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Hi Dean,
yes well If I had have been 20 years younger, I would have considered retaliation.
Mate in Perth I have been messed around in similar fashion, after finally making contact with a WL and arranged time place, only to arrive at the door and then have her refuse to answer it? OK iam not Bradd Pitt but iam ok I guess, thats me in the avitar... I chased her down took me a week to get her to answer the phone, messages are a waste of time, she probably would think I was stalking her or something anyway.
She said she had a friend come over and they went shopping instead... Hello!!!!!, I took the day off work to see you for an hour,looked forward to it all week ... "oh i went shopping"? Fuck me drunk! I can see why they get abused sometimes eh.

Another one was 20 years older than her ad stated, if a day, then there was a massage place in Midland, "yes we have girls here in their 20s sir..." yeah right, late 40s maybe.

Back in the mid 80s early 90s, in Perth it was so easy, but now, no way.

I do have a story about Adelaide for you though Dean...
I used to overnight there every month going to work.
One night I turn up at a pub as usual in the cab from the airport about 9:45 pm but this time there was a total glamour dressed to kill in the foyer at reception, even the cabby couldnt stop staring at her, she was just so beautiful, I will never forget it.

It looked as though she was arguing with the receptionist about something, anyway i pay the driver and go inside to check in get my key etc. I turned to leave for the room but she was gone.... rats, went outside with my bag and saw her in the car park, she was upset and crying... Of course I went to ask her if she was ok and if she needed any help. She said "oh they wont let me use the phone at reception, my battery has died and I need to call my work"

The obvious thing to do was suggest she uses the phone in my room as I had just checked in, she thanked me and followed along to the room.
I unlocked and we went in, I showed her the phone and said go for it, then I asked, are you a working girl?
( ultra short mini skirt ) to which she replied yes and that her appointment had not been there as arranged.
She had to contact her agency to inform them.
I asked her if she would like to spend an hour with me instead, and I gave her $250 the amount she asked for and raided the mini bar to offer her a drink.
I only wish I spent 500 for 2 hours, she was the complete package, professional, friendly, nasty and drop dead stunning all rolled into one, her name was Summer, she was at uni, thats all I know.
Maybe that happening was the cause for all my bad luck, you know, ying and yang? lol

Yes I agree its hard to justify 600 an hour for anyone, unless they are a surgeon and they are going to operate on you or your family for a life improving/saving procedure!
I know of people who have studied hard at uni, got a degree or two, and still struggle to earn 200 an hour, and they turn up for work every day on time no exceptions- so there is something very out of kilter in our society wouldnt you say?
 
Ahoy;- Dean and Perthchap, I luv this thread. Its great and as a lot of information, well done to both of you. Keep up the great Work.
Regards from;- HP
 
After reading your experiences I feel so thankful for the experiences I have had

All the privates I met in my early punting days were girls with there own websites It is a personal thing But I just felt a girl who has gone to the trouble/effort to set up a personal website has put in the time and effort and is also in town to stay and will be working to maintain a good reputation

But as most who have met met me know I do prefer visiting the LT lounge

But I do hope your horror stories have happy endings Pardon the pun
 
Thanks HP.

Hiya Happy2, do you know of any WLs that are private independent operators, who run their own website these days, and are based in perth?
I agree with your logic about these types of people who are genuinely trying to provide a decent service. Love to find someone like that.
 
Hey Perthchap

Stella Siren, Alicia Lamour and Alexandra Silk all have their own websites, you can find them on the Private Girls site.

You'll also find Gia Carrera who doesn't have a site but is reliable (at least the two times I saw her she was) and true to her pics.

Good luck.
 
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Hey Perthchap

Stella Siren, Alicia Lamour and Alexandra Silk all have their own websites, you can find them on the Private Girls site.

You'll also find Gia Carrera who doesn't have a site but is reliable (at least the two times I saw her she was) and true to her pics.

Good luck.
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Wwow Vader thankyou so much man, thats very good of you.
 
oh my, oh my, Dean3030 you poor thing I hope your big fella has recovered to the point he is usable again. I'm sorry but I had to giggle reading your post I hear this all the time from the punters. Its even got to the point they ask if we have Asians, when I say No sorry we don't sorry, they what to know where we are ,etc,etc and they are at our doorstep. Maybe cause we are new and we don't have them.
 
