Yoda thank you... This post is the thing I needed to read... As a working girl who is in a heavily committed relationship this has shown me where things can go wrong and where I know things are right... Honestly, you had me on verge of tears....
Thank you Kirra. That means a lot. My objective in life is to do good. Inside and outside of the industry.
If you look around there are a lot of people that are ready to judge me harshly on my past behaviors and actions. And I probably deserve it.......
But my life mission is to help people. So if you got something out of that, then thank you for the privilege of making some difference
This is such a powerful insight to a complex relationship. Thank you for taking the time to share it with us Yoda. I'm sure it will help many people attempting to make his sort of relationship work.
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estafarr
You could call it "Someday you'll see the things you did."
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saab95tony
Yoda, Thank you. I am only new to the forum and you have helped me with how to go about seeing a working lady and dating her.Thank you Kirra. That means a lot. My objective in life is to do good. Inside and outside of the industry.
If you look around there are a lot of people that are ready to judge me harshly on my past behaviors and actions. And I probably deserve it.......
But my life mission is to help people. So if you got something out of that, then thank you for the privilege of making some difference
it is very difficult for both parties as need comfort from each other .
I meet a working lady and was totally overwhelmed by her beauty .
What should I do.
I would like to see more of this beautiful lady,but to want to cause any trouble for her as i don't want to make thing hard for her.
this lady I meet ,Is out of this world.
I need some help .
Don't know what to do.
i am very confused by my actions.
I would do anything for her (am I normal)
Help
Please
Yoda, Thank you. I am only new to the forum and you have helped me with how to go about seeing a working lady and dating her.
it is very difficult for both parties as need comfort from each other .
I meet a working lady and was totally overwhelmed by her beauty .
What should I do.
I would like to see more of this beautiful lady,but to want to cause any trouble for her as i don't want to make thing hard for her.
this lady I meet ,Is out of this world.
I need some help .
Don't know what to do.
i am very confused by my actions.
I would do anything for her (am I normal)
Help
Please
Send me an email yoda@langtrees.com we will talk
Alan Driver VIP Perth
Gold Member
Honest interviw Yoda. Its hard to share a good thing.
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saab95tony
Yes Yoda is a great person.
Thank you, Yoda, for your honesty, compassion and clarity. I think this is probably the most illuminating thread I've read on the Forum. x
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saab95tony
Yes kathy,This is a great thread. Thanks Yoda.
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JoepGeluk
Thanks for sharing
A wonderful read, thank you for sharing with us.
I find that trust is very important in a relationship, if you knew what she was doing from the beginning, surely you both would of put a fair amount of thought on it before considering to take it further....
In a way, you would of had a very strong relationship. You for being understanding of her job, and her for choosing you out of all the men who had no doubt asked every time for her private number....
You knew the real person she was. That is something very special.....
xx
I find that trust is very important in a relationship, if you knew what she was doing from the beginning, surely you both would of put a fair amount of thought on it before considering to take it further....
In a way, you would of had a very strong relationship. You for being understanding of her job, and her for choosing you out of all the men who had no doubt asked every time for her private number....
You knew the real person she was. That is something very special.....
xx
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saab95tony
Thank you Ginger Spice ,
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Kim Marcos
Amazing love story..thank you for sharing Sir. This makes me reflected my own reality.
For me ...I'm halfway on my own personal mission to get from point A to point B of my LIFE.
Suddenly someone swipe me off my feet head over hills in love... I wont stop or give up that personal goal to try the promise of love. If the love is still be around when i am ready i will embrace it without looking back. But it has to be my own decision for myself not for other person. Only then i will be truly satisfy and pull-fill...
By saying so my very strong maternal
instinct is always present so this is as sex worker is consider to be a way of a solid foundation for my future and my family one day.
As they said good thing can wait and if its mean to be it will strive against all odds
For me ...I'm halfway on my own personal mission to get from point A to point B of my LIFE.
Suddenly someone swipe me off my feet head over hills in love... I wont stop or give up that personal goal to try the promise of love. If the love is still be around when i am ready i will embrace it without looking back. But it has to be my own decision for myself not for other person. Only then i will be truly satisfy and pull-fill...
By saying so my very strong maternal
instinct is always present so this is as sex worker is consider to be a way of a solid foundation for my future and my family one day.
As they said good thing can wait and if its mean to be it will strive against all odds
Thank you for your response, it is much appreciated.
You have my thoughts on wishing you all the luck, strength, and wisdom in finding love and succeeding through every gift and challenge it has to offer.
Hi forum friends
I don't revist this thread often. And I am warmed by the kind wishes and encouraging words everyone has offered.
