Why do Women become Prostitutes?
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Maria Mendes
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By choice. I am proud of what I do and I like interacting with people at all levels. It is a profession, it involves skills, knowledge and expertise, and can be a significant source of income. It also carries significant stigma and is often criminalised. It is important for Australia to completely decriminalise sex work in every state so that such industry is regulated and supported by the same types of laws that protect other professions.
ingridguerci
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Because that's what society needs. In nature, males always seek to mate with multiple females. In human society, men naturally also desire to mate with many women. However, this can lead to various problems, such as diseases and broken marriages. Therefore, having sex with prostitutes and paying for it is a reasonable option. To maintain social balance, we need the sex industry, but it must also be properly regulated and controlled.
ingridguerci
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When society needs something, there will always be someone to do it—for example, drug dealing or killing. Because if no one does it, the price will keep going up until someone agrees to do it for that price. The main motivation for women to become prostitutes is money. A small number do it out of enjoyment, for the experience, or because they are forced to/
Men may seek out prost*tutes for various reasons, including the desire for sexual variety, convenience, or the need for companionship without emotional commitment.
Shazaam
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Prostitution's not regulated in the state of Western Australia. Seem's to be working out ok. You said it must be regulated.
Shazaam
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ingridguerci
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While it may seem like things are "working out okay" without regulation in places like Western Australia, the absence of regulation doesn’t mean there are no negative consequences. It's similar to a tumor growing silently — everything may appear fine at first, but long-term damage is inevitable.
When prostitution is left unregulated, we risk a rise in sexually transmitted infections due to a lack of health oversight. More importantly, society begins to erode its respect for certain ethical values — particularly those surrounding the dignity and integrity of women. Over time, these shifts can have profound consequences for social cohesion, family structures, and gender dynamics.
To be clear, I have no personal issue with sex workers — it’s their choice, and clearly, there’s a societal demand for what they provide. But if we're being honest, when it comes to marriage, most men — myself included — prefer a partner with strong moral grounding. That's not to shame sex workers, but to recognize that the nature of their work often conflicts with the qualities traditionally valued in a lifelong partner.
So while deregulation may appear harmless on the surface, it can slowly undermine public health and cultural values in ways that are difficult to reverse later on.
Shazaam
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Yeah true a prostitute sucked my nipple once and in a state with prostitution regulation/sex education, that wouldn't have happened I think. One can get herpes on their nipple but I apparently didn't get herpes according to blood test nor have I had sores. Also I belive in states where prositution is regulated, one is given a full plastic sheet for a head job and probably gloves for all handjobs. I've heard of an apron with a hole in it and one sticks their wrapped member through the hole for sex.
Regulation is control. It removes our rights and I will never support that. Comments in regards to undermining public health are just ridiculous imo. It's up to each individual including the clients using the services to take responsibility for their own health and reduce the risks. There is lots of data support the risk from having sex with a sex worker is much lower then picking up a random for sex. Sex workers are more alert and aware of the risks. Thus having regular sexual health checks.
As for relationships and being a sex worker. This new crap around body count.
Please don't get me started. Like seriously talk about call the kettle black. Coming onto TS and pulling the moral card.
Don't go projecting your unhealed trauma and suppression around women here.
A women choosing to be a sex worker, dosent make her a bad person. It can bring many positive aspects to a relationship. Secondly not all men share this view. I was married when I entered this industry. Widowed, and a 12 year relationship. Currently relationship has never judged either. Our work choices dosent make us any less of a human.
Regulation for cultural reasons. I have never heard of something as misogynist as this. Please tell me your not requiring set cultural or religion as part of said regulation?
My body, my choice. And NO man will ever decide over that. And this is coming from a traditionalist. I'm not a feminist. I'm a mother, grandmother, partner, educated and once employed by a church. I'm outraged to be honest
As for relationships and being a sex worker. This new crap around body count.
Please don't get me started. Like seriously talk about call the kettle black. Coming onto TS and pulling the moral card.
Don't go projecting your unhealed trauma and suppression around women here.
A women choosing to be a sex worker, dosent make her a bad person. It can bring many positive aspects to a relationship. Secondly not all men share this view. I was married when I entered this industry. Widowed, and a 12 year relationship. Currently relationship has never judged either. Our work choices dosent make us any less of a human.
