Manhandling... Another big NO NO.

[Happy2]

Hahahahaha, oh man! Yes, wasn't thinking. Missing one B though happy2.

Bugger!!

 

[Ginger Spice]

Learn BJJ Ginger. You'll feel a lot safer knowing you can render any guy unconscious without even leaving a mark on him. I'm amazed more of you W/L don't actually.
You could even pool together and organize a seminar for you all, dealing with the unique specifics of your job. You'd be amazed what you can learn in a focused 3-4hr seminar.
I can recommend some great people, including WA's only female blk belt, if your interested.

@Mary-Anne K Can we? lol

 

[Winter W.]

So, After doing days for so long, I had decided to do two saturday nights in a row (bump up the bank account).

The clients are a lot more different at night time then they are during the day. Apart from there being more of them, they are usually more intoxicated and god knows what else. I do not partake in drinking or any other naughty substances, so i am sure the girls will understand me when I say I don't get their sense of humour.. Or have any idea what half of them want! Sometimes they cant even form sentences.

First big no no, came from a young guy, he was lovely to look at, however intoxicated. His 5 minute warning timer went off (we had already had our showers) and he wanted to have sex..... I reminded him by the time we were both naked there was no way we could make anything happen in 4 minutes. I suggested a blow job, he told me I was a good girl. So then time was completely up. Let me remind you. He was an attractive young man, so yes I had enjoyed my time with him. However at the end he said "I just want to throw you down on the bed and f*ck you so hard" I giggled and reminded him he would need to extend as our time was well and truly up. He then grabs my arms and throws me down on the bed and goes to climb on top (we are both dressed) I say very calmly "You are making me uncomfortable" He immediately lets go of me and says some things that made it seem as if it was my fault I was uncomfortable??? I told him that it wasn't acceptable behaviour and for the first time in a while I saw a client leave with a sour look on his face.

Second BIGGEST NO NO. Was another young guy who I had a feeling no one else saw him for a particular reason. Never the less. He got on my nerves the entire session begging for extras I don't provide. The entire time! He had come already, so we had just got him already to go by the time the 5 minute warning timer went off. I had told him when his 5 minutes were over he had to stop. He grabbed onto me tighter and then said "2 more minutes" rather then make a big deal, I allowed it. A few minutes later I told him he really had to stop "two more minutes" "no hun, you have to stop now" He grabs tighter.. Alarm bells. "STOP!" I yell. He instantly lets go and chucks a little bit of a man tanty (not attractive).

Both times both clients had grabbed hard enough for possible bruising. At what point are we allowed to smack clients? Or at what point does the screaming start? I believed I handled both experiences professionally unfortunately both clients left with an unusual pout (which almost never happens) So I don't even know if I am pissed off at them (I gave a damn good service) or at myself hahaha

xx

you handled yourself in a more dignified manner than i would have. I dont have many rules in the bedroom but one thing i will not put up with is someone trying to bully me into doing something i dont want.

 

[Dominatrix Paige Pope]

So, After doing days for so long, I had decided to do two saturday nights in a row (bump up the bank account).

The clients are a lot more different at night time then they are during the day. Apart from there being more of them, they are usually more intoxicated and god knows what else. I do not partake in drinking or any other naughty substances, so i am sure the girls will understand me when I say I don't get their sense of humour.. Or have any idea what half of them want! Sometimes they cant even form sentences.

First big no no, came from a young guy, he was lovely to look at, however intoxicated. His 5 minute warning timer went off (we had already had our showers) and he wanted to have sex..... I reminded him by the time we were both naked there was no way we could make anything happen in 4 minutes. I suggested a blow job, he told me I was a good girl. So then time was completely up. Let me remind you. He was an attractive young man, so yes I had enjoyed my time with him. However at the end he said "I just want to throw you down on the bed and f*ck you so hard" I giggled and reminded him he would need to extend as our time was well and truly up. He then grabs my arms and throws me down on the bed and goes to climb on top (we are both dressed) I say very calmly "You are making me uncomfortable" He immediately lets go of me and says some things that made it seem as if it was my fault I was uncomfortable??? I told him that it wasn't acceptable behaviour and for the first time in a while I saw a client leave with a sour look on his face.

Second BIGGEST NO NO. Was another young guy who I had a feeling no one else saw him for a particular reason. Never the less. He got on my nerves the entire session begging for extras I don't provide. The entire time! He had come already, so we had just got him already to go by the time the 5 minute warning timer went off. I had told him when his 5 minutes were over he had to stop. He grabbed onto me tighter and then said "2 more minutes" rather then make a big deal, I allowed it. A few minutes later I told him he really had to stop "two more minutes" "no hun, you have to stop now" He grabs tighter.. Alarm bells. "STOP!" I yell. He instantly lets go and chucks a little bit of a man tanty (not attractive).

Both times both clients had grabbed hard enough for possible bruising. At what point are we allowed to smack clients? Or at what point does the screaming start? I believed I handled both experiences professionally unfortunately both clients left with an unusual pout (which almost never happens) So I don't even know if I am pissed off at them (I gave a damn good service) or at myself hahaha

xx

Ive had the privilege to see you at work hehe and i feel incredibly lucky.
I have seen first hand more than once the service you give and the way you handle yourself with clients.
unfortunately even amazing girls like you will get clients like that.
Keep doing your thing Ginger haha.

P xo

 

[Nateeee]

Just my two cents on self defence...

BJJ can take a while to learn. Correct technique is important in bjj especially where the weight difference between a lady and punter is prominent. Boxing would be a waste of time as the technique and interia needed to throw an effective punch for women is far more difficult.

Self defence classes are great for giving a false sense of security as most of it is ineffective or you will forget the techniques in 6 mths time.

If a female is really interested in self defence Id reccomend trying to book a few private classes with a Muay Thai instructor. Focus on the use of elbow and knees rather than kicks and punches. Elbows and knees are great for close range self defence, can be brutal without much technique or interia behind the movement. I've done Muay Thai for four ish years and have seen little girls put big guys down hard. There's also far less chance of a wrist injury from throwing a bad punch or a guy catching your leg if you throw a kick.

You could argue eye gouge etc etc but it's good to have a few tricks before you possibly permanently remove someone's eyesight.

Sorry if some of this seems sexist, just trying to be realistic when it comes to the difference in capability of women vs men and the results you can get without dedicating yourself to an art form.

 

[scarlett lee]

Glad I read your post a second time NP69
I thought Why is