On other side of the coin, some guys(like myself) have no trouble getting a BJ from the wife, But It gets boring & if nothing comes out, she gets upset..
It gets boring because I'm doing it with the same women, all the time & I do love her but love is not enough for some things, like sex.
Most times, the only way for me to come is to imagine it's some other woman I'm doing the biz with & it take a hell of a lot of concentration but if she's talking when her mouth is empty, I just loose my train of thought and nothing happens and I get the third degree with remarks like, whets wrong, something the matter, don't you love me, have you been with someone else,are you thinking of that last WL blha blha blha.
Well I can't tell her the truth
Thank heavens for the WL's who are willing to BJ ugly guys.