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[sabredog]

Really? Such a shame. I love to have a conversation. It is important to me as it establishes a rapport and the fact we are both people together, even just for a little while. Bonus is that I get to know the person I am spending quality time with.

Sir Prank. Even if the lady has limited English I still try to talk to her as you do, even if it gets difficult at times. One of my regular (very special) ladies has started again in English classes as she want to improve her English (it is perfectly good, at least to me). I told her she can help teach me better Thai.

 

[Sir Prank]

well yeah my dude at least i try and make an effort i understand sometimes there english isnt good. nothing is more awkward then saying hi and thats it the entire hour. i find that often after sex they open up and become more chatty. dunno why

 

[sircurious]

Maybe I am weird, but I like to have a conversation with my clients, not like the whole time not shut up kind but more than a few muttered words.. I find when you have a connection the whole experience is so much better more natural and enjoyable for all.

The last few weeks I have had several gentlemen who don't want to talk, and I find it so awkward not communicating at all through the booking.

So for punters and girls.
Do you care if the girl/guy make conversation or would you rather we just 'got on with it'

I offer GFE and to me being intimate involves atleast starting off with some light convo
I don't even care if the booking goes over time.

I actually personally feel like I have done something wrong or they regret seeing me, but then they book again and I realise maybe I'm expecting too much.

A xx

You are definitely not weird. I like to have a conversation especially at the beginning - lightens the mood and also its great to have a conversation between round one and two if having a longer booking.

 

[sabredog]

well yeah my dude at least i try and make an effort i understand sometimes there english isnt good. nothing is more awkward then saying hi and thats it the entire hour. i find that often after sex they open up and become more chatty. dunno why

There was a Hong Kong lady at TBC (cannot recall her name) a while back that spoke passable English. I honed in on the Hong Kong aspect as I love HK street food. That was the circuit breaker. We talked about food and dishes throughout the massage and my God, did she give all in regards to extras. Ahh, the memories.

 

[Channelle]

Totally agree with you Amelia, and nice conversation right up there with smiles and attitude for me.

It can also be a difficult for punters, and I know it was for me.
They was a thread ages ago about what not to say to ladies, and I probably ticked most of the things.
Many punters have spent 10 - 20 - 30 plus years, with simple conversation greeting customers with
'hello's, how's your day been, have you been busy?, how's business going?'
So early on I managed to get a lot of that wrong and quickly had to learn what not to say first.

 

[sabredog]

Totally agree with you Amelia, and nice conversation right up there with smiles and attitude for me.

It can also be a difficult for punters, and I know it was for me.
They was a thread ages ago about what not to say to ladies, and I probably ticked most of the things.
Many punters have spent 10 - 20 - 30 plus years, with simple conversation greeting customers with
'hello's, how's your day been, have you been busy?, how's business going?'
So early on I managed to get a lot of that wrong and quickly had to learn what not to say first.

you need to link that Chantelle, for the newer punters.

 

[AxeMan]

Conversation is definitely good, especially in a GFE setting. I find it always helps settle me and get a good rhythm going.

That said, at the hairdresser I like silence. So I can understand that some guys aren't interested in talking.

Horse for courses, I guess. If you try to engage and the client doesn't respond, then I guess that's just his preference.

 

[Sir Prank]

well when seeing a new working lady and/or client it is nervous and i can understand why people wouldnt know what to talk about even i struggle somtimes with that but i give it a go

 

[sabredog]

Maybe I am weird, but I like to have a conversation with my clients, not like the whole time not shut up kind but more than a few muttered words.. I find when you have a connection the whole experience is so much better more natural and enjoyable for all.

The last few weeks I have had several gentlemen who don't want to talk, and I find it so awkward not communicating at all through the booking.

So for punters and girls.
Do you care if the girl/guy make conversation or would you rather we just 'got on with it'

I offer GFE and to me being intimate involves atleast starting off with some light convo
I don't even care if the booking goes over time.

I actually personally feel like I have done something wrong or they regret seeing me, but then they book again and I realise maybe I'm expecting too much.