Regulation for cultural reasons. I have never heard of something as misogynist as this. Please tell me your not requiring set cultural or religion as part of said regulation?
My body, my choice. And NO man will ever decide over that. And this is coming from a traditionalist. I'm not a feminist. I'm a mother, grandmother, partner, educated and once employed by a church. I'm outraged to be honest
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Maria Mendes
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**** Many advocates argue that sex work is a legitimate profession and should be regulated as such.
@Taylor Tara is a member here on Talkinsex. I've read her two biographies and just discovered there may be another but not sure. Very insightful.
Who and where are advocating?
Legitimate work yes but profession.
Honey no qualifications, no university or college degrees are needed or required. Yes particular skill sets and professional qualifications and or education in counselling, social work, disability, psychology etc will enable a SW to cater to clients emotional needs better. End of the day we are woman who know how to please and pamper to men's needs. Some of society view us at the bottom of the pile as we seen in this thread.
What benifits to you envisage with regulation? Genuine question. Other than health and safety. While not legal or very least decriminalised. Risk involved in reporting rape and attacks.
As long as your bubbly, polite, know how to fuck and suck and treat the men like kings. You will be successful as a sex worker.
Don't fantasies it to be something it's not. No little girl says I dream of being a hooker when I grow up.
Maria Mendes
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I respect your opinion.
But you have failed to answer the question luv
I asked who and where is the advocating taking place. And what benefits to you envisage occering from regulation?
Claims of many but failing to say who. I am genuinely interested in hearing imput from others working in this industry.
I'm not having a go at you either sweetheart. All opinions and views are valid. We don't have to share them either.
I feel that most of the time, men do love their women but would prefer going to prostitutes to have fun and share their feelings, which they can't with their women. Nowadays, it's natural.
No idea what to do
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Companionship with my regular Lady, + The Best SEX and fun i have had in a long time,
Seeing my Regular for the past 7 years and still enjoying her amazing skills.
The Frenchman
Seeing my Regular for the past 7 years and still enjoying her amazing skills.
The Frenchman
Cut through the million well meaning and not so much reasons. Money..
And it’s not even the worst thing people do for money when they really need it.
All people are only people doing their best according to what they have and know at the time.
And nothing leads to doom or enlightenment. Everything is just part of a journey
And it’s not even the worst thing people do for money when they really need it.
All people are only people doing their best according to what they have and know at the time.
And nothing leads to doom or enlightenment. Everything is just part of a journey
And there is the problem. We are normalising cheating and not meeting both physically and emotional needs at home.
Healthy, well adjusted relationship where needs are being met don't seek validation or sharing feelings outside of the home. The moral decline in society. Normalising things such as only fans , infidelity etc
Women are a lot to blame. We have become to busy, to tired and throw away society. Including relationships. It's easier for men to go outside of thier relationships to have thier needs met. A persons attachment style is a indicator too in how they view sex. Someone with an avoidant attachment is more likely to have little emotional attachment to sex.
I run workshops on healthy relationships and emotional trauma including suppression. Unresolved trauma and the style or relationship a person witnessed in thier childhood plays a huge roll in adulthood. We now how the issue of so many single parent households. Children have not witnessed a loving family between man and woman.
If women are not treating thier men like kings and attending to thier needs. Men will go elsewhere.
Bunny the wife of singer Jelly Roll said in her podcast. Never let your man leave the house hungry or horny. Because there will always be a whore on a corner with a sandwich.
As the answer the question of this post. I was a sex worker for the financial gain and the fact I'm a nympho. I'm open and honest that sex is an addiction for me. Having little emotional attachment towards sex made it rather easy for me personally.
Bonnie
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The industry is misperceived in multiple ways.
Reasons men seek their time with sex workers include a lack of sex in their marriages, it's a quick simple and clean way to have intercourse, fulfilling their desires and fantasies, they want to have fun with a good-looking lady, or expand their knowledge in the bedroom.
Reasons women become sex workers include pleasure, fun, good for health (physically and reduces stress), $'s, can choose own hours, and enjoy getting dressup while at work.