Punting as we age

[JimmyJamz]

Such a great post. I am enjoying everyone's reply. Being 50 myself and seeing mostly mature gents. The part I enjoy the most is laying in each other's arms. Chatting and caressing after we have enjoyed ourselves. Passionate kissing and unrushed
Quality over quantity

Heck, there are a few I see specifically for the laying and caressing... Giving them a little massage, and pressing skin for the sheer joy of contact.

And when they open the door and see me they always brighten up, even after a long or hard day

 

[Slowhand1974]

I started punting when I was 24. At first I went in just for sex which I didn't enjoy: I was totally into dressing up. I used to go in hoping the ladies would be wearing what I liked. But I soon realised I couldn't just walk in hoping to get lucky. I think the turning point was when I was about 35 and visited a brothel which I won't name and none of the girls was wearing anything that tuned me on. Not one. It was soon after that I started providing the sexy costumes myself and bringing them with me. Anyway the point is I'm now 47 and I've always known what I liked but it's only fairly recently that I've started doing anything about it.

 

[mrys]

I started punting when I was 24. At first I went in just for sex which I didn't enjoy: I was totally into dressing up. I used to go in hoping the ladies would be wearing what I liked. But I soon realised I couldn't just walk in hoping to get lucky. I think the turning point was when I was about 35 and visited a brothel which I won't name and none of the girls was wearing anything that tuned me on. Not one. It was soon after that I started providing the sexy costumes myself and bringing them with me. Anyway the point is I'm now 47 and I've always known what I liked but it's only fairly recently that I've started doing anything about it.

It's great you are making your desires a reality! One of the good things about ageing is we care way less about what other people think (or not). We develop the confidence to be the driver of our lives rather than a frustrated passenger. We're here for a good time not a long time is a truism in my book and if it's sane and legal to make fantasies a reality make it happen!!!!

 

[Luckypete 08]

I agree on sexual appetite increasing as we age. Maybe because we are less stressed and have more time to indulge our needs and wants?

I'm 63 turning 64 very soon and my sexual appetite still matches my desires when I was in my 20's and still loving looking at a girl with a great bottom and legs that never end !!

 

[Luckypete 08]

This morning I took money from a quiet, nervous boy,
He had hardly pushed inside me when he cried out in his joy.
And so we talked a bit, while my fingers did their trick,
About finding him a girlfriend “to share this lovely dick”.
He told me about Anna, who he wished would be his girl
But his heart was set on travelling and conquering the world.

At lunch I helped a business man out of his grey suit;
I snuggled him but it was clear that I was just a root.
He climbed between my legs and went at it for a while
But I never heard him cum and I never saw him smile.
He said in all his life he had just made one mistake;
He should have stayed at home and married Anna Blake.

Tonight an old regular called in for company;
He seems to like the talking as much as humping me.
“You remind me of my first love,” he explained as we got dressed,
“But of all the girls I’ve ever had, baby you’re the best.”
“Goodnight George, take care,” I said as I kissed him on the cheek.
“Goodnight darling Anna, I’ll be back again next week.”

Wonderful

 

[Sneakyboy]

I am now a older Punter, my perference is for ladies 30 years old plus. I now stay away from the younger ladies . The young ones just look to young to me makes me feel like a creepy old man .

 

[Katrina Kiss]

I’m interested to find out from other punters how their tastes, needs and desires have changed over the years because speaking for myself I know mine have. It’s also fair to say I haven’t punted continuously throughout my life as there have been long periods when I didn’t thanks to relationships etc. 3 marriages did provide gaps to explore however

I have created two lists below ranked 1 to 6 of my younger punting self and my older punting self, they are purely personal lists unique to me……or maybe not, hence this post. The lists are not exhaustive but they reflect some of the changes to my ‘wish lists’ as I’ve aged. I would welcome your edits to my rankings and the inclusion of the things that are important to you in your punting decisions as an older guy.

Young self :

1. Young and hot
2. Excitable
3. Tight
4. Wet
5. Endurance
6. Young and hot

Older self :
1. Attractive on more than one level
2. Able to connect
3. Experienced and intuitive
4. Hot (In my eyes)
5. Mild kink friendly
6. Has a good mind, an opinion and an interesting life story

I’m sure my desires will continue to change as I age and I welcome the journey gentlemen! But if you would like to ad your thoughts to this post you are most welcome. Happy punting!!!!