A xx

Damn Amelia, such a shame. I love talking to a lady I chose to visit. It adds so much to the experience and really gives a great connection. If it is in an AMP if I go quiet and I do tell the lady that I am truly enjoying the massage. But I do pick up the conversation during the booking time.

Talking to your partner during close contact is truly important as any form of intimacy. To not do that is simply odd, strange and downright selfish.

 

[MikeB]

Conversation, otherwise recognised as a core element of social intercourse, that is of itself a foundation of foreplay for that other enjoyable, arousing intercourse ...

 

[sabredog]

Keen

 

[AnonBandicoot1]

I really like a good conversation and feel it is an integral part of the who experience. I like someone who can laugh with me, at life and its absurdities. I need more than someone who can talk about "shoes" or the latest reality TV show. Although kittens are a good topic as I’ve recently adopted three who were bonded (sisters) and the adoption people wanted them to all go to the same forever home.

 

[osscar]

Wow you have started somethimg here amelia i think you have been voted the organiser and chairwoman lol

 

[Channelle]

you need to link that Chantelle, for the newer punters.

May have been this one:

https://www.talkinsex.com/threads/ten-worst-things-you-can-say-to-a-working-girl.60228/

 

[sabredog]

May have been this one:

https://www.talkinsex.com/threads/ten-worst-things-you-can-say-to-a-working-girl.60228/

Yep. That would be the one.

 

[Sir Prank]

well shit my go to to sentence to start a conversationn with my uber drivers are "busy day today mate?", im pretty guity of that haha i think i may of said it to a lady once or twice after they ask me busy day today hun. i say yeah full on day today wbu. its just my go to thing hahahaha

 

[Sir Prank]

i agree lets do this

 

[Lukey]

well shit my go to to sentence to start a conversationn with my uber drivers are "busy day today mate?", im pretty guity of that haha i think i may of said it to a lady once or twice after they ask me busy day today hun. i say yeah full on day today wbu. its just my go to thing hahahaha

There’s plenty of worse things to say to a WL I’m sure

 

[osscar]

Maybe I am weird, but I like to have a conversation with my clients, not like the whole time not shut up kind but more than a few muttered words.. I find when you have a connection the whole experience is so much better more natural and enjoyable for all.

The last few weeks I have had several gentlemen who don't want to talk, and I find it so awkward not communicating at all through the booking.

So for punters and girls.
Do you care if the girl/guy make conversation or would you rather we just 'got on with it'

I offer GFE and to me being intimate involves atleast starting off with some light convo
I don't even care if the booking goes over time.

I actually personally feel like I have done something wrong or they regret seeing me, but then they book again and I realise maybe I'm expecting too much.

A xx

Completely agree a good chat is a big element of the experience as i dont realy see a lot of ladies in my daily life to exchange comversations. I have a regular in perth that likes to chat before and during and after and often i stay longer with her due to us getting into good conversations about life love and everything in between. I feel we have a genuine connection which is important for that true GFE. Having said that she also knows how to shut me up lol.
You sound quite similar to my regular lady in that you like to engage abd find connection.

 

[James Cable]

Yep I just love a chat before, during and after the main event. I think it just breaks the ice, both parties get to know each other much better and dare I say it but it adds that personal touch. Everyone's happy win win situation for both client and provider.

 

[AmeliaKennedy]

Seems we are all on the same page, I know I sell my body but it doesn't feel like it when there is a connection, when there is nothing I just feel like a doll

 

[AmeliaKennedy]

Wow you have started somethimg here amelia i think you have been voted the organiser and chairwoman lol

Pretty sure it was your suggestion cheeky!

But would be pretty cool to all catch up once a week or fortnight try a diff venue, you guys can share hints and hot tips of local girls you've tried me and Bryanne can get insider knowledge of what to do and not to do imagine...

 

[sabredog]

Seems we are all on the same page, I know I sell my body but it doesn't feel like it when there is a connection, when there is nothing I just feel like a doll

You sound bloody awesome Amelia.

