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One day great career in business, a year later working girl in Langtrees! Why we work in brothel?
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In real life man say that they would prefer to be with women, that determined, have they own opinion, know what they want, with good income and education... But when times come to make choice, most of them married to women completely opposite they ask for.... Insecure, often boring and those ones who depend on man financially. Why they don't admit from the beginning they like weaker women?I am not saying strong woman, someone like Julia Gillard or
Gina Rinehart. Just woman that not afraid of challenge.
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In real life man say that they would prefer to be with women, that determined, have they own opinion, know what they want, have good income, education... But when times come to make choice, most of them married to women completely opposite. Pretty but insecure, boring and those ones who depend on man financially. Why they don't admit they like weaker women?I am not saying strong woman, someone like Julia Gillard or Gina. Just women that not afraid of challenge. Why double standards? We have great management in Langtrees, and they very strong women, quite a characters, in happy marriages. Is it rare breed of man that extinct?
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My man married me because I'm interesting, passionate, educated and challenging- but I submit to his final decsison.
My relationship would lack luster if I didn't question him. My man would be bored!
Men marry boring because it's what they are taught to want, but they want some one intelligent, graceful and bratty to keep them young! They want a best friend who trusts them infintiy enough to be a Man and not a silly husband. They want a women who moans at having her hair pulled- not a biatch who whines about dishes.
My relationship would lack luster if I didn't question him. My man would be bored!
Men marry boring because it's what they are taught to want, but they want some one intelligent, graceful and bratty to keep them young! They want a best friend who trusts them infintiy enough to be a Man and not a silly husband. They want a women who moans at having her hair pulled- not a biatch who whines about dishes.
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As a man I like women who are my equal not stronger or weaker.
A lady does not have look more vulnerable T he person you find will be or should be the right one for you.
As a male I have problems finding a nice lady but I believe it will happen one day.
You don,t have to go looking things will just happen.
That what I believe .
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Yes He would always treat you as no1. thanksAs long as he treat me as number 1
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I'm not sure it is a case of stronger, weaker or equal at all. Really a man just wants to feel like he is the 'safe' place for a woman. No matter what she starts or challenges she takes on, it's our job to put an arm out and convey a sense of 'it's all right, I got you.'Best depicted in this photo.
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This is a great question Lana and I can answer that from my own likes. Well I like a woman to be strong, intelligent, confident and want me but not need me. But a really important thing is having just a vulnerability hidden away there somewhere, so she's not totally wonder woman.. she can go out into the world strong and independent and take on the world.. but when occasionally it all gets a bit overwhelming, or she's having a bad day.. just like any of us, she can just let go.. fall into my arms and lose herself in my embrace for a little while, not have to be strong.. be able to be the little girl she once was even for a moment. I don't know if that makes sense but it just totally melts me when I find someone with all those qualities that I'm attracted to - working ladies included.
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Perfectly said!This is a great question Lana and I can answer that from my own likes. Well I like a woman to be strong, intelligent, confident and want me but not need me. But a really important thing is having just a vulnerability hidden away there somewhere, so she's not totally wonder woman.. she can go out into the world strong and independent and take on the world.. but when occasionally it all gets a bit overwhelming, or she's having a bad day.. just like any of us, she can just let go.. fall into my arms and lose herself in my embrace for a little while, not have to be strong.. be able to be the little girl she once was even for a moment. I don't know if that makes sense but it just totally melts me when I find someone with all those qualities that I'm attracted to - working ladies included.
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We Know you're the Stronger One at Home Ms. Sue ....................xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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hi Dallas this is well written and it is what i wanted to say but could not find the correct words . i would like to add a little more to this if i may and it is from me . the above is a 2 way streak both parties to be strong when not in the presence of the other and when together they are invincible to all others , but like children in each others arms
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both parties to be strong when not in the presence of the other and when together they are invincible to all others , but like children in each others arms enjoy the weekend
This is a great question Lana and I can answer that from my own likes. Well I like a woman to be strong, intelligent, confident and want me but not need me. But a really important thing is having just a vulnerability hidden away there somewhere, so she's not totally wonder woman.. she can go out into the world strong and independent and take on the world.. but when occasionally it all gets a bit overwhelming, or she's having a bad day.. just like any of us, she can just let go.. fall into my arms and lose herself in my embrace for a little while, not have to be strong.. be able to be the little girl she once was even for a moment. I don't know if that makes sense but it just totally melts me when I find someone with all those qualities that I'm attracted to - working ladies included.
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Hard to pin point; easier to say what I dislike in a woman.. than I like.
Immature;
Giggles about everything;
Real materialistic;
not dependable;
NO sense of humor; and
Can't stop talking.
Otherwise; it's all good and all about compromise. You know.. compromise...
She wants a cat,
I don't want a cat,
So we compromised...
We got a cat.
Immature;
Giggles about everything;
Real materialistic;
not dependable;
NO sense of humor; and
Can't stop talking.
Otherwise; it's all good and all about compromise. You know.. compromise...
She wants a cat,
I don't want a cat,
So we compromised...
We got a cat.
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hi Dallas this is well written and it is what i wanted to say but could not find the correct words . i would like to add a little more to this if i may and it is from me . the above is a 2 way streak
enjoy the weekend
Thanks JL, I was going to mention the two way street but I didn't want to write too much.
Thanks for bringing it up as I agree!
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Very difficult "choice" to balance. A relationship must fullfill both sides of the equation - lowering your defenses (by balancing out the concrete preferential differences) as well as honesty in expressing each one's volatility or in this case - vulnerabilities. At the same time, we must realise the need to remind ourselves over what is concrete and what is sensitive.