I this post. I find alot of clients have the same desires as you. They are looking for a conection & some one who will not judge them as well as understand them. Most of all they a looking for someone that makes them feel comfortable & a lady that the conversation flows with. Of course they also have to find you attractive on some level. The spark can happen with a person you least expect. I find when a girl connects with a client on a mental level & truly listens to them & cares. They always come back.
Looks are only a small part of having someone stick around or becoming a regular. I form working relationships with my regulars. I know more about them than their closest family & friends. Having someone to talk to & off loading there problems & worries in life really helps them to get on with their day, this is common for clients to do when seeing a lady. So listening skills go along way. It's not all just about sex for alot of clients, like youself . Not all clients are like this of cause. The younger version off you is common as well.

 

[Katrina Kiss]

I started punting when I was 24. At first I went in just for sex which I didn't enjoy: I was totally into dressing up. I used to go in hoping the ladies would be wearing what I liked. But I soon realised I couldn't just walk in hoping to get lucky. I think the turning point was when I was about 35 and visited a brothel which I won't name and none of the girls was wearing anything that tuned me on. Not one. It was soon after that I started providing the sexy costumes myself and bringing them with me. Anyway the point is I'm now 47 and I've always known what I liked but it's only fairly recently that I've started doing anything about it.

Just interested what type of sexy outfits do like. Do have any pictures.
I to know a males choice of lingerie & costumes to see if it is much different than a females choice.
Good on you for making it happens & fulfilling your desires. That's what it's all about.

 

[LongHair]

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[Miss Monique]

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Had no idea Shein had such beautiful lingerie. I must check it out
What a delight to unwrap a lady to find this

 

[LongHair]

Had no idea Shein had such beautiful lingerie. I must check it out
What a delight to unwrap a lady to find this

My thoughts exactly!!!!!!!

 

[Katrina Kiss]

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You have great taste & ❤ the Shein dress. I will buy that. Thank you. xx

 

[Katrina Kiss]

My thoughts exactly!!!!!!!

It's stunning!

 

[LongHair]

Had no idea Shein had such beautiful lingerie. I must check it out
What a delight to unwrap a lady to find this

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[LongHair]

You have great taste & ❤ the Shein dress. I will buy that. Thank you. xx

Thank you for saying so, I just know how I like to see a gorgeous woman dressed (or undressed for that matter). I am sure you will look stunning in that dress.

 

[mrys]

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LongHair that is just so beautiful! Incredibly classy and risqué in the same moment. You have fantastic taste, I may have to get your input on future gifts

 

[LongHair]

LongHair that is just so beautiful! Incredibly classy and risqué in the same moment. You have fantastic taste, I may have to get your input on future gifts

myrs,

thank you for your kind words, if you ever have the desire then pop me a PM and I will most definitely reply

 

[mrys]

I ♥ this post. I find alot of clients have the same desires as you. They are looking for a conection & some one who will not judge them as well as understand them. Most of all they a looking for someone that makes them feel comfortable & a lady that the conversation flows with. Of course they also have to find you attractive on some level. The spark can happen with a person you least expect. I find when a girl connects with a client on a mental level & truly listens to them & cares. They always come back.
Looks are only a small part of having someone stick around or becoming a regular. I form working relationships with my regulars. I know more about them than their closest family & friends. Having someone to talk to & off loading there problems & worries in life really helps them to get on with their day, this is common for clients to do when seeing a lady. So listening skills go along way. It's not all just about sex for alot of clients, like youself . Not all clients are like this of cause. The younger version off you is common as well.

I think for a lot of men the time spent together is therapeutic in more than just a sexual sense. With the right companion the weight of the world, business and personal obligations and the stress of other's expectations can sit on the mantlepiece for an hour or two, to be collected again on the way back to real life. It's hard to find a companion with the attributes you have described in your post, once found they are a gift to be cherished!

 

[mrys]

myrs,

thank you for your kind words, if you ever have the desire then pop me a PM and I will most definitely reply

I will definitely take you up on that kind offer!!

 

[Slugger1]

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The dress is very nice but I will take the model

 

[Nev]

I'm now 51 and uncomfortable about my issues:
• I've had bad experiences trying to fit/reach into ladies who are not skinny but less fat than me;
• I have sensory issues so really dislike smells of some older ladies - I don't know if this is just ladies I've been with;
• I'm autistic+ADHD, so ladies on my wavelength tend to be similar wierdoes, who often have lots of tattoos - exceptive autism can also involve limited touch/breaking eye contact while focused on sensations/mechanical sex;
• I'm fat and aging so can need lots of encouragement in bed;
• I've got severe dead mummy issues (or consequences of autistic infant incapable of perceiving mum's emotions) so crave intimacy when I'm down; and
• I'm crap at smalltalk, crap at thinking and talking at the same time, now too used to being independent, and consider myself too unattractive(fat) for a normal relationship. I'm working on these.

