Sex - Are you addicted
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Dallas
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I have this theory about sex,,,,,The way the human body functions, Do you use your hands once a day? Your heart, liver kidneys once a day? Your feet, legs, arms, mouth, sense of smell etc once a day? Every part of the human body is used everyday and as a constant, it helps us function correctly, produces chemicals that help us function normally. Well I think our genitals are the same,,why would they be different? I am much happier and can function better when I have lots of sex, the endorphins produced are necessary to keep my body and mind running all in tune..That's my theory anyway, to me it makes a damn lot of sense
What a wonderful comment! Yes I am exactly the same. My health is really affected positively or negatively from sex or the lack of, but not from a little 30 minute session occasionally it has to be a few hours a week. 2 to 4 hours twice a week would be a minimum. Unfortunately the cost of that is not sustainable over the long term but I was lucky enough to have it for a most of last year and I was constantly getting comments from friends and family as to how healthy I was looking. Sex did for my health what running, swimming, surfing and gym couldn't quite do not to mention it was WAY more fun! So I don't know whether I'm addicted to sex or just addicted to feeling great?
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I am loving everyone's contribution. When I interviewed Dave he also addressed many of these issues powerfully.
Take a few minutes to check out the message he wanted to get across to the public.
http://www.talkinsex.com/threads/in...es-a-married-man-to-see-working-ladies.31274/
If you haven't seen this I invite you to see it in the link above.
Take a few minutes to check out the message he wanted to get across to the public.
http://www.talkinsex.com/threads/in...es-a-married-man-to-see-working-ladies.31274/
If you haven't seen this I invite you to see it in the link above.
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some long answers... mine is easy... "yes"
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Again I want to throw the cat (hi H2 it is not TeeAnn I am throwing) amongst pigeons........what do we actually consider as "unfaithful" and why?
Having a sexual encounter with another person while in a relation ship........we only consider it cheating because of certain (christian) morals which got developed some 2 thousand years ago. poke poke poke.....in our modern society we do intend to adjust old ideas to modern age.....so why not this one?????????
Only the Bible claims that humans are monogamous..........obviously not true otherwise theis profession wouldn't exist..........
Having a sexual encounter with another person while in a relation ship........we only consider it cheating because of certain (christian) morals which got developed some 2 thousand years ago. poke poke poke.....in our modern society we do intend to adjust old ideas to modern age.....so why not this one?????????
Only the Bible claims that humans are monogamous..........obviously not true otherwise theis profession wouldn't exist..........
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Depends how its done Rochelle. If its sneaky behind the back, lies told etc, thats wrong! But some couples know variety is good and indulge in swingers groups or things like Redhotpie. If its mutual such as a "hallpass" given to go out and have a bit of fun, then its an agreed thing. Openess, communication and trust can open a lot of doors for fulfilling all things wanted.
Happy_Punter_2010
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Agree
rubntugstud
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I dont think im addicted to sex...im just addicted to blowing!
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Totally agree cimsagrO..............sneaky stuff never works in a relations ship plus it is far more fun when done together. As I said I was just throwing cats around.....at the end of the day an open conversation between partners is a must. I am only saying that a successful relation ship doesn't have to be monogamous.
Cheers and a bottle of rum as HappyP would say
Cheers and a bottle of rum as HappyP would say
Custer
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Many men have the urge for variety. Some believe its hard wired.
Totally agree cimsagrO..............sneaky stuff never works in a relations ship plus it is far more fun when done together. As I said I was just throwing cats around.....at the end of the day an open conversation between partners is a must. I am only saying that a successful relation ship doesn't have to be monogamous.
Cheers and a bottle of rum as HappyP would say
Not all men are fortunate to be with a woman who thinks like you
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Adrianna Lush
I do get addicted to intimacy and connecting in a raw and honest way with someone...yes sex is usually part of that but i wouldn't say I'm addicted to simply the act itself.
