Hi Onwithit
I love this topic. Learning about this is a passion of mine, and I'll share some of what I learned. Hope others can offer me some good stuff
Well there are a million and one techniques, lines, etc etc out there that enhance the pleasures we can give to a lady and have her smiling for more. *****But in all that stuff we all have our ways and are learning from each other.
The core of my most inner beliefs about associating with all people is summed up in a few words.
- Being Genuine
- Being Giving
- Being Intuitive
In the context of being in unison with the laws of YMMV with a lady in every kind of encounter, here are my thoughts. *****
I'll actually start with BEING GIVING. *****In all facets of whether business, pleasure, and all else. *****I have been living with a philosophy that has reaped me much rewards. *****GIVE WHAT THE OTHER WANTS, AND I WILL GET WHAT I WANT BY DEFAULT.
The most obvious one is to be well presented. *****I for one find no pleasure in a lady with a head full of dandruff, that stick to her moustache while her behind smells like shit. *****So I ensure that I am clean shaven, smell nice, and are well presented. *****That's a given for me.
Then in amongst all the tricks and skills we all have bits of, the intuition comes in. *****With some ladies I lay on the 'GAME' *****or the act really thick. *****To create an atmosphere we both like. ***** *****With some ladies, it's a total fantasy. *****With some it's more genuine.
Like my encounters with the original PSE Vivian, it was cheeky and dirty. *****And attitudes based on banter was what worked best. *****I could tell she liked that, so I joined with being a smart ass. *****She returned by zooming up the mileage. *****But all this is done in the context of fun and enjoyment.
With a cute Korean from DL called Cola. *****She is shy, so I put on a convincing game of being a pampering boyfriend as though we were teenagers. *****This made her comfortable and sweet and gave a real girlfriend experience. *****
When I met Lillian Tan. *****I picked up straight away that she is a straight shooter and has quite a fun and fiery persona. *****With her I played no games and chose no characters. *****I was into her and I was just as genuinely being myself. *****She appreciated that. *****A bond to what I still believe is genuine was created.
In doing this I have to believe as though whatever for the lack of a better word 'role' is real. *****Women have powerful intution and they can tell if it's an act. *****When that happens it kills the mood for them.*****
BEING GIVING. *****Is another attitude that generated a lot of great experiences for me. *****Instead of going in there demanding this that and the other sporting an attitude of a paying patron that deserves the fullest of service, I make it all about them. *****Yeah, I work out what they're into. *****Sometimes it takes a few visits. *****Then I service them to the best of what I have. *****A lot of the time it's the respect and appreciation they seek. *****But the sexual tricks that get them off helps immensely if they are into it.
Most if not all of the time the favour is returned long before the session is over. *****They tell me that they spend all day long with hairy, smelly, rude, and demanding guys that treat them like whores and demand natural sex and pounds the rice out of their booty for the entire session. *****It's nice for them to see guys that treat them nice and make them feel special.
So for me, what works is to be genuine, know what they like and give.
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