Pros and Cons of being a sex worker ???

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Viktoria Richards

Gold Member
A professional sex worker definitely knows that there are positive, as well as negative effects of their career. And since escorting or being a sex worker is stereotyped, only the negative effects of their career are exponentially viewed.

What’s Good about Being a Sex Worker...
If there are a lot of negative effects and bad consequences of working as an escort, then there are also many positive effects and good consequences of being one.
One of the most positive effects of this career is the large amount of money a girl gets for every male client she encounters. The escort can choose to have two or more encounters everyday if her body and time can manage it. She can give high rates in every client, depending on the demand and of course the status of her client. But whatever the case is, the escort has the freedom to give any rate she wants to. What’s good about this is that most clients are ready to pay the girl in any amount she wants.
We are all pained every time we receive our pays and we have to pay our taxes at the same time. In an escorting service, there are no taxes involved since the whole sex industry is considered as an illegal transaction. Every escort’s transactions are not recorded as a “business,” thus there is no way it can be taxed.
One more positive thing about this career is that escorts have all the freedom they could actually have. They manage their own time and their schedule. Clients almost always follow the escort’s availability with her schedule. Girls working in an escorting service or other transactions find their careers to be a lot more convenient compared to the usual day time job. Plus, they do not have to report to a boss or attend to clerical tasks not included in their job descriptions.
Easy money is a lot more suitable than waiting for a payday. For every encounter, the escort can immediately and directly get the money from her client. No deductions, no taxes and most
of all, no waiting days. Especially when the girl is badly in need, she can just pull up cash quickly without any problems at all.
Additionally, in an escorting career, the girl can broaden her network of connections. Usually, male clients are CEOs, businessmen and other high-ranking people in the society. This means that they have a lot of connections in the high society and this is good for you. You will be opened up to a diverse group of people and establish some relations with some of your clients. Who knows, you can extend your services to your new network.
There is also less chances of being buried in debt. Since the money is handed directly before each encounter, the girl doesn’t have to open a credit account instead keep the money all to her or open a savings account.

What’s Bad about Being a Sex Worker
There are laws in certain regions that prohibit the exchange of money for sex. Most often than not, there are services that go beyond just co mpanionship and assistance. If authorities found out that there is an exchange of money for sex or Romantic Relationship, then the girl will probably be charged or arrested with a crime.
The most common negative effect of working in an escorting industry is the negative social stigma linked to this particular career. Although there is an improvement as to the acceptance of the sex industry and escorting service in some regions, there are still a few number that are bitter about escorting and prostitution. Women working in this career are frequently discriminated and snubbed.
Moreover, the disapproval of the escort’s friends and family is one of the toughest negative consequences of the career. A lot of women working in this industry feel that they cannot be open about their job, thus making them feel isolated and alone at most times. This is true especially to those who have kids already. As a result, the girls make double and separate lives as an escort and as a normal woman.
In this kind of industry, the woman is also open to a lot of dangerous situations. There are legal escorting services and agencies and there are also illegal transactions. If you are working under illegal business transactions, then most probably you’ll be more open to risky transactions. Additionally, the girl won’t enjoy benefits of most usual companies such as getting approved loans and opening new lines of credit or anything else that requires a verifiable income.
In addition to this, there are no paid vacations or rest days. Typically, when working in an escorting industry, it does not have any benefits like a normal day time employee. You cannot render sick leaves, vacation leaves, paid off vacations and other benefits such as health insurance.
As what we have noticed, the positive effects match well with the negative effects that escorting brings. To leave off and get rid of the stereotyping that escorting receives, be
reminded that this kind of career is not the only occupation that has risks and any probable danger that comes with it. Other jobs can be as risky as escorting. The benefits of the escorting service are as significant as with other careers that inspire a willingness of a person.
Of course, most of the escorts find it more beneficial to work in this kind of industry. Almost always, the girls want easy cash and the only solution for easy money is working as a sex worker.
 

Smoggy

Foundation Member
Looking from a clients point of view its either the easiest job in the world or the hardest job it the world. It all depends upon client and the circumstances of the encounter.

