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Maybe less secrecy would = better dates?That is my secret , like to keep a bit of mystery .
Why Do Guys Never Want To Take You On Dates?
- Thread starter Katrina Kiss
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Not true I have been open & honest & got me no whereMaybe less secrecy would = better dates?
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So how do you spoil yourself then ?
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Because your a working lady.. it's one or the other.. sorry luv but it's the simple rule of the life we chose to live
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Michaela Cash is a working lady, and she found a partner, as did Jacinda Arden
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Well that's great to hear there are exceptions to the rule.. I hope they have found true happiness 
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Because your a working lady.. it's one or the other.. sorry luv but it's the simple rule of the life we chose to live
Really how can it work with a WL, you work nights, he works days, how many quality hours can you spend together..... plus you are shagging other men for a living, hes hoping no one at his office job ever books you, I don't know how this ever work successfully long term with you doing nights and him days... and The weekend would be catching up on a lot of sleep and resting your body..
I could see say a Stripper / Pole Dancer with the same day worker being more successful in some respects as she isn't shagging her clients she is just dancing for them.
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Then there's the 'Professional Private' ladies who live a clean, healthy and structured lifestyle whilst working Monday to Friday daytime 'office hours'.. great foundation for any working lady who has an existing ' heathly' relationship or one who is looking to start one.. .. Enjoy your day Phoebe
.. Enjoy your day Phoebe
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Then there's the 'Professional Private' ladies who live a clean, healthy and structured lifestyle whilst working Monday to Friday daytime 'office hours'.. great foundation for any working lady who has an existing ' heathly' relationship or one who is looking to start one..
Not many men would date a working lady, its not like he's going to ask how your day was, and hears intimate details of your 3rd client for the day now lets be practical and that is what puts many a male off dating escorts now isn't it?
You escorts here in this nation have created your own trap by raising rates well and truly above even most male wages, so even if you wish to leave you would find it hard going into a normal salaried wage role, and also having to work 8 hours a day etc etc, and not have the fun side of work either like all you girls do in The Langtrees lounge.
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Thank you Phoebe for your last post ..
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Thank you Phoebe for your last post
I am curious like a cat, is that a good thank you or just a thank you, but like Sinatra you will do it your way ? LOL
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I wonder...Because your a working lady.. it's one or the other.. sorry luv but it's the simple rule of the life we chose to live
Did your recent ex know
It would take a very secure man indeed to have a relationship with an active WL...Because your a working lady.. it's one or the other.. sorry luv but it's the simple rule of the life we chose to live
I wonder KK was your boyfriend aware of what you do for a living when you first got together & if not how long before you told him & how did you tell him??
Amen.
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There are three sides to every story...Not true I have been open & honest & got me no where
Your version...
His version...
And last but not least...
The truth.
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That is like your gay cousin, it never comes out!
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When I take me on a romantic River cruise
I am taking myself out tonight 4 s lovely meal & tmr I am going for a massage . I can’t wait !
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AwesomeMichaela Cash is a working lady, and she found a partner, as did Jacinda Arden
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There are three sides to every story...
Your version...
His version...
And last but not least...
The truth.
That is so true, but the truth always comes out in the wash in the end . Just a matter of time !There are three sides to every story...
Your version...
His version...
And last but not least...
The truth.
Josfer72
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If you ever fancy that picnic I can make myself available!When I take me on a romantic River cruise
I am taking myself out tonight 4 s lovely meal & tmr I am going for a massage . I can’t wait !
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Bus mans holiday ? then
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It would no doubt be very interesting to hear your boyfriends side of the story Katrina and I can't help but wonder how he coped with not only being in a relationship with a WL but the anguish and pain he must have felt every time he was intimate with you or even kissed you knowing full well that your body is readily available to so many other men...That is so true, but the truth always comes out in the wash in the end . Just a matter of time !
He must have absolutely worshipped you to keep putting himself through all of that pain and suffering...
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tmr I am going for a massage . I can’t wait !
But no one has booked me
Oh you booked someone else.
Josfer72
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Having some experience of this, having dated a WL for a couple of years before, it's not easy but it can work!
