Hornyguyperth
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As someone who is a bit of an introvert, has self worth and confidence issues that's been on dating apps for years, I've gotten laid a few times. Even had a few FWB.
I have been told that I'm handsome and not bad looking but I'm not very masculine looking and struggle to put on muscle. In fact, people sometimes assume I'm gay.
I would even say I am kinda socially autistic for lack of a better word. Especially with women.
The photos you use in your profile makes a big difference. Personally I don't take many photos at all and I couldn't be bothered finding the photos that would increase my chances of getting attention.
Sometimes it's just a matter of being lucky enough that a certain type of woman is on the dating app. I've spoken to a woman before who told me after about a week of texting on and off that she is not looking for anything serious and just wants a regular sexual relationship with 1 man. Following this conversation she also straight out told me she likes to be fuc*** hard. I was over the moon.
So yeah this being all said, if you look reasonable ok and don't have similar problems to me, getting laid on dating apps isn't actually that hard. But it's also not really easy.
Getting a relationship is a totally different story. It depends what kind of woman you're looking for but for what I'm looking for, wife material women are like a needle in a haystack.
I have been told that I'm handsome and not bad looking but I'm not very masculine looking and struggle to put on muscle. In fact, people sometimes assume I'm gay.
I would even say I am kinda socially autistic for lack of a better word. Especially with women.
The photos you use in your profile makes a big difference. Personally I don't take many photos at all and I couldn't be bothered finding the photos that would increase my chances of getting attention.
Sometimes it's just a matter of being lucky enough that a certain type of woman is on the dating app. I've spoken to a woman before who told me after about a week of texting on and off that she is not looking for anything serious and just wants a regular sexual relationship with 1 man. Following this conversation she also straight out told me she likes to be fuc*** hard. I was over the moon.
So yeah this being all said, if you look reasonable ok and don't have similar problems to me, getting laid on dating apps isn't actually that hard. But it's also not really easy.
Getting a relationship is a totally different story. It depends what kind of woman you're looking for but for what I'm looking for, wife material women are like a needle in a haystack.
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