with the boss its a case of crash and burn. :violent5:
But with the growth of information about your scenario I also see another element.
You should see your boyfriend and your relationship with him for what it really is.
Neither of you have a real commitment to the other.
So, don't tie yourself down - you are young (wish I was again). Go out there and have fun!!
But always be careful both emotionally and how your practise what you do.
Take care.
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wtcatmwp
Well, getting picked up in about 30 minutes.
Looking forward to this weekend whichever way it turns out.
I guess I'll be back Monday either looking for consolation or telling of a great weekend.
Wish me luck.
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jaxonjorja
;D;D ...especially if it was a "great weekend"!!:love10::love10:
Demon
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Yes, but either way.
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jaxonjorja
Yes, of course. You are right Demon.
...goes to hide in corner with tail between his legs :-((
...goes to hide in corner with tail between his legs :-((
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wtcatmwp
Well for those interested here’s the update from the weekend away.
The weekend didn’t turn out anything like planned and has caused some major rifts.
The boys did not honour their agreement to not pursue anything over the weekend (as many suggested). We were in the spa the first night and there was plenty of innuendo and friendly ribbing going on but it was going just a little too far for my liking.
I let my boyfriend know and to his credit he backed right off but his mate just wouldn’t let it be.
Anyway, we were all flirting a lot, to be honest things probably would have progressed naturally if they were allowed to.
Anyway, my boyfriends mate said something (I think he let slip that we had been together) and she (my boss) got up and slapped him as hard as I have ever seen anyone get slapped, followed by a few punches and some verbal abuse that would make a sailor blush. It’s actually quite funny watching an angry topless woman. She then ran off and locked herself in the bathroom.
He went in there after her and was in there for half an hour or so. He came out and told me she wanted to see me. Well there goes my weekend, I’m about to get the sh1t kicked out of me and lose my job.
It didn’t turn out that way though, she was actually angry with both the boys. My suspicions were correct, what had happened to me happened to her as well. They had been having threesomes with her too. We apologised to each other and all is forgiven. However it is a different story with her man, she didn’t like the deceitfulness and they are no longer together.
The boys were banished for the rest of the weekend and we became much closer over the rest of that weekend. For those that want the dirty details, we have kissed and fooled around a little. I hope things progress further but that will have to run its own course.
She has forgiven me for forgiving my boyfriend. She was very adamant at first that I should split from him. Once I explained our somewhat unconventional relationship she accepted the reasons and is actually quite intrigued by it.
Long story short. My boyfriend and I are still together and still enjoying the lifestyle we choose. The two of them are no longer together. Her and I are letting things progress naturally, we both want it but she still has issues with the whole being set up by the boys scenario. And I still have my job!! As for a threesome with my boyfriend and her, well that would be a long way away but she hasn’t said no to it.
The weekend didn’t turn out anything like planned and has caused some major rifts.
The boys did not honour their agreement to not pursue anything over the weekend (as many suggested). We were in the spa the first night and there was plenty of innuendo and friendly ribbing going on but it was going just a little too far for my liking.
I let my boyfriend know and to his credit he backed right off but his mate just wouldn’t let it be.
Anyway, we were all flirting a lot, to be honest things probably would have progressed naturally if they were allowed to.
Anyway, my boyfriends mate said something (I think he let slip that we had been together) and she (my boss) got up and slapped him as hard as I have ever seen anyone get slapped, followed by a few punches and some verbal abuse that would make a sailor blush. It’s actually quite funny watching an angry topless woman. She then ran off and locked herself in the bathroom.
He went in there after her and was in there for half an hour or so. He came out and told me she wanted to see me. Well there goes my weekend, I’m about to get the sh1t kicked out of me and lose my job.
It didn’t turn out that way though, she was actually angry with both the boys. My suspicions were correct, what had happened to me happened to her as well. They had been having threesomes with her too. We apologised to each other and all is forgiven. However it is a different story with her man, she didn’t like the deceitfulness and they are no longer together.
