I probably should add that while we are still together he is certainly in the bad books right now. He still set me up, he still set someone else up, he still went back on his word when he said he wouldn't pursue anything that weekend.
I have no intention of leaving but he has to realise that he has some making up to do. The apologies will no longer do, I need to see a change to believe it now.
This lady seems to be a nice lady, very willing to please her boyfriend. He doesen't deserve her. He and his mate are manipulative arseholes, and I agree with the comments by Demon and Lone Road.
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Now that is more like it.:thumbsup:
It sounds as if he has been playing you like a fiddle to get his jollies and it wouldn't surprise me if he and his mate are still cooking up little schemes for "later when the dust has settled." Maybe this is just sexy fun but I get the feeling that this threeway relationship is becoming a "two onto one" deal. Ever notice how often that happens? Two kids will play happily together. Introduce a third and it inevitably becomes two and one.
For a relationship to work, even an open one, there must be some boundaries and above all there has to be trust.
This lady seems to be a nice lady, very willing to please her boyfriend. He doesen't deserve her.
:thumbsup:For a relationship to work, even an open one, there must be some boundaries and above all there has to be trust.
Just remember us blokes (and not those snag blokes on Internet forums) will always learn from our mistakes..
Learn to get away with it better next time when we do it