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SOMETIMES the addiction to the chase is far more pleasing that penetration
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I would have to say I do love it & enjoy it -
I would have sex all the time if time permitted
(Unfortunately it doesn't,t )
I would have sex all the time if time permitted
(Unfortunately it doesn't,t )
Marvin
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hehehehehe.......combination of variety and money is the unbeatable best...........Addicted to money not sex
Roxy Rabbit
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Interesting question??? In order to determine a sex addict i believe that you need to remember the definition of 'addiction'. An addiction is an action or substance that is so relied upon and essential in a persons life that not only is it a regular to daily occurance it is also seen as necessary or permanent. Alot of addictions consequently are detremental to the sufferers life unless controlled and managed with honesty and openness. Because of this i actually struggle to see how sex workers are 'addicted' to sex. Yes we have higher lipedo's than most however we also have a different view and attitude towards sex. A sex worker uses sex and her sexuality to make a living, encompassing her social skills and brainpower, in order to satisfy her clients, this in my own mind isnt an addiction just sexually independant. The talk and general social acceptance that has been developing over the last 10-20 years i believe is essential!! everyone still got off like they do now only now we are honest and open about it!! Besides who cares if your a sex addict if your making money, happy, safe and having fun then smile cause your probably orgasming more than the majority out there!!!!
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depends on the person, relationships are a no go for me at all, though i didnt cheat in my last one, 20yrs. Addiction to sex,well i guess we all have, though if that was the only addiction i had i would own shit loads. Though i don't and never will have monatery values. You can't take it with you and the point raised about cheating, i think we have one of the highest in the world. If your not getting what you want in a relationship then something isnt right. There are heaps of guys i know that go get pissed and end up at a brothel, though when they wake up feel guilty as, why because they cheated or had a goodtime? Rather stay single and do what i want when i want. Guess plenty of people will disagree but you are who you are, unless someone TRIES to change you and i have found that plenty, never works.ever.
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I don't have a high libido, unfortunately, though I have tried these multivitamins called "wyld" and on the first day I was TOO horny. I wanted to just spend the day in my bedroom with my vibrator. . . .
I also can't come from sex alone... Or a man going down on me... Or fingering me... I only had my first orgasm about a year ago. So I still haven't learnt what can make me come, and what can't. In this job I will be lucky to come twice a week at work. After all, it is the clients pleasure that comes first
I also can't come from sex alone... Or a man going down on me... Or fingering me... I only had my first orgasm about a year ago. So I still haven't learnt what can make me come, and what can't. In this job I will be lucky to come twice a week at work. After all, it is the clients pleasure that comes first
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Well, if there is something like sex addiction (why call it addiction and not just high sex drive that needs to be taken care of?) the individuals in question are lucky if they 1) work in the industry or 2) have a like minded partner.....otherwise it can be an extremely frustrating 'addiction' especially for the male part of society who needs a fix every day. (I do believe that for the female part of society it is a lot easier to get relief other than self inflicted........just go on a dating website and you will see) Luckily there are Mrs. Palmer and her 5 daughters on a daily shift otherwise it is just window shopping...........
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GREAT ANSWER, SEEMS YOU HAVE STYLE, as well you must have long goals. Best of luck !!!!!!!!!!
Mila McCloud
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I already have a high sex drive BUT I get hornier after a hard weights training session. No boyfriend at the moment so have to watch porn and please my self. Dont like to sleep around with some stranger so I guess what Im doing is best solution yer
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Not anymore. ...it is appreciated and savored a lot more without the messy attachment of addiction.
Viktoria Richards
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Punting is only an addiction when it becomes compulsive and other aspects of your life (family, bank balance, social life etc) begin to suffer. If you can keep a healthy and happy balance, then why not spend time with the lady of your choice . It all depends on the person and their own personal contex
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Actually depwnding on which bible version the most famous person would probably be Moses and it was said he had multiple wives, so how can religion say a man can only have one wife or vice versa. If a couple are happy to be monogamous then fine, but if they want to have or be with other people as well why can't they. If they are happy with "their" decision why should anyone judge their choice of lifestyle after all its their lives.
Oh and final thing isnt it written somewhere "thou shalt not judge"?