Agreeing with pamplonabull on all this.
Have experienced not being offered anything at times, and not too bothered by it.
Always put it down to this uncanny thing where I bare no physical similarities to either Clooney or Pitt.
Having read lots on here, my first visit to Tutka in Langford there was no indications of extras at all.
And my second visit there to see her co-worker MayMay, there was even less, with her directing me to the shop 100 metres away if I 'wanted that sort of thing'.
Am sure others must have had greater success with her.
But was not fussed, and always said I returned there because I enjoyed the friendly, happy nature of all there.