The boys were banished for the rest of the weekend and we became much closer over the rest of that weekend. For those that want the dirty details, we have kissed and fooled around a little. I hope things progress further but that will have to run its own course.
She has forgiven me for forgiving my boyfriend. She was very adamant at first that I should split from him. Once I explained our somewhat unconventional relationship she accepted the reasons and is actually quite intrigued by it.
Long story short. My boyfriend and I are still together and still enjoying the lifestyle we choose. The two of them are no longer together. Her and I are letting things progress naturally, we both want it but she still has issues with the whole being set up by the boys scenario. And I still have my job!! As for a threesome with my boyfriend and her, well that would be a long way away but she hasn’t said no to it.
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Well at least you still have your job and much friendlier with your boss, you still have your guy so in your world you could say things worked out ok.
For your boss she is single and sounds like it may stay that way.. You could say a lesson learnt, doing things on the sly usually backfires on someone, can't say he didn't deserve it. Maybe if he had told her he was doing the same with you and your guy, she would of not reacted like that. As you said she hasn't said no to a 3some with you and your guy, but i would say it would be along way off,, even to the point where she may very much become very attracted to you alone. All the best for your future encounters..
For your boss she is single and sounds like it may stay that way.. You could say a lesson learnt, doing things on the sly usually backfires on someone, can't say he didn't deserve it. Maybe if he had told her he was doing the same with you and your guy, she would of not reacted like that. As you said she hasn't said no to a 3some with you and your guy, but i would say it would be along way off,, even to the point where she may very much become very attracted to you alone. All the best for your future encounters..
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My advice is still to forget any sexual activities involving your boss. Unless it's a pretty ordinary job that you don't "care" if you loose (or have to leave).
What happens when other employees get suss (it will happen)? What happens when your BFs mate wants more 3some action or even worst, contacts you without your bf knowing... Has the potential to get very messy lol
What happens when other employees get suss (it will happen)? What happens when your BFs mate wants more 3some action or even worst, contacts you without your bf knowing... Has the potential to get very messy lol
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Alecia the Foxx
Purely my opinion - I think both these guys are using you up. Stop providing sex for free and start charging them.
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RICHIE2012
Sorry babe, but as I said before - its all crash and burn stuff!
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jaxonjorja
Thanks for your opinion, but I'm not too sure about it. wtcatmwp has stated a few times now that she is enjoying the "sex" side of things out of this whole saga, so arguably she is using just as much as she may be being used. Also, not everyone feels the need to charge for sex with their current boy / girlfriend, especially as she has just made a decision to stay with her boyfriend as quoted - "My boyfriend and I are still together and still enjoying the lifestyle we choose."
svengali
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Well, it sounds as if nothing these guys tell anyone can be taken as gospel when "Let's go away, just the two of us" leads to four in a hot tub.
Kudos to Boss lady for punching out her man and showing him the door and count yourself lucky you didn't get the same treatment from her.
In your shoes, I would be blowing the dust off my resume and lining up referees for the job-hunt I suspect you will be embarking on before much longer. There is a very good reason why Granny said "don't get your pussy where you get your bread and butter"
Kudos to Boss lady for punching out her man and showing him the door and count yourself lucky you didn't get the same treatment from her.
In your shoes, I would be blowing the dust off my resume and lining up referees for the job-hunt I suspect you will be embarking on before much longer. There is a very good reason why Granny said "don't get your pussy where you get your bread and butter"
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wtcatmwp
Why would other employees get suss? We're not going to go around at work and nick out the back for a quickie.
And if my boyfriends mate contacted me why would that be messy? Just because I enjoy sex, I enjoy multiple partners and I have been with him before does not mean that I would cheat.
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wtcatmwp
I probably should add that while we are still together he is certainly in the bad books right now. He still set me up, he still set someone else up, he still went back on his word when he said he wouldn't pursue anything that weekend.
I have no intention of leaving but he has to realise that he has some making up to do. The apologies will no longer do, I need to see a change to believe it now.