Porn star or passionate ?

[Francesca_LT]

This one is for the gents .. I know the natural eb and flow of hormones and our surroundings can impact on the type of sex we want and how horny we are at times, but from a male perspective do you prefer what you see in porn ? Do you like a rough session with deep hard f$&king or do you prefer a passionate experience with lots of touching, teasing and kissing? From my experience, whenever I have been involved in a dirty rough session, the men manage to last for ages yet when we have a close intimate session, they blow quite quickly. It got me thinking

 

[John Smithl]

This one is for the gents .. I know the natural eb and flow of hormones and our surroundings can impact on the type of sex we want and how horny we are at times, but from a male perspective do you prefer what you see in porn ? Do you like a rough session with deep hard f$&king or do you prefer a passionate experience with lots of touching, teasing and kissing? From my experience, whenever I have been involved in a dirty rough session, the men manage to last for ages yet when we have a close intimate session, they blow quite quickly. It got me thinking

My preference is to have no time limit to develop the serpentine journey from gentle, sensual intimacy to a mutually connected primal experience
... then bask in the glow together

 

[Seduce me]

I think it all comes down to mood and connection with the person you're with at the time.
Being spontaneous and finding a middle ground I think to compromise, what each other want,so I personally I like to please.
I find if the woman enjoys it she'll give back 10x.

so sometimes the passionate sex turns into pse, or sometimes you just want that passionate sex and feel each other...

 

[Vader]

Speaking from someone who likes to have regular ladies and have a rapport, I definitely goes on the feel on the day. If you have rapport and a connection, you’ll know what each other likes and it’ll be natural as to what you do, whether that’s a PSE or a more passionate experience.

Although sure there’s guys who want to recreate their favourite porn scene.

 

[R041]

Personally, I always look for the deeper connection leading to truly passionate love making/sex . I have thought for a long some time that most WLs must get to a piont in their profession where they are just so over being fucked several times a day. And there are too many men who have no idea how a woman naturally feels, needing to making love is their primary desire. Im sure that the majority of WLs still have a deep seated desire to be treated like a beautiful woman should be, gently and lovingly.

If she wants to up the tempo, let her have her way, us men will soon get the message, loud and clear.

 

[mrys]

I agree with RO41. It's why many mature WL's specify they see men over a certain age only. We were all young bucks once, had raging boner's 24/7 and could f*ck for hours. If you're a cougar type lady you may well want that but I think most women after a certain age are over being ploughed hard and fast for hours!

 

[911TS]

I always thought that hard and fast pounding required build up. The harder the fucking, the more work and teasing done beforehand.

 

[mrchef69]

This one is for the gents .. I know the natural eb and flow of hormones and our surroundings can impact on the type of sex we want and how horny we are at times, but from a male perspective do you prefer what you see in porn ? Do you like a rough session with deep hard f$&king or do you prefer a passionate experience with lots of touching, teasing and kissing? From my experience, whenever I have been involved in a dirty rough session, the men manage to last for ages yet when we have a close intimate session, they blow quite quickly. It got me thinking

Makes sense to me .. We mentally get off on the genuine pleasure and enthusiasm of the other party. The thought (even if sometimes it is a convincing illusion) that you want to fuck us is what we miss in life. By definition if someone young fit and sexy genuinely wanted to do those things to us we wouldn't be visiting.

I love to start with a massage for my wl progressing into slow genuine lovemaking because 9 times out of 10 it's more likely she will genuinely be into what happens later in the session.

Being actively and genuinely made love to (or actively fucked) by a beautiful woman is the reason I visit. The caveat is that Its difficult for me to climax for round 2 so at some point unless she's super fit I need to take over the lead role physically and go for it just to get to the end.

 

[911TS]

Makes sense to me .. We mentally get off on the genuine pleasure and enthusiasm of the other party. The thought (even if sometimes it is a convincing illusion) that you want to fuck us is what we miss in life. By definition if someone young fit and sexy genuinely wanted to do those things to us we wouldn't be visiting.

I love to start with a massage for my wl progressing into slow genuine lovemaking because 9 times out of 10 it's more likely she will genuinely be into what happens later in the session.

Being actively and genuinely made love to (or actively fucked) by a beautiful woman is the reason I visit. The caveat is that Its difficult for me to climax for round 2 so at some point unless she's super fit I need to take over the lead role physically and go for it just to get to the end.

Getting the first one out quickly helps

 

[svengali]

I think sex, as depicted in most porn movies, is miles from reality and young bucks who believe fast, hard and dominant is the way to approach it are in for a rude shock if they ever get lucky in real life. They may also find that their partners do not respond as quickly, eagerly or passionately as the ladies of film and that a build up over time is necessary to get most ladies to that point.

Neither type of porn is "right or wrong" and a lot can be learned from it but the viewer needs to understand that, like any movie, it does not reflect real life. This is particularly true when approaching a working lady. She may be there"to do her job" but, usually, a few minutes spent talking and building a rapport will pay dividends, as will taking the time to find out weat she enjoys and what she doesn't. The "throw her on the bed and shag her brains out" approach will definitely not be well received.

 

[Direct101]

passionate experience with lots of touching, teasing and kissing

 

[Farm Boy 2]

I just like to get it done with my dignity and body intact .

 

[UNSC-ONI]

GFE, not into that sloppy dirty guak-guak stuff they do in porn.

 

[911TS]

GFE, not into that sloppy dirty guak-guak stuff they do in porn.

Can be fun sometimes

 

[Blobbit]

I'm going to go the opposite. I tend toward a PSE style more often than not.

 

[Seduce me]

I'm going to go the opposite. I tend toward a PSE style more often than not.

Yep agreed I'm not going to an escort for a cuddle.

 

[Francesca_LT]

Love these replies! This is why it’s so important to chat with your working lady before booking, so many different opinions. It’s great

 

[Blobbit]

Love these replies! This is why it’s so important to chat with your working lady before booking, so many different opinions. It’s great

100%. I'm only getting over my "shyness" about that. Wish I'd done it 10 years ago.

Though I will say, it works both ways. Some WLs seem to prefer not too, or can get put off. Also why I prefer establishing a bit of a relationship with a WL, rather than just a one off thing.

 

[happytimes]

Best and only that I have had are PSE experiences. Just said in another post, I was never looking for GFE. Each to their own, but I only remember 2 girls that were weird, as in please leave. Cultures think that’s all I can say on that. Though met some awesome W/Ls to for sure.

 

[kaibigan]

A passionate experience with lots of touching, teasing and kissing for me all the way - if I'm finding it awkward having a conversation with her, the experience isn't going to be as satisfying.

For me, one of the sexiest experiences ever was messaging someone I see 3 or 4 times a year and asking if she would available in half an hour, getting an immediate reply asking if it's okay to make it an hour, then getting to the shop to find her waiting at reception in jeans, baggy shirt, no makeup ... "sorry, I was at the checkout when you messaged, it's my day off but I thought it would be nice to see you."