Ok, so after months and months of thinking about it, I finally decided to give Club XS a go. I sent Cam an email asking to have a tour of the club but before he could reply, my girlfriend called him up to book a time to look around before the club opened.
Neither of us have been to a swinger's club before, so we were both pretty nervous, but Cam was very friendly and helpful and answered all our questions. We are both under 30 and weren't really sure what to expect.
We came back later on that night around midnight and again we were both so nervous that we just stayed at the bar drinking, but the barman was really good at helping us relax and introduced us to a couple of other newbies and told us a bit more about what the club was all about.
After a bit of dancing, drinking and chatting, we both started to get into it a bit more. The great thing was, there was no pressure to do anything you didn't feel comfortable with, and there was a really chilled out, friendly atmosphere. We chatted to a few couples, but didn't feel ready to get into the swinging scene (not that anyone was pressuring us to), so after a while we went upstairs to one of the rooms and had some awesome sex with each other. We locked the door for privacy, but the curtains are kind of see through, and that was a huge turn -on for me knowing people could watch if they wanted.
We left shortly after around 3am, which was a bit of a shame, because it looked like things were just starting to get heated up. There was a real mix of people there, there were a few around our age group and there seemed to be a couple of other people there on their first visit which helped us relax.
I would definately recommend Club XS to anyone who is open-minded about sex and just wants a fun night out. It's pretty much a regular nightclub, but without the agro or drunken dickheads you sometimes get on a night out, except the best thing is, if you like you can go upstairs and have sex and no-ones going to start a fight with you if you tell them you think their girlfriend is hot! What's not to like?! The music was pretty good too, and the poles make the dancefloor a lot of fun