Yes never again, I tell you. I was always curious but then you have all heard of the saying.
Curiosity killed the cat. Well it has been nearly a week and my big fella is still a little sore in some places. Time heals and I will eventually click with the right woman. :)
 
I've heard that saying "Curiosity kill the cat" so many times and I use it myself too, when punters call. lol:)
 
happypirate said:
Ahoy;- I luv the fact Dean that you will not stop-trying next time around i would contact Nymph
I suspect she does a great services

http://www.talkinsex.com/members/nymph.48110/
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Thank you for promoting me HP but I am currently not working in that industry in Adelaide. Not that I'm not up for some fun every now and then ;)

Sorry I could not help you out Dean. It's a shame because from your previous posts, it sounds like we could have gotten along.. sexually.

Considering the sex industry is actually illegal in South Australia, this might add to a lot of private girls not advertising with their own website and being vague. We can not be certain that a client is not actually a police officer or inquiry agent. However, I don't believe this is the root of your problem.

I would never compromise my address, so I presume finding a space to host for one hour on a Sunday morning might present as an issue for some private WL's? For a hotel room you are paying a deposit and amount which needs to be covered by bookings which may or may not show up. Considering you are looking for a lady for 9.30am, the room would need to be booked for Saturday night with a late checkout that following Sunday morning. To cover the cost, in case of a no-show, most WL's, as you mentioned earlier, might work the Saturday night.

Also, If a WL has been working the Saturday night and expecting you the Sunday morning, my guess is, she will be tired, worn out and as a result the booking will not be to your satisfaction, Also, asking this lady on a Sunday morning, "Would you prefer to do another booking or have breakfast by the beach and shop for shoes? I think you know the answer.

I think it goes without saying also that, despite your frustration, these girls are contracting for themselves essentially making them their own boss. Unfortunately for you, finding that reliable, organised, GFE-offering, Sunday morning, private WL might take a bit of ringing around and a few try-fail cycles. Boy, and they say single bi-sexual females for couples are unicorns :rolleyes:
 
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Nymph, let me get this right.....Police will actually call a WL to get a bust (sory, pun intended)?
 
vader said:
Nymph, let me get this right.....Police will actually call a WL to get a bust (sory, pun intended)?
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Unlikely. Action only seems to take place when there is a complaint or the media makes authorities look bad. It's mostly illegal brothels which are more in the spotlight as centers for mass money laundering and tax evasion. Plus SAPOL are always recruiting and far more lenient on their requirements compared to other states which suggests a lack of manpower. I keep forgetting that Adelaide's sex industry is not like Melbourne's though. Hiring private investigators to sleep with WL's to collate affidavits as evidence doesn't sound like something the conservative Adelaidian tax-payers would be very happy about..

I'm probably being paranoid but I can't afford to get a criminal record. If I were to work in the industry it would be through an established brothel; less time-wasting, less admin, more security, and minimal overheads. Of course, I might forget to bring any ID with me..
 
Lets not forget that for Sunday morning appointments, it will clash with church! ... but on a more serious note...

I reckon that those low lifes who pose as punters to gather evidence to convict WLs - who are being paid by taxpayers, as is cost of the appointment of which these scumbags rack up, should be strung up!!!

Rape victims and their families should then be able to stone them for an hour or so, because it will mean that due to their actions, there will be less access to the services a WL provides therefore, a greater likely hood that these kinds of disgusting offences will occur out of shear desperation.

What the figures are on this, I have no idea but I think that if there is an alternative for men, other than taking a woman by force, then surely the majority of desperados would take that alternative?
 
I find the best way to get a reliable and organised GFE for a morning booking, is to save up a little more and book a hotel room for a couple of nights - not after a saturday night, but like monday and tuesday when the lady hasn't worked, and then book a lady that you know for most of the morning. I also find that my testosterone seems to be higher first thing in the morning so sex is way better then than late at night when most ladies are working and I'm starting to feel like sleeping. Also some ladies offer really good rates for a long morning booking because there's mostly no competition from other clients at that time and usually a better kind of client will book at that time as opposed to a Saturday night for instance. So it's definitely worth trying.
 
OK I will tell you why it has to be early Sunday morning for my punt.

I am still married and on my weekend away she wants to come along and go shopping. We leave early Saturday morning, I drop her off in a motel in Adelaide's CBD. She prefers this, she can shop all day long with me not whining behind her and she can do what she likes that Saturday night.

Meanwhile I continue another 30 minutes down the road to Woodcroft, where I catch up with my brother, his wife and 2 kids. We play golf for the day, come back to his place, a bit of pool, table tennis, watching the footy and drinking. A really good time with my brother, something I try and maintain, once every 2 months.

Come Sunday morning I pretend that I am still at my brothers house but in fact I am on my way to my secret rendezvous, with my favourite girl. The problem here is she still expects me to pick her up at 11:00am that Sunday morning, hence why my strange time requests for the W/L. I like to spend 1 hour with my girl, but most brothels in Adelaide do no open until 10:00, except of course the Asian one I went to last week. This one opens at 9:30 but I won't me going back there. Body2body Massage is a new place that has just opened but they don't open until 11:00am on the Sunday.