 

[AxeMan]

Probably just because most punters will be coming in later and there's a limit to the number of hours the girls can massage etc.

 

[osscar]

Pretty sure it was your suggestion cheeky!

But would be pretty cool to all catch up once a week or fortnight try a diff venue, you guys can share hints and hot tips of local girls you've tried me and Bryanne can get insider knowledge of what to do and not to do imagine...

Lol it might have been but im happy for you to take charge lol and would be an interesting meeting for sure

 

[Lingus]

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[Slugger1]

Maybe I am weird, but I like to have a conversation with my clients, not like the whole time not shut up kind but more than a few muttered words.. I find when you have a connection the whole experience is so much better more natural and enjoyable for all.

The last few weeks I have had several gentlemen who don't want to talk, and I find it so awkward not communicating at all through the booking.

So for punters and girls.
Do you care if the girl/guy make conversation or would you rather we just 'got on with it'

I offer GFE and to me being intimate involves atleast starting off with some light convo
I don't even care if the booking goes over time.

I actually personally feel like I have done something wrong or they regret seeing me, but then they book again and I realise maybe I'm expecting too much.

A xx

Great topic Amelia you are a breath of fresh air to the forum and sound and look awesome.

I am curious is it mainly the older guys who want to engage in conversation?

As an older guy myself I like to chat and try and find a connection, it also gives me time to catch my breath ha ha.

I think it also makes it less transactional but I can also understand why some guys just want to get on with it.

It really depends on what they want out of their booking.

I think it says a lot about you that you care and you want your customers to enjoy their time with you.

Some ladies just want to get you off as quick as possible and move you out.

 

[JimmyJamz]

Used to be very frequent at cafe that has a WL as a regular, talking to the staff there she was a truly lovely customer.

I'd be up for breakfast around town on a weekend- weekdays are just almost impossible to make things for the schedule

 

[AmeliaKennedy]

Great topic Amelia you are a breath of fresh air to the forum and sound and look awesome.

I am curious is it mainly the older guys who want to engage in conversation?

As an older guy myself I like to chat and try and find a connection, it also gives me time to catch my breath ha ha.

I think it also makes it less transactional but I can also understand why some guys just want to get on with it.

It really depends on what they want out of their booking.

I think it says a lot about you that you care and you want your customers to enjoy their time with you.

Some ladies just want to get you off as quick as possible and move you out.

Morning!

Thanks for the kind words

No all ages, I've been super lucky I would say 9 out of 10 men have been amazing and I actually could spend the day with them (good odds in my previous occupation it was 1 out of 10 people who were nice lol)

But its the occasional one and both the ones I mentioned at the beginning of the thread were older, it just makes it awkward because I'm scared to speak and ruin their experience but at the same time during intimacy you do need some communication even to know what they enjoy or position changes.. like I said it feels like I'm a doll just kinda being moved or insinuating what's next without any talk, also I when they arrived and left i felt I was over compensating with my talk because I was getting nothing back! And then when they asked for another booking I declined because it just was just to awkward and felt staged and fake.

One asked for a 5 hour booking the next day.. I asked what would we do if im not allowed to talk.. he said I didn't think that far ahead.. money isn't everything I declined because I can't keep quiet for 5 hours

A x

 

[sabredog]

But its the occasional one and both the ones I mentioned at the beginning of the thread were older, it just makes it awkward because I'm scared to speak and ruin their experience but at the same time during intimacy you do need some communication even to know what they enjoy or position changes.. like I said it feels like I'm a doll just kinda being moved or insinuating what's next without any talk, also I when they arrived and left i felt I was over compensating with my talk because I was getting nothing back! And then when they asked for another booking I declined because it just was just to awkward and felt staged and fake.

One asked for a 5 hour booking the next day.. I asked what would we do if im not allowed to talk.. he said I didn't think that far ahead.. money isn't everything I declined because I can't keep quiet for 5 hours

A x

Bloody hell. Does a person like that even have friends? Perhaps if he does they might pass the hat around and buy him an inflatable doll if that is all he is seeking!

Sorry to hear that Amelia