hey.. thanks cathy! The links are much appreciated ^-^
I've checked those sites (just then) and there wasn't much going on in the Chameleon society one.. most pages were under construction or coming soon or something..
But I've signed up to the Seahorse Yahoo Group.. so hopefully I'll gain a few friends or at least contacts through that.
What I've really been hoping for (I haven't put much effort in yet) is to have a female friend to help me and go shopping with etc.
To be honest.. I don't have ANY female friends

I'm not good in social situations.. and as a result don't have many TRUE friends.
I find it hard to connect with people..
ANYWAYS... I've also realised, I never replied to fader (sorry!).. so here goes..
In terms of Lingerie.. almost nothing.
I have few pairs of panties and that's it.
For a while I was obsessed with eBay and bought lots of stuff... but I learnt a lesson.. that it's best to just (pay full price) and get things yourself or from trusted online shopping sites.
That's not to say eBay cannot be trusted, but I got alot of stuff that wasn't as good as I expected.
so.. of the good stuff I got and the stuff that I bought myself.. I have...
10 pairs of shoes! (I love shoes and legwear!!)
7 pairs of Ballet Flats (which are my favourite!) 4 Target, 2 American Eagle (from eBay) and one Lipstik brand.
2 pairs of Target boots.. both Mid Calf.
1 pair of Suede Black 4inch (or so) heels.
I am obsessed with tight legwear..
I have at least 50 pair of tights.. probably more
about 10-20 pairs of pantyhose
about 20-30 pairs of leggings
7 pairs of knee high or thigh socks.
4 pairs of stay-up stockings
and I intend to get some skinny jeans in different colours.
I have only 3-4 dresses, 3-4 skirts, about 5-6 tops.
plus other random stuff.. like a few leotards, gloves, a pair of rubber stockings.
this is a little embarrassing to say.. because most girls wouldn't have some of these items!