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Hope
Would love to hear any stories about escorts and clients falling in love and/or starting a relationship, maybe even running off and getting married!!! I heard it has happened before...
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Hope
I know I'd be all for meeting my future husband at work 
Ahoy Yes I do agree, it has happened in the past and will do in the future, I wish you the best in luck in finding your futur partner.
If you have time, go to the thread below, it may have a few articles that interest you.
Cheers and Pass the Rum
Click below
http://www.talkinsex.com/forums/langtrees-reporter.508/
If you have time, go to the thread below, it may have a few articles that interest you.
Cheers and Pass the Rum
Click below
http://www.talkinsex.com/forums/langtrees-reporter.508/
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Hope
Thankyou HappyPirate!!
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Hope
Would you marry an escort?? Or does her proffession scream 'scum' or 'unworthy'??
AHOY Hope, Yes if I was in love I would marry a escort, the profession has nothing to do with the lady and a serious relationship.
Recently I realised and so did the W/L that we both where attracted to each other. I knew her very well, we talked often, so I made a decision that affected us both, but, it was the right decision for her and me. Basically now I only see her a couple times a year.
But who knows in 10 years’ time our circumstances may be different and who knows we may get together.
Recently I realised and so did the W/L that we both where attracted to each other. I knew her very well, we talked often, so I made a decision that affected us both, but, it was the right decision for her and me. Basically now I only see her a couple times a year.
But who knows in 10 years’ time our circumstances may be different and who knows we may get together.
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Hope
Beautiful story, glad to have read that! And yes your right, the proffession and the lady herself are two completely different stories.
Ahoy Hope;- This forum is made up off W/L and punters, if you feel the need to express your ideas, here is a good place to do so.
Relationships, Kids, sexual expermintation etc etc, there is always someone here who would know or experienced the same thing.
So Hope;- use this forum as a place where you can advertise your services and a place where you can ask a question? or air out an issue.
PS;- Did you know that in your profile you can make an album, down load any picture you like and it will be seen by forum members in the forum gallery.
Not sure what the gallery is, have a look, top left of the page, click on Gallery
Relationships, Kids, sexual expermintation etc etc, there is always someone here who would know or experienced the same thing.
So Hope;- use this forum as a place where you can advertise your services and a place where you can ask a question? or air out an issue.
PS;- Did you know that in your profile you can make an album, down load any picture you like and it will be seen by forum members in the forum gallery.
Not sure what the gallery is, have a look, top left of the page, click on Gallery
Bluegrass9
Diamond Member
I have known of a number of cases where the punter has married the WL.
And more important they are still happy with their marriage.
It really is not that strange as if you spend time with a beautiful lady, enjoy her company, have the chance to enjoy and know what she likes and does not. And she learns what your dreams are and what makes you tick. In time you become one and progress to more time with each other.
I believe the important thing is that a punter does not pretend to be in love with a WL to receive a free service.
Also it is important that a WL knows where her romantic life and her working life starts and finishes.
And more important they are still happy with their marriage.
It really is not that strange as if you spend time with a beautiful lady, enjoy her company, have the chance to enjoy and know what she likes and does not. And she learns what your dreams are and what makes you tick. In time you become one and progress to more time with each other.
I believe the important thing is that a punter does not pretend to be in love with a WL to receive a free service.
Also it is important that a WL knows where her romantic life and her working life starts and finishes.
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Hope
I have known of a number of cases where the punter has married the WL.
And more important they are still happy with their marriage.
It really is not that strange as if you spend time with a beautiful lady, enjoy her company, have the chance to enjoy and know what she likes and does not. And she learns what your dreams are and what makes you tick. In time you become one and progress to more time with each other.
I believe the important thing is that a punter does not pretend to be in love with a WL to receive a free service.
Also it is important that a WL knows where her romantic life and her working life starts and finishes.
Well said!!!!!