How distasteful are old fat hypocrites who like skinny/athletic/muscular tattooed young ladies, then try another lady while their last lady is still present?

Is there something I'm not thinking of that could change things?

This is pointed this weekend because it's mothers' day.

Would it be OK tomorrow if I started teaching myself to accept anyone:
• I have really good shower and shave before arriving.
• I come to a 1 hour booking with an unopened bottle of dark rum/whisky to share and a blindfold;
• I confirm extras and are de-cashed at reception, taken to room for shower and health check, and left blindfolded and face down on bed in silent room, until lady comes in;
• I have no idea which lady is doing this (except I would feel tightness during insertion);
• Lady worked quietly (except occasional soft talk checking details) with no music while I remained starfished;
• Blindfold was only removed during cuddles (by lady on me while smiling 6 inches from my face) after 45-50 minutes with lots of massage (including extra), blowjob, missionary, and cowgirls (at whatever angles lady desires);
• We have more cuddles with lots of touch and extras (kissing, (licking?), lady on top, not just next to) then shower;
• [****] We went back downstairs for drink and debrief/chat;
• I saw same person or another lady for more service;
• Go to [****] until I run out of credit card; and
• Rest of bottle is left for use of ladies in need of special care while dealing with other men's mummy issues?

Would many ladies be OK with this?

I'm leaving this here, not in a private request, in case I'm not alone.

Thankyou.

 

[mrys]

I'm now 51 and uncomfortable about my issues:
• I've had bad experiences trying to fit/reach into ladies who are not skinny but less fat than me;
• I have sensory issues so really dislike smells of some older ladies - I don't know if this is just ladies I've been with;
• I'm autistic+ADHD, so ladies on my wavelength tend to be similar wierdoes, who often have lots of tattoos - exceptive autism can also involve limited touch/breaking eye contact while focused on sensations/mechanical sex;
• I'm fat and aging so can need lots of encouragement in bed;
• I've got severe dead mummy issues (or consequences of autistic infant incapable of perceiving mum's emotions) so crave intimacy when I'm down; and
• I'm crap at smalltalk, crap at thinking and talking at the same time, now too used to being independent, and consider myself too unattractive(fat) for a normal relationship. I'm working on these.

How distasteful are old fat hypocrites who like skinny/athletic/muscular tattooed young ladies, then try another lady while their last lady is still present?

Is there something I'm not thinking of that could change things?

This is pointed this weekend because it's mothers' day.

Would it be OK tomorrow if I started teaching myself to accept anyone:
• I have really good shower and shave before arriving.
• I come to a 1 hour booking with an unopened bottle of dark rum/whisky to share and a blindfold;
• I confirm extras and are de-cashed at reception, taken to room for shower and health check, and left blindfolded and face down on bed in silent room, until lady comes in;
• I have no idea which lady is doing this (except I would feel tightness during insertion);
• Lady worked quietly (except occasional soft talk checking details) with no music while I remained starfished;
• Blindfold was only removed during cuddles (by lady on me while smiling 6 inches from my face) after 45-50 minutes with lots of massage (including extra), blowjob, missionary, and cowgirls (at whatever angles lady desires);
• We have more cuddles with lots of touch and extras (kissing, (licking?), lady on top, not just next to) then shower;
• [****] We went back downstairs for drink and debrief/chat;
• I saw same person or another lady for more service;
• Go to [****] until I run out of credit card; and
• Rest of bottle is left for use of ladies in need of special care while dealing with other men's mummy issues?

Would many ladies be OK with this?

I'm leaving this here, not in a private request, in case I'm not alone.

Thankyou.

Hi Nev and thanks for sharing! In the absence of easy solutions to our problems sharing always helps. Given what you have described in your post you are facing multiple challenges on your path to gaining more enjoyment out of life. Any one of the challenges you have would present an obstacle to a more contented life but when combined together it must take a lot of courage and resilience to live with them. Are you receiving professional help to find a pathway forward to a happier place? As to the second part of your post in regards to your desires I believe most fantasies can be accommodated with the right companion. Communication is the key. Have a clear idea of what you want and be open and honest with the ladies you approach with the concept. You may not get 100% of what you want but for the sake of a little bit of compromise you will probably get close to it!!