Winding the clock forward to the present day I have been fortunate/unfortunate enough to further this journey.
All the learnings from the relationship featured in this interview have been exercised with great success. However. .... new challenges were presented for me to ponder.
If there is enough interest I will share. But this stuff is heavy and I am respectful not to just throw it out there.
Look forward to hearing from you all.....
I don't revist this thread often. And I am warmed by the kind wishes and encouraging words everyone has offered.
Winding the clock forward to the present day I have been fortunate/unfortunate enough to further this journey.
All the learnings from the relationship featured in this interview have been exercised with great success. However. .... new challenges were presented for me to ponder.
If there is enough interest I will share. But this stuff is heavy and I am respectful not to just throw it out there.
Look forward to hearing from you all.....
When life is going well we PARTY. When it is not we PONDER. It is in pondering that we GROW.........Tony Robbins
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Claire Carter
Is part 2 coming/or has it been done?
Ive been (unsuccessfully) trying to make a relationship work (didnt met him through work, but he knows I work) and reading your POV has opened up my eyes and made me understand a few things a lot better.
Hope all is well in the love life Yoda xx
Ive been (unsuccessfully) trying to make a relationship work (didnt met him through work, but he knows I work) and reading your POV has opened up my eyes and made me understand a few things a lot better.
Hope all is well in the love life Yoda xx
Bring it on Yoda. Honesty is key to happiness, this I have learned through many a harsh life lesson also.
Honesty about others is actually pretty easy, honesty about ourselves is the truly hard part.
This was so mindblowing
It's definitely opened my eyes alot about how men must feel about being with a working lady
Thank you Yoda ♥
It's definitely opened my eyes alot about how men must feel about being with a working lady
Thank you Yoda ♥
Wow..........this old thread.................
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Paul L
Thank you for that frank and open discussion Yoda.
I myself have a wife that works within the industry. It is not an easy thing to for the lady or the partner. Jealousy has long been banished from my life and frank and open discussion is a massive part of keeping a relationship good. There are very good days and also the opposite. It is good to hear another persons view on this. I could elaborate so much more but i will just say once again this was an excellent interview.
I myself have a wife that works within the industry. It is not an easy thing to for the lady or the partner. Jealousy has long been banished from my life and frank and open discussion is a massive part of keeping a relationship good. There are very good days and also the opposite. It is good to hear another persons view on this. I could elaborate so much more but i will just say once again this was an excellent interview.
kneaded relief
Gold Member
I so taken up by Yoda,you truly are one most inspirational man,keep it going Chief
ozwarlock67
Legend Member
I so relate to this and commend Yoda for being able to tell his story.
Very unfortunately, I got personally involved with Carole who ran Carolina's Massage.(Adelaide) This is going back to around 2001 and she died in 2009.
Living with me periodically when she became homeless, I found that she was an alcoholic and compulsive gambler with tendencies to violence and delusions. She could never reconcile the fact that she was no longer making $5000 a week and gambled away $140,000 in six weeks, then declaring bankruptcy.
The bottom line is that getting into a relationship with a working girl is seldom fruitful because of the inability to seperate personal and professional lives. I've met girls in the industry who are wonderful ladies and tend to my requirements impeccably and without judgement. Beyond that, we are worlds apart and sometimes it's best to stay that way.
Very unfortunately, I got personally involved with Carole who ran Carolina's Massage.(Adelaide) This is going back to around 2001 and she died in 2009.
Living with me periodically when she became homeless, I found that she was an alcoholic and compulsive gambler with tendencies to violence and delusions. She could never reconcile the fact that she was no longer making $5000 a week and gambled away $140,000 in six weeks, then declaring bankruptcy.
The bottom line is that getting into a relationship with a working girl is seldom fruitful because of the inability to seperate personal and professional lives. I've met girls in the industry who are wonderful ladies and tend to my requirements impeccably and without judgement. Beyond that, we are worlds apart and sometimes it's best to stay that way.
What a great read, thanks for sharing Yoda. Some really good advice for people in relationships with a WL.
Winter W.
Gold Member
yes an old thread yoda, but it gels with more people than you guessed
good things are coming you way x
Winter W.
Gold Member
You are brave honest and a rare find paul. this is why you can be the man you are and why this works for you.
yes an old thread yoda, but it gels with more people than you guessed
Thank you.......good things have come my way
What a great read, thanks for sharing Yoda. Some really good advice for people in relationships with a WL.
It is certainly a tough road to go down that path. But it does not mean that there are ones among us that have what it takes to see that through....... Just not me .......