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I'm genuinely very intrigued about the whole topic of women losing interest in sex, men cheating, sex getting boring all of it just makes me want to learn more. So this post may be a little long!
I hear so often about how women lose interest in sex altogether either during menopause or after 10years of marriage even 12months or how it just becomes repetitive and boring.
Generally when do you notice the decrease or lack of sex, how long does it usually happen after being with someone? If it has or does happen early on say within the first 6 months to a year or even earlier in a relationship and you have a high sex drive, would it be a reason to break up, is it that much of an issue to some?
Surely there must be men who also lose interest in it? And if so do you lose interest eventually because it's with the same person for such a long time and you crave change or do you lose interest in sex altogether regardless of who it is with? Do you think or would you be okay with your wife going elsewhere or do you still just satisfy her needs to keep her happy?
Relationships are suppose to be about trust and communication so are there any couples who discuss there sex life openly and are okay with the other going elsewhere? And if so, are there rules as to how often or when etc? Is it ever discussed? And does it effect the relationship in a good way?
It's happened to me a couple of times actually where I have had a higher sex drive then the guy had. The first time it happened was with a guy I had only been seeing for a month or so, I remember after staying there 4 nights in a row only having had sex the first night thinking am I bad in bed, is he not interested, what's wrong with me especially as we had only slept together not even 2 weeks before, so I do understand how guys would feel going without sex from their partners especially for months.
I can never get enough sex with my partner, even if were both exhausted we can't keep our hands off each other or if I'm exhausted but I know he wants to have sex I still will, not forcing myself as though it's a chore but just because I love pleasing him and once you start fooling around I'm very easily put in the mood. It never seems to get boring either, it's never the same as it was the time before. Obviously some of the reason is because we have only been together a year so it's still new but so far it continues to get better and better.
Is there anyone that's been in or is in a long term relationship and hasn't lost the desire, I mean neither one of you have. You both still have a healthy sex drive and it hasn't gone stale?
Obviously in a marriage or any relationship sex isn't the number 1 and only part of the relationship but I do consider it to be a big part and I can't imagine sleeping next to someone for months or longer and not feeling the intimacy with them or having the desire to want to be with them but from everything I seem to read and hear from men it WILL eventually happen and there's nothing I can do to change it! Seems to be just a part of life?
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