Polkam
Gold Member
Sorry XLNC didn't realise this was your profile. I thought it was a general political reference...anyhow politics is a drag....You mean...?
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chase3307
(First post - just found this site from a Slate link.)
Love the discussion. As a client of both legal and illegal services here in the U.S. (depends on the state - basically Nevada and everywhere else) it's cool to see casual talk about it. Here, most that I see are the erotic stories.
I worry that by choosing to be a client of sex workers, I contribute to exploitation. Since it is illegal in most places, I definitely could be. It's good to see that the extra time to find legal choices is probably the best all around.
My questions - two specific and one general. Is it possible to reject drunk clients? (Or is it only really apparent of the need to reject once it is a more private situation?)
While I'm asking, my more general, what is WL and ML? I haven't seen those abbreviations before? (Even as I ask, I know I'm going to Google anyway. Still, just in case...)
Love the discussion. As a client of both legal and illegal services here in the U.S. (depends on the state - basically Nevada and everywhere else) it's cool to see casual talk about it. Here, most that I see are the erotic stories.
I worry that by choosing to be a client of sex workers, I contribute to exploitation. Since it is illegal in most places, I definitely could be. It's good to see that the extra time to find legal choices is probably the best all around.
My questions - two specific and one general. Is it possible to reject drunk clients? (Or is it only really apparent of the need to reject once it is a more private situation?)
While I'm asking, my more general, what is WL and ML? I haven't seen those abbreviations before? (Even as I ask, I know I'm going to Google anyway. Still, just in case...)
G'day Chase
Welcome and please accept our pity for living in a slightly more repressed society than Aus.
WL = working lady, typically providing FS (full service), i.e. sexual intercourse
ML = massage lady, typically providing services short of intercourse, i.e. massage and HJ (handjob) and sometimes BJ (blowjob); however, some MLs in some parlours (usually unapproved brothels) also go all the way, so it can be confusing
Could you please post the Slate article/page where the link to this site appears? Just curious.
XLNC
Welcome and please accept our pity for living in a slightly more repressed society than Aus.
WL = working lady, typically providing FS (full service), i.e. sexual intercourse
ML = massage lady, typically providing services short of intercourse, i.e. massage and HJ (handjob) and sometimes BJ (blowjob); however, some MLs in some parlours (usually unapproved brothels) also go all the way, so it can be confusing
Could you please post the Slate article/page where the link to this site appears? Just curious.
XLNC
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chase3307
First off, here is the requested link:
http://www.slate.com/articles/news_...ountry_s_mining_industry_expands_so_does.html
Thanks for the explanation. The "M" seemed obvious to suss out, but I had no clue how the "W" would be differentiating. Now I know! Woooo!
Happy2
Legend Member
I'm with His XLNC welcome to our very friendly little forum
Thanks for the Slate link, chase.
I see some prominent forum members are mentioned, e.g. 'It is 2 a.m. on a Sunday in the back room of Langtrees, the best-known brothel on Australia’s west coast. Lana, the mumsy phone operator, places down the handset and puts on her specs to peer at her computer. ...'
I'm not ROFLing, Lana, honest I'm not.
I see some prominent forum members are mentioned, e.g. 'It is 2 a.m. on a Sunday in the back room of Langtrees, the best-known brothel on Australia’s west coast. Lana, the mumsy phone operator, places down the handset and puts on her specs to peer at her computer. ...'
I'm not ROFLing, Lana, honest I'm not.
Happy2
Legend Member
There very sexy glasses for a very sexy lady YourXlnc
Bree Brooks
Gold Member
I guess either way you are fucked...
Farm Boy 2
Legend Member
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Jennajane
Pro's- $$$$$$$$$$$
Con's- people judge
Con's- people judge
Farm Boy 2
Legend Member
Selina Glitters
Bronze Member
Pro's = money
Con = secrecy & druggo men
Con = secrecy & druggo men
scarlett lee
Gold Member
Pros; money, lifestyle, great co-workers, meeting (some very) interesting people, getting to frock up for work.