Honestly I wouldn't get involved with a client. I do have a very strict line between work and my private live. I would hate to have to listen to comments like "you are only a s.....t" etc as soon as the honey moon period is over and you do have your first real fight.....and call it my cynicism.........but I am sure it would happen sooner or later. So......no thank you.
Well Rochelle,What's good for the Goose is good for the Gander..........
sunyun
Legend Member
When I first started punting, I met a WL who became my regular (and only) for a couple of years (three or four times a year, when I came down south).
During that time she got a 'day job' as she called it, but continued to see some of her old regulars on week ends. I was lucky enough to be one of those. Sadly she went back to Sydney to look after her sick mum.
Even though I had just ended my marriage, I would have very seriously considered proposing to her, but she was twenty something years my junior, and had ties in the east.
Her being a WL did not matter. She was not the most beautiful girl in the world, but she was a lovely person and I was more than a little in love with her.
The big question was, was she at all in love with me ? I am sure she was not, but I think she did like me - we had some great conversations, and shared a lot of confidences. I am sure that if I had ever mentioned anything like love or a relationship, she would have cut me off immediately because I would have crossed the professional line that Rochelle describes.
Her being a WL did not worry me, except that I sometimes had a sneaky worry that compared to what I read in forums like this, and saw on porn sites, I was much too vanilla for a lady of her experience, and could not possibly measure up to the descriptions of wild sex I read about - my ex left me because I was not adventurous enough in bed.
So if I was twenty years younger, I may be writing about my current relationship with a WL !
But you get that !
During that time she got a 'day job' as she called it, but continued to see some of her old regulars on week ends. I was lucky enough to be one of those. Sadly she went back to Sydney to look after her sick mum.
Even though I had just ended my marriage, I would have very seriously considered proposing to her, but she was twenty something years my junior, and had ties in the east.
Her being a WL did not matter. She was not the most beautiful girl in the world, but she was a lovely person and I was more than a little in love with her.
The big question was, was she at all in love with me ? I am sure she was not, but I think she did like me - we had some great conversations, and shared a lot of confidences. I am sure that if I had ever mentioned anything like love or a relationship, she would have cut me off immediately because I would have crossed the professional line that Rochelle describes.
Her being a WL did not worry me, except that I sometimes had a sneaky worry that compared to what I read in forums like this, and saw on porn sites, I was much too vanilla for a lady of her experience, and could not possibly measure up to the descriptions of wild sex I read about - my ex left me because I was not adventurous enough in bed.
So if I was twenty years younger, I may be writing about my current relationship with a WL !
But you get that !
Thank you for sharing Sunyun.........
That is a hard road you may be blessed in dodging brother.
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Phil Pimper
Wishful thinking.
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elle4
Some fitting songs and lyrics for this topic
I was lookin' for love in all the wrong places
Lookin' for love in too many faces
Link is broken so has been removed
We found love in a hopeless place
Rhianna - We found love
A prostitute is someone who will love you
No matter who you are or what you look like
Yes, it's true children!
But that's not why you pay a prostitute
No you don't pay her to stay, you pay her to leave afterwards
That's why I pays a lot for prostitutes!
Chef from South Park - The Prostitute Song Lyrics
I was lookin' for love in all the wrong places
Lookin' for love in too many faces
Link is broken so has been removed
We found love in a hopeless place
Rhianna - We found love
A prostitute is someone who will love you
No matter who you are or what you look like
Yes, it's true children!
But that's not why you pay a prostitute
No you don't pay her to stay, you pay her to leave afterwards
That's why I pays a lot for prostitutes!
Chef from South Park - The Prostitute Song Lyrics
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sunyun
Legend Member
Some fitting songs and lyrics for this topic
I was lookin' for love in all the wrong places
Lookin' for love in too many faces
Johnny Lee - Looking For Love Lyrics
We found love in a hopeless place
Rhianna - We found love
A prostitute is someone who will love you
No matter who you are or what you look like
Yes, it's true children!