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My vague memory recalls
When I was younger... dating was a tool to get to know someone
Also to work your way into their pants
Nowadays... maybe everyone's just banging away without getting to know people
They don't even know how to date anymore
When I was younger... dating was a tool to get to know someone
Also to work your way into their pants
Nowadays... maybe everyone's just banging away without getting to know people
They don't even know how to date anymore
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swipe left, talk for 5 mins, thats enough hook up f*ck for a few hours then she calls the police screams R*pe you are dragged of to the police cells and get introduced to Bubba in cell 5 whom hears you are an alleged r*pist and beats you to near death... She goes on the news crying and in hysterics and everyone feels sorry for her, while your life is turning to Sh!t in cell 5.... Yep dating today is wonderful!
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I have found the opposite and agree with alot of comments above.
These days nobody wants to date. Dating is perceived as the serious part and casual is just catching up to hang out and have sex.
Hell on tinder I've had more girls keen to hang out at 10pm at night than others wanting to catch up for dinner, a drink or a walking date around herrisson Island or the coast etc.
I can talk to a girl, get to know them and be completely upfront that I like them and want to take them out. It just scares them off..
Recently all the signs were there that one girl was keen, I asked people who had seen us interact, even had the probing questions about my plans etc. Yet when I ask her out the response is she is not sure it's a good idea.
Life is complicated these days and if your not willing to play the game, and instead put your heart out there and state your intentions, you get nowhere.
These days nobody wants to date. Dating is perceived as the serious part and casual is just catching up to hang out and have sex.
Hell on tinder I've had more girls keen to hang out at 10pm at night than others wanting to catch up for dinner, a drink or a walking date around herrisson Island or the coast etc.
I can talk to a girl, get to know them and be completely upfront that I like them and want to take them out. It just scares them off..
Recently all the signs were there that one girl was keen, I asked people who had seen us interact, even had the probing questions about my plans etc. Yet when I ask her out the response is she is not sure it's a good idea.
Life is complicated these days and if your not willing to play the game, and instead put your heart out there and state your intentions, you get nowhere.
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The only thing that has made it that compared to 1970's is Iphones (smartphones) and the Internet. not much as changed since those days... except (Women now have there own money & careers) <------ there is the issue...
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Mobiles have been around for as long as I've been interested in women
But you are right and I completely understand that and have no problem should some day down the track my partner say hey I want to pursue my career. Would happily step back to focus on our family and let her fur fill her needs on that end. When you love someone their happiness means more to you than your own so it's a no brainier. It's also one of the reasons I (IMO) focus on my career so much so now. That way when I have others to care about, I'm hopefully setup in a financial position to prioritise more important aspects of my life than 9-5 or in my instance what is often 8-8.
My comments were more about the change in what people these days now see as what aspect of a relationship is serious. In this case I think actually making the effort to plan something to try and woo and romance someone is serious. Sex and casual conversation is now the non threatening part.
Which is a shame because I actually enjoy the former just as much as the latter.
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Take a further step back, boys get cared for by mummy right then become adult men and they wish to find a mother figure in a wife which all men need sorry guys but that is the harsh fact of life, then they want a wife to take over from his own Mother.
However a Girl may get raised by her mummy, then becomes an adult woman but she wants to find her own way in the world she doesn't want or desire to find or be with a man or a woman that represents her own parents now does she? Plus we all know what and who's life get most impacted by Marriage..
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See that is something I will have to agree to disagree with you on.
The basis of your argument is that men are just the same as they always have been, with their desire and reliance on women to care for them as their mother did.
Yet at the same time women have grown to no longer want to one day be this stereotypical domesticated wife said men desire.
Unfortunately the reality is that yes some men still want a wife to look after them, yet some dont!
Some women want to find their own way... some don't! Some actually dream of the day of finding a husband and playing the stereotypical role.
The ideal partner is finding someone who accepts and supports the others choices and doesn't try mould them into what they want. Where (and how) to find them is a different story!
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Go to Crown Perth, and see men whom have out lived a wife say mid to late 60's they are mainly out with younger Asian women as GF's or second wives, now a woman who may out lived her husband at the same age does she go out and find another Husband ? Nope she's had enough of men and wants to live out her own life doing what she loves to do, eg join the Purple hatters...