I also think that the relationship between the male (client) and female (sex worker) changes the dynamics of male/female relationships. Because its a transaction the sex is a given so the normal etiquettes don't apply. We see in these forums males and females can talk openly and honestly about topics which would not be as freely discussed outside this environment. That has to be a positive.
 

XLNC

Whatever happened to FREE love?
Legend Member
Well, I take my hat off to the WLs and MLs who bring a little ray of sunshine into my dreary life every so often. I know it cannot be easy. So thank you. :)
 

Rochelle

Forum & Langtrees.com Administrator
Legend Member
love the female company.....that is really something to look forward to. The company is special because we are all in the same "not accepted by society corner" and don't have to lie to each other.....just relaxing.
love the fact that I have the days to do what I want to do. A 7am to 5pm job 5 times a week....I don't think I am cut out for it.
don't like certain behaviour on the floor especially when it comes to drunk guys.
still struggle with the day time sleep but that's where I have to draw the line of how many nights I can work.
All in all more positive than negative......otherwise I wouldn't be here anymore.
 

Polkam

Gold Member
An interesting thread. These girls provide an essential service and are hopefully treated with the respect that they deserve.
"Essential services" are what everyone called the utilities that the government once provided in exchange for tax...hahaha
 
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Polkam

Gold Member
i agree djon respect is essential and with the right attitude there is a lot of fun to be had and sometimes the glow can last for days. It is often strangely emotionally fulfilling as a client, it is after all a service, a business transaction no more no less, but it is also a human exchange of sorts. I don't know who are the vunerable ones, the girls or the clients....haha....I've been doing this sort of thing on and off for twenty seven years and wouldn't change a thing.
 

XLNC

Whatever happened to FREE love?
Legend Member
"Essential services" are what everyone called the utilities that the government once provided in exchange for tax...hahaha

I hear you, the Govt should provide us with 'free' sex services. I'd be quite prepared to pay a $7 co-payment.
 

Happy2

Legend Member
I hear you, the Govt should provide us with 'free' sex services. I'd be quite prepared to pay a $7 co-payment.
Well if your a newbie in the Con's world Your XLNC I believe sex is free maybe even mandatory
And that is within a Govt provided accomodation setting
 

Zeus

Patron Saint of Werewolves
Diamond Member
As I see it, the career of a W/L is not too dissimilar to that of a professional sportsmen.

In both cases there is the potential to make a lot of money but in both cases ones career is relatively short.

Depending on the sport, ones career could end by your mid 20's (in the case of professional gymnasts) or in your mid 30's (in the case of cricket players, footy players etc.).

I am guessing that is probably also true of the sex industry.

So I would imagine one of the biggest challengers for W/L's would be to plan for their future and decide what they will do when their career come to an end.

Well that's my 2c worth anyway.
 

Happy2

Legend Member
As I see it, the career of a W/L is not too dissimilar to that of a professional sportsmen.

In both cases there is the potential to make a lot of money but in both cases ones career is relatively short.

Depending on the sport, ones career could end by your mid 20's (in the case of professional gymnasts) or in your mid 30's (in the case of cricket players, footy players etc.).

I am guessing that is probably also true of the sex industry.

So I would imagine one of the biggest challengers for W/L's would be to plan for their future and decide what they will do when their career come to an end.

Well that's my 2c worth anyway.
Dont tell our beloved Jacquie that Zeus
I mean she is aging like a fine wine
A fine German wine That is Eh Rochelle?
 

Zeus

Patron Saint of Werewolves
Diamond Member
Dont tell our beloved Jacquie that Zeus
I mean she is aging like a fine wine
A fine German wine That is Eh Rochelle?
Mate - Madam Jacqueline is a perfect example. She is now the boss lady at Langtrees of Canberra.
Some professional sportsmen move into commentating or management when their careers come to an end and all I am suggesting is that W/L's have a strategy as to what they will do when their careers come to an end.

In a "regular" job we have the luxury of being able to work to 65+. Not sure the same can be said for W/L's.
 
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Happy2

Legend Member
I see your point Zeus Just meant our fave lady still works, on the white and dark side of the reception desk
And I bet its now for the sheer fun of it
 
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