We have been married for 15 years but we have not had sex in the last 3 years. If she is not willing to open her legs for me, then I will find other ways to satisfy my needs. Call me dishonest, a big liar or whatever but a mans got to do what a mans got to do! But yes it is not easy finding a WL that will do this hour for me. :(
 
This is always the argument about privates vs establishments, availability. You will run into issues with both regarding times, Sun morning is a hard time for most but in my experience as a regular of a Private WL they can be more accommodating (in so many ways) for you...however I guess they need to answer their phone first. Maybe it's time for a 24hr establishment in Adelaide?

BTW, I hope your brother is on it, I would hate to think your wife would call and there's no cover story.
 
Dean,
Great thread...I think you need a girl who has a single figure handicap, so at least you get some golf in and can watch her bend over to pick her ball out of the hole. 19th hole would be a bonus.
RB
 
Vader what a terrific idea. An establishment in Adelaide that is open for 24 hours. Why hasn't anyone done this? Surely the demand is there. I am very open with my brother, he knows exact what I am doing. You always need a good wingman.

Rudyboy, you made me laugh. My golf is probably well below average and to have a girl on the course with me, well my drives could go anywhere. :)
 
Miss Twinkle and I play together every Wednesday and she occassionaly takes money of me, $10 this week!

We have tried to work a way we could have a corporate golf day with our customers and our girls serving drinks LOL
 
Couple things here in over 10 plus years in this industry I have never had a visit from vice and gaming (police) they have no interest in private workers. They only target parlors mainly ones with underage girls or drugs. Street worker they are hot on their tales. Adelaide hasn't had a 24 hour place in a long time in fact very few brothles left they have been shut down. Most private ladies either work from home, rent a place to work from or motel room. I personally don't understand as with so much notice while ladies are not available at that day or time. I see many gentleman from the county and more than happy to work outside of my normal hours with 24 hours notice. Dean what sort of lady do you like age looks dress size etc im sure we can find a suitable lady for you. The only time I have had to deal with police is when working in a brothel and Adelaide sex industry is nothing like Melbourne. I have worked in Melbourne a couple times aswell Sydney. No brothel here offers security most are filled with drug users with a very small percentage being clean normal women. My main work in brothels had been as receptionist and a couple occasion had to call my own people as back up security when things gone bad. Being a private worker in my opinion is much saver and less hassle.
 
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Miss Monique said:
Couple things here in over 10 plus years in this industry I have never had a visit from vice and gaming (police) they have no interest in private workers. They only target parlors mainly ones with underage girls or drugs. Street worker they are hot on their tales. Adelaide hasn't had a 24 hour place in a long time in fact very few brothles left they have been shut down. Most private ladies either work from home, rent a place to work from or motel room. I personally don't understand as with so much notice while ladies are not available at that day or time. I see many gentleman from the county and more than happy to work outside of my normal hours with 24 hours notice. Dean what sort of lady do you like age looks dress size etc im sure we can find a suitable lady for you. The only time I have had to deal with police is when working in a brothel and Adelaide sex industry is nothing like Melbourne. I have worked in Melbourne a couple times aswell Sydney. No brothel here offers security most are filled with drug users with a very small percentage being clean normal women. My main work in brothels had been as receptionist and a couple occasion had to call my own people as back up security when things gone bad. Being a private worker in my opinion is much saver and less hassle.
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Great info Miss M. Thank you for the heads up. Private ladies with no license in Victoria can get in trouble. I've worked in Melbourne and Sydney also but Adelaide to me is new so any inside information is much appreciated.
 
Monique you ask what type of girl I am after. My ideal woman would have the following assets. But really I have not got a one track mind and personality really decides in the end. If I can get comfortable with the girl early, I know we're in for a good time.

Age 22-40 I am not really fussed with age, you go older and you get the experience, you go younger and you capture there beauty and innocence.
Dress size Probably no higher then 12. With a big preference around size 8
Bust C would be my most preferred. I am not really into big breasts. C is a nice size you get your hand over.
Height 5'6'' or above. I am 6'4" tall and do not want a girl too short.
Hair Blondes are my favourite but again I have punted some very nice brunettes as well.

I am rather big downstairs so I would need a girl that can cope with this. Damn frustrating really, some guys want a bigger fella but I probably wouldn't mind going down a size. Because of my size, I have to go careful with the girl. Every time I visit a brothel, they suggest I should bring my own condoms.
 