But that's not why you pay a prostitute
No you don't pay her to stay, you pay her to leave afterwards
That's why I pays a lot for prostitutes!
Chef from South Park - The Prostitute Song Lyrics
I paid a lot for my ex to leave, what does that make her ?
Actually, that is a cheap shot as we are still on nodding terms, not a nasty split, but couldn't resist the connection !
Luxi Summer
Gold Member
Have to say I've been on a few dates while being a WL and made the choice to tell them what I do for work, well have to say it stop at the one date as they just didn't understand that work was work and I keep work out of my everyday life.
So for me I'm actually thinking that if I did meet a guy at work and believed we had something more then just handing over money I would look at going on a date and giving it a go.
As the guys I have had the pleasure of meeting so far have all be really nice and also wanting to please me
At the end of the day I'm not hiding anything and what's better then getting to see your boyfriend at work lol
So for me I'm actually thinking that if I did meet a guy at work and believed we had something more then just handing over money I would look at going on a date and giving it a go.
As the guys I have had the pleasure of meeting so far have all be really nice and also wanting to please me
At the end of the day I'm not hiding anything and what's better then getting to see your boyfriend at work lol
Ozrock
Silver Member
Hi All,
I have been dating a WL for 3 years, so I was keen to find forums that discuss the topic. Thank you Yoda for the account of your experiences in the article under the "Langtrees reporter" section. I will therefore share my perspective on having a WL as a girlfriend.
As background, I am divorced and have tried dating sites in the past. The women I had met on dating sites were nice, but I had not found someone that I really wanted to be with. One night I booked a WL for an outcall. There was something special about her and we really “clicked” from the start. I remained her client for a few years prior to us becoming partners. In addition to the 1 hour bookings, I occasionally arranged longer bookings for dinner or outings. That meant we were in a more social environment. Over time we became great friends and shared personal details, our hopes and dreams. Eventually she made the suggestion that we end the client/WL arrangement. I was happy to do that because I really liked her and we had real chemistry between us. Interestingly, initially I did feel guilty about not paying her for her time. However, I was amazed that such a beautiful woman would choose me as her boyfriend. She has and still gets many offers from men wanting a relationship with her. Therefore I am very lucky.
I noticed that Yoda commented on communication in the section on lessons that he learnt from the experience. For me that has been really important. We discuss the good and bad aspects of her work. It has put things into perspective for me. It is not all about great sex with attractive people. She has to provide a service to clients that she is not attracted to. There are clients that don’t turn up, are rude, try to exceed the boundaries, are overly demanding, are difficult personalities and some can be mentally draining. There are days she doesn’t want to work due to being physically or emotionally drained. It can be a hard gig at times. Of course there are also clients that treat her really well, are good in bed and make the experience good for her. However, she does set boundaries with all clients. However, I must admit that I do still struggle at times knowing she is with other men. The greatest fear would be a regular client that she develops a strong emotional attachment to that would lead to our relationship ending. However, relationships do break down in the real world for similar reasons with a work colleague, through on-line dating etc. I just have to ensure that I make the relationship one that she does not want to lose. I certainly care for her and focus on making her as happy as possible. The intimate part of our relationship is unbelievably good, probably due in part to her work. She does not provide that level of intimacy with clients, which helps me cope.
The other thing I understand from our talks is that she works in the industry out of choice. It provides her a good income and financial security. It is her business venture. I am fully supportive of her looking after her future. I admire and respect her for developing her business.
We have both indicated that we love each other. From my perspective I love her for all her qualities as a person and that is independent of what she does. She still gives me “butterflies” when I am with her and she makes me very happy. As for marriage, we both don’t want to get married at this stage.
Finally, I hope that both WL and those dating them are encouraged in some way by my own story as it can work.
I have been dating a WL for 3 years, so I was keen to find forums that discuss the topic. Thank you Yoda for the account of your experiences in the article under the "Langtrees reporter" section. I will therefore share my perspective on having a WL as a girlfriend.
