see this is where the problem is....it seems a bit selfish....ok spice up ya marriage but do u think it will work???? I have been thru this and it didn't work for me...I was cohersed into it not knowing what I was getting into...it can become very destructive and end in divorce
not to mention disease if ya not careful he now has HIV I am clean so think about what ya doing
red with u all the way on this one it doesn't work cos one party will get jealous of the other it's very destructive...best thing I did was ditching him
more to the point D is DISEASES...some people don't give a fk...they don't care what they are spreading around....god some dudes really piss me off sometimes...sorry venting again still trying to get the twat outta my head hes a jerk
sorry this sounds like a control thing....if ya really have to do that stuff should you really be together cos one of yas is gonna get hurt MAN IT DOESN'T WORK it will backfire one day/night wotever it's showing no respect for ya partner!!!! sorry venting again SO GLAD I AM SINGLE AND CLEAN!!!!!!!!
lets see swinging n bipolar dont mix I wish I had seen the writing on the wall long ago now it's left me with bad feelings about people (I don't have bi polar and I don't do drugs n stuff) in fact still have nightmares thats all I got to say
Edit by lone road - merged multiple posts into one post - please take care with your language when venting.