 

[Nev]

Hi Nev and thanks for sharing! In the absence of easy solutions to our problems sharing always helps. Given what you have described in your post you are facing multiple challenges on your path to gaining more enjoyment out of life. Any one of the challenges you have would present an obstacle to a more contented life but when combined together it must take a lot of courage and resilience to live with them. Are you receiving professional help to find a pathway forward to a happier place? As to the second part of your post in regards to your desires I believe most fantasies can be accommodated with the right companion. Communication is the key. Have a clear idea of what you want and be open and honest with the ladies you approach with the concept. You may not get 100% of what you want but for the sake of a little bit of compromise you will probably get close to it!!

Thankyou.
I'm dealing with challenges slowly but in the right direction. My psychiatrist said something vague about intimacy which I interpreted as encouraging me to see prostitutes. They definitely help. I'm a white male accountant, and old enough to have had some free university in Australia, so far more privileged than other people in similar situations.

I'll ask establishments directly about possible services tomorrow if @Langtrees VIP Perth doesn't respond here.

 

[mrys]

Thankyou.
I'm dealing with challenges slowly but in the right direction. My psychiatrist said something vague about intimacy which I interpreted as encouraging me to see prostitutes. They definitely help. I'm a white male accountant, and old enough to have had some free university in Australia, so far more privileged than other people in similar situations.

I'll ask establishments directly about possible services tomorrow if @Langtrees VIP Perth doesn't respond here.

I hope you are able to find both pleasure and happiness Nev. Both are worth all the effort you are putting in!

 

[LongHair]

Thankyou.
I'm dealing with challenges slowly but in the right direction. My psychiatrist said something vague about intimacy which I interpreted as encouraging me to see prostitutes. They definitely help. I'm a white male accountant, and old enough to have had some free university in Australia, so far more privileged than other people in similar situations.

I'll ask establishments directly about possible services tomorrow if @Langtrees VIP Perth doesn't respond here.

I wouldnt expect you to get a direct response from Langtrees here, it is possible that they may not your post here may be over looked, if anything I would suggest you contact Mrs Langtrees directly, she is extremely approachable and has a great deal of experience in dealing with sensitive issues.

 

[sunyun]

This morning I took money from a quiet, nervous boy,
He had hardly pushed inside me when he cried out in his joy.
And so we talked a bit, while my fingers did their trick,
About finding him a girlfriend “to share this lovely dick”.
He told me about Anna, who he wished would be his girl
But his heart was set on travelling and conquering the world.

At lunch I helped a business man out of his grey suit;
I snuggled him but it was clear that I was just a root.
He climbed between my legs and went at it for a while
But I never heard him cum and I never saw him smile.
He said in all his life he had just made one mistake;
He should have stayed at home and married Anna Blake.

Tonight an old regular called in for company;
He seems to like the talking as much as humping me.
“You remind me of my first love,” he explained as we got dressed,
“But of all the girls I’ve ever had, baby you’re the best.”
“Goodnight George, take care,” I said as I kissed him on the cheek.
“Goodnight darling Anna, I’ll be back again next week.”

Great post !

It seems Anna is at the centre of the circle of life .

 

[Slowhand1974]

Just interested what type of sexy outfits do like. Do have any pictures.
I to know a males choice of lingerie & costumes to see if it is much different than a females choice.
Good on you for making it happens & fulfilling your desires. That's what it's all about.

Very sorry for the very late reply. I love vintage lingerie: corsets, garter belts, fully fashioned stockings. I also have a massive fetish for stiletto heels. I have different costumes: 1950's housewife, businesswoman, I also have a maid uniform but I haven't tried it out yet.

 

[Yorkshire Lad]

There seems to be a kind of mirror-like symmetry sometimes. I suppose it's the circle of life or something.

20 yr olds: WHERE DO I PUT MY CLOTHES?
25 yr olds: I bet you enjoyed that! You should be paying me.
30 yr olds: I’m not married, so I don’t get much chance for this kind of thing.

40 yr olds: My wife won’t let me do anything like this.
50 yr olds: Thank you, that was wonderful. You should be charging more.
70 yr olds: WHERE DID I PUT MY CLOTHES?

I’m 70 and it’s more like I’ll put my clothes on when I’m good and ready babe lol

 

[Nev]

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