Cons: trying to get enough sleep Aargggh!
Cons: trying to get enough sleep Aargggh!
Pros - Constantly learning and experiencing new things in an industry I love, financial independence, flexible hours and the variety of people I get to meet that I usually wouldn't.
Cons - As with any job, balancing work and personal life, the unpredictability of demand.
Cons - As with any job, balancing work and personal life, the unpredictability of demand.
Farm Boy 2
Legend Member
Kitty said unpredictability of demand. unpredictability of demand.
Farmers have the same problem with the additional handicap being a price taker
' Most farmers will never be able to influence the price of their product. Their product is produced by their neighbours, by strangers in distant states, and by foreign producers. Any attempt to independently raise their prices will see their sales evaporate, to be readily replaced by these neighbours, strangers and foreigners.
David Leyonhjelm
And in reality the sex industry has some of the same problems that Davide Leyonhjelm pointed out as to competing with neighbours, strangers and foreigners.
Farmers have the same problem with the additional handicap being a price taker
' Most farmers will never be able to influence the price of their product. Their product is produced by their neighbours, by strangers in distant states, and by foreign producers. Any attempt to independently raise their prices will see their sales evaporate, to be readily replaced by these neighbours, strangers and foreigners.
David Leyonhjelm
And in reality the sex industry has some of the same problems that Davide Leyonhjelm pointed out as to competing with neighbours, strangers and foreigners.
Farm Boy 2
Legend Member
Oh and another one I have to add but I am not sure if that is a pro or con........the realization that I miss the whole thing after 3 weeks not being there
You will be of the chain soon Sheba
ahhhh Homer why not looking at a Duffi can thinking half full instead of half empty?
my chain of thought is more like..........my lovely co workers (floor, reception, car), my regular clients, interesting conversations, a good laugh, like minded people.............
Luxi Summer
Gold Member
Pro is the money
Con is waiting around for the customers to come in
Feeling safe is not really a problem at LP as the girls all have your back here and staff are always watching the time and will check on you if something doesn't feel right
But also not having friends or family know what you do for work is a con as I feel like I'm hiding a second life and the risk of someone walking in at work is something I do worry about.
Con is waiting around for the customers to come in
Feeling safe is not really a problem at LP as the girls all have your back here and staff are always watching the time and will check on you if something doesn't feel right
But also not having friends or family know what you do for work is a con as I feel like I'm hiding a second life and the risk of someone walking in at work is something I do worry about.
The stunningly hot LS said...."Con is waiting around for the customers to come in "
OK - so get proactive. Direct marketing.....Maybe mailing lists is a way to go??
Worst thing that could happen is that the recipient of the email would mark the mail as spam....and many probably would but I reckon you would get some positive responses.
Cost to you is a bit of time - what do you reckon?
"OK - so get proactive. Direct marketing.....Maybe mailing lists is a way to go??
Worst thing that could happen is that the recipient of the email would mark the mail as spam....and many probably would but I reckon you would get some positive responses.
Cost to you is a bit of time - what do you reckon?
Melinda Morgan
Foundation Member
Yes Jenna I agree people are quick to judge, once someone who knows you finds out they either ignore it and agree it doesn't change who you are to them or as I have found the majority of the time the shallow misconceptions of society take over and you are Judged !!
Farm Boy 2
Legend Member
Farm Boy 2
Legend Member
Hey FB2, maybe you should've posted that Smokie classic in the What song fits your fave forum member thread. Fits many members.
Well we could but we wont XLNC , out of respect for all the times there Little lies acts and moments of theater have healed wounds and made us feel better about the world and ourselves .
ahhhh Homer why not looking at a Duffi can thinking half full instead of half empty?
my chain of thought is more like..........my lovely co workers (floor, reception, car), my regular clients, interesting conversations, a good laugh, like minded people.............
True that true that, only a half jug i hold. Homer hasn't been in your shoes, hence the jug half empty.
There are pros n cons with every job. You can have your dream job but a prick for a boss, vice versa.
