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I think for first timers experimenting at home or a hotel with another "play friend" is more comfortable than joining a crowd as such,,,perhaps if all goes well then try something more exploratory
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all baby stepsI think for first timers experimenting at home or a hotel with another "play friend" is more comfortable than joining a crowd as such,,,perhaps if all goes well then try something more exploratory
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if you go to 1 of the couples night , your hubby might get a happy happening and if not then you only need to go as far as you are both comfortable with , no pressure
punter.dave
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I know this hasn't been posted in for a while but it came up in similar threads and after reading I thought I'd add a comment from my own personal experience.
The thing I would personally say is the most important from experience for both guys and girls perspective is don't force an issue with your partner if you are truly happy with them but also don't be anything but yourself. Whether it be another girl in the bed room or another guy in the bed room things can go sour for a long time to come if both parties are not completely ok with the idea. Now that's not to say don't encourage your partner to perhaps see things in a different light as a bit of coaxing can be required to get someone out of their comfort zone whether that be sex with same sex or multiple partners , BDSM or various other role play.
I think sexual satisfaction is a very important part of any healthy relationship and if one person is not being themselves that this will eventually show or manifest in one way or another. HOWEVER if you force someone to do something and they end up doing it purely to try and make you happy despite not wanting to it can have a truly negative impact on a relationship
I've been the "other guy" once in a mmf session , it was a friends boyfriend who suggested it and her being eager to please and not shy of the idea convinced me to join them. The session itself went fine and being a completely hetero male there was no awkwardness however after the session , a whole new side of her partner came out in the weeks to follow.. an incredibility jealous and hostile side which stemmed from the session. This came from the fact that despite it being his idea he clearly wasn't comfortable with it, I've also known girls who are quite open to the idea of another woman in the bed room but then afterwards it's a nightmare that ends the relationship.
Because of the above experience I doubt I'll never entertain the idea of a mmf session again but I'm not completely closed off to the idea if it's a very very different situation.
The thing I would personally say is the most important from experience for both guys and girls perspective is don't force an issue with your partner if you are truly happy with them but also don't be anything but yourself. Whether it be another girl in the bed room or another guy in the bed room things can go sour for a long time to come if both parties are not completely ok with the idea. Now that's not to say don't encourage your partner to perhaps see things in a different light as a bit of coaxing can be required to get someone out of their comfort zone whether that be sex with same sex or multiple partners , BDSM or various other role play.
I think sexual satisfaction is a very important part of any healthy relationship and if one person is not being themselves that this will eventually show or manifest in one way or another. HOWEVER if you force someone to do something and they end up doing it purely to try and make you happy despite not wanting to it can have a truly negative impact on a relationship
I've been the "other guy" once in a mmf session , it was a friends boyfriend who suggested it and her being eager to please and not shy of the idea convinced me to join them. The session itself went fine and being a completely hetero male there was no awkwardness however after the session , a whole new side of her partner came out in the weeks to follow.. an incredibility jealous and hostile side which stemmed from the session. This came from the fact that despite it being his idea he clearly wasn't comfortable with it, I've also known girls who are quite open to the idea of another woman in the bed room but then afterwards it's a nightmare that ends the relationship.
Because of the above experience I doubt I'll never entertain the idea of a mmf session again but I'm not completely closed off to the idea if it's a very very different situation.