As background, I am divorced and have tried dating sites in the past. The women I had met on dating sites were nice, but I had not found someone that I really wanted to be with. One night I booked a WL for an outcall. There was something special about her and we really “clicked” from the start. I remained her client for a few years prior to us becoming partners. In addition to the 1 hour bookings, I occasionally arranged longer bookings for dinner or outings. That meant we were in a more social environment. Over time we became great friends and shared personal details, our hopes and dreams. Eventually she made the suggestion that we end the client/WL arrangement. I was happy to do that because I really liked her and we had real chemistry between us. Interestingly, initially I did feel guilty about not paying her for her time. However, I was amazed that such a beautiful woman would choose me as her boyfriend. She has and still gets many offers from men wanting a relationship with her. Therefore I am very lucky.
I noticed that Yoda commented on communication in the section on lessons that he learnt from the experience. For me that has been really important. We discuss the good and bad aspects of her work. It has put things into perspective for me. It is not all about great sex with attractive people. She has to provide a service to clients that she is not attracted to. There are clients that don’t turn up, are rude, try to exceed the boundaries, are overly demanding, are difficult personalities and some can be mentally draining. There are days she doesn’t want to work due to being physically or emotionally drained. It can be a hard gig at times. Of course there are also clients that treat her really well, are good in bed and make the experience good for her. However, she does set boundaries with all clients. However, I must admit that I do still struggle at times knowing she is with other men. The greatest fear would be a regular client that she develops a strong emotional attachment to that would lead to our relationship ending. However, relationships do break down in the real world for similar reasons with a work colleague, through on-line dating etc. I just have to ensure that I make the relationship one that she does not want to lose. I certainly care for her and focus on making her as happy as possible. The intimate part of our relationship is unbelievably good, probably due in part to her work. She does not provide that level of intimacy with clients, which helps me cope.
The other thing I understand from our talks is that she works in the industry out of choice. It provides her a good income and financial security. It is her business venture. I am fully supportive of her looking after her future. I admire and respect her for developing her business.
We have both indicated that we love each other. From my perspective I love her for all her qualities as a person and that is independent of what she does. She still gives me “butterflies” when I am with her and she makes me very happy. As for marriage, we both don’t want to get married at this stage.
Finally, I hope that both WL and those dating them are encouraged in some way by my own story as it can work.
Thank you for your kind words. I was going to say some of what I have learned from the time I wrote that articles till now as I have had another world of experiences on this topic since that time. But I will hold my tongue for now as this is a sensitive topic on both sides and I need to be free of residual emotions before I comment,
Sir Cruiser
Legend Member
That's a shame Rochelle, When you get close to someone, for me, it is more about understanding and being happy together. Yes I know fights can occur but throwing things up in someones face never works out and when I was with someone, I did not even think of making slurs if we disagreed and that was after the honeymoon period. Perhaps it could happen with others in that way and probably does but it is still a shame
Sir Cruiser
Legend Member
Very nice Ozrock,
That sounds like a very mature attitude, Cruiser and to add to my former comment: it takes two to tango and it is human nature that the more you love the more you can get hurt.......the more you are hurt the more you throw low key accusations......honestly.....I was guilty of the same "crime" long time ago. Mature relation ship in theory........accept the other person as she or he is........well, to a certain point and this point has to be established and agreed on.
OMG now I sound like a relation ship lawyer
Ozrock
Silver Member
Hi Kitty, I am pleased that you liked my post. It is good to hear about another success story
My girlfriend is certainly a very special women. Despite the difficulties associated with having a WL as a partner, she is so much fun to be with and I love her very much. I hope things continue to work out really well for you and your partner
My girlfriend is certainly a very special women. Despite the difficulties associated with having a WL as a partner, she is so much fun to be with and I love her very much. I hope things continue to work out really well for you and your partner
u never know where u find the love of ur life
Sir Cruiser
Legend Member
I so agreeu never know where u find the love of ur life