Adelaide is very layed back I think the fact its not legalized makes it very easy to work. Street workers are the main ladies police target then brothels. Private ladies they leave alone. Here no requirement for license or health checks before you start work unlike Victoria. The places are not as grand as some of the gentleman clubs in Melbourne. I worked at the Boardroom and another in Carlton many years ago. There had been some very nice upmarket places open in Adelaide but sadly they did not stay open long. Very few fs places left now not good for the men who like to choose from verity of woman
 
Ahoy;- Thank-You everyone. As I have expressed earlier....This Thread is Excellent
Thank-You, MM, Nymph, Dean
Well done
 
Miss Monique said:
So sorry to hear this is happening to you luv I can only think that perhaps the lady is not working at the moment etc. Being a private lady I responded to msg as soon as I see them unless it's overnight or I'm with a gentleman then I reply once I have said goodbye to him. A good WL will be able to handle the administration side as well the pleasure it's like running any business you need to be professional at all times. All the best in finding a lady to meet your needs.
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A good response Miss Monique. I think you have a very VALID point to make regarding running a good business NO matter what it is. Everyone has administration issues and a life to deal with .One must ALWAYS be professional .
 
Miss Monique said:
Dean here is a lady you may enjoy I have only head very goods things about https://scarletblue.com.au/escort/lexie-mannion and another ladies that come to mind but slightly outside your request Link is not working so has been taken down
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Thanks Monique. I did notice both girls and I am probably leaning toward Lexie but I understand she works from Gawler. For this to work I would have to see a girl in or near Adelaide CBD

Lacie4U said:
A good response Miss Monique. I think you have a very VALID point to make regarding running a good business NO matter what it is. Everyone has administration issues and a life to deal with .One must ALWAYS be professional .
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Lacie4U, administration is the biggest factor in a business. You may have your regular clients but it is crucial that you reply to any potential new clients. I believe every W/L should be able to respond to a person's email and or text. I don't really expect it on the day but probably within 2 days. To not reply is really so unprofessional. The few that did reply to me, I view them so much higher now then those that didn't. One did take 3 days but she apologised, said she was busy. I'm fine with that.
 
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Perthchap said:
Hi Dean,
yes well If I had have been 20 years younger, I would have considered retaliation.
Mate in Perth I have been messed around in similar fashion, after finally making contact with a WL and arranged time place, only to arrive at the door and then have her refuse to answer it? OK iam not Bradd Pitt but iam ok I guess, thats me in the avitar... I chased her down took me a week to get her to answer the phone, messages are a waste of time, she probably would think I was stalking her or something anyway.
She said she had a friend come over and they went shopping instead... Hello!!!!!, I took the day off work to see you for an hour,looked forward to it all week ... "oh i went shopping"? f**k me drunk! I can see why they get abused sometimes eh.

Another one was 20 years older than her ad stated, if a day, then there was a massage place in Midland, "yes we have girls here in their 20s sir..." yeah right, late 40s maybe.

Back in the mid 80s early 90s, in Perth it was so easy, but now, no way.

I do have a story about Adelaide for you though Dean...
I used to overnight there every month going to work.
One night I turn up at a pub as usual in the cab from the airport about 9:45 pm but this time there was a total glamour dressed to kill in the foyer at reception, even the cabby couldnt stop staring at her, she was just so beautiful, I will never forget it.

It looked as though she was arguing with the receptionist about something, anyway i pay the driver and go inside to check in get my key etc. I turned to leave for the room but she was gone.... rats, went outside with my bag and saw her in the car park, she was upset and crying... Of course I went to ask her if she was ok and if she needed any help. She said "oh they wont let me use the phone at reception, my battery has died and I need to call my work"

The obvious thing to do was suggest she uses the phone in my room as I had just checked in, she thanked me and followed along to the room.
I unlocked and we went in, I showed her the phone and said go for it, then I asked, are you a working girl?
( ultra short mini skirt ) to which she replied yes and that her appointment had not been there as arranged.
She had to contact her agency to inform them.
I asked her if she would like to spend an hour with me instead, and I gave her $250 the amount she asked for and raided the mini bar to offer her a drink.
I only wish I spent 500 for 2 hours, she was the complete package, professional, friendly, nasty and drop dead stunning all rolled into one, her name was Summer, she was at uni, thats all I know.
Maybe that happening was the cause for all my bad luck, you know, ying and yang? lol

Yes I agree its hard to justify 600 an hour for anyone, unless they are a surgeon and they are going to operate on you or your family for a life improving/saving procedure!
I know of people who have studied hard at uni, got a degree or two, and still struggle to earn 200 an hour, and they turn up for work every day on time no exceptions- so there is something very out of kilter in our society wouldnt you say?
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Excellent statement in your last paragraph !!
 
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