The concrete prefential differences is the biggest start & end obstacles I believe in any relationship. Where as the expressing of honest attributes through weaknesses - are actually, dare I say it - more "easier" and straightforward. Because everyone should already be able to inherently express them (unless if one is mentally disadvantaged). All they need is a private consenting environment, and trust.
As a concrete tangible criteria - nothing else appreciates and won my respect for a woman who's fit. Health, and fitness to me speaks as action a lot louder than words and personality can. Why? Because it motivates and serves as a reminder that survival & instinct themselves are apparent in every little ignored aspects of life. Through this, she becomes a reminder of resisting against the temptation of external forces, and able to bring out the inner beauty of her own, BY her own efforts*.
So through in many extent - I'd like her (if at all by any forgiveable chances this were to happen) to be of strongwilled, independent in concrete, tangible nature but honestly and somewhat volatile and sensitive in her interpersonal ways. Yes, flame me for my grammar - but it's very hard to describe.
* Note: as long as she's not a extremist/feminist, that is. Or manipulative to her own superficial wishes for "equality" aka princess syndrome. That to me; is simply unhealthy distortion.
A word about "balance"
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We are all picky ourselves. When something is deemed too much or too little, we often ask to compensate or sacrifice. And this comes the need to control. When a certain attribute is reached by its limits or scrutinised (eg. whether a woman is deemed "stronger' than a man in a given aspect) an event for a need in controlling these (again - concrete preferential differences) will eventually come. It will happen.
No other ways I can think of that can achieve this "balance" without leaving some overly significant economic wastage emotional loss / sacrifice. Human nature in itself is - sadly - a dictatorship.
I live by this quote from somewhere along these lines - "the stronger you are, the weaker you get". This is real and cannot be imagined any other way. A positive consenting environment and trust between a collective few therefore - is important to realise this time and time again.
The concrete prefential differences is the biggest start & end obstacles I believe in any relationship. Where as the expressing of honest attributes through weaknesses - are actually, dare I say it - more "easier" and straightforward. Because everyone should already be able to inherently express them (unless if one is mentally disadvantaged). All they need is a private consenting environment, and trust.
As a concrete tangible criteria - nothing else appreciates and won my respect for a woman who's fit. Health, and fitness to me speaks as action a lot louder than words and personality can. Why? Because it motivates and serves as a reminder that survival & instinct themselves are apparent in every little ignored aspects of life. Through this, she becomes a reminder of resisting against the temptation of external forces, and able to bring out the inner beauty of her own, BY her own efforts*.
So through in many extent - I'd like her (if at all by any forgiveable chances this were to happen) to be of strongwilled, independent in concrete, tangible nature but honestly and somewhat volatile and sensitive in her interpersonal ways. Yes, flame me for my grammar - but it's very hard to describe.
* Note: as long as she's not a extremist/feminist, that is. Or manipulative to her own superficial wishes for "equality" aka princess syndrome. That to me; is simply unhealthy distortion.
A word about "balance"
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We are all picky ourselves. When something is deemed too much or too little, we often ask to compensate or sacrifice. And this comes the need to control. When a certain attribute is reached by its limits or scrutinised (eg. whether a woman is deemed "stronger' than a man in a given aspect) an event for a need in controlling these (again - concrete preferential differences) will eventually come. It will happen.
No other ways I can think of that can achieve this "balance" without leaving some overly significant economic wastage emotional loss / sacrifice. Human nature in itself is - sadly - a dictatorship.
I live by this quote from somewhere along these lines - "the stronger you are, the weaker you get". This is real and cannot be imagined any other way. A positive consenting environment and trust between a collective few therefore - is important to realise this time and time again.
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...Just literally finished watching The Sessions (John Hawkes / Helen Hunt). The tremendous amount of effort, care and of all - compassion to lower one's concrete differences between two people; of two different worlds - was simply astounding. (Though I thought the movie could've been a lot longer; details felt missing) I haven't seen anything else that covers the full, underlying meaning of empathy.
Something to slow down for the relaxing evening. Or more perhaps something for the ladies.
Something to slow down for the relaxing evening. Or more perhaps something for the ladies.
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I have met my friend who came back from England just recently. He is 45, a bit chubby, spend there a few years and made good money, and he is looking for wife now BUT he said there is no way he would consider a woman with child or children. He never been married, from a family of 4 kids but never consider being someone who already have kids. Is it egoism? Or what is it? To me, if I love my man I love his kids. I am not poor, and live comfortable. No matter what, but its seems that men , especially well to do think that woman with child not good enough? Or damaged or used goods? I am generalising but is that reality for today? Just don't bring up my work because he doesn't know I am working in the industry...............................
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I`m with Anastacia, If you truly love someone and they happen to have kids, then those kids are part of that person. They should never be considered excess baggage from a previous relationship.
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Hello, As long as you love each other the natter of children or no children is not the question .You have to be happy in your inner self.
For me I would prefer to meet a lady without children ,but if I love her .I would not have a problem with having children from a previous relationship.
It is all in the heart.
For me I would prefer to meet a lady without children ,but if I love her .I would not have a problem with having children from a previous relationship.
It is all in the heart.
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If I were in a dating pool I think it would very much depend on the guy, but my first thought here is No, I wouldn't.
It would depend on the age of the children and the age of the man. It would depend on his relationship with his ex. But I would prefer not to.
It would depend on the age of the children and the age of the man. It would depend on his relationship with his ex. But I would prefer not to.
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I used to think i wouldn't want to be with someone who had kids from a previous relationship but as I grow up a little I realise how much love I have to give! If he had children then they are just another part of him. So more of him to love! 
But that's keeping in mind how old the children are and how well you explain the situation to them. The children will , and certainly should, come first.
But that's keeping in mind how old the children are and how well you explain the situation to them. The children will , and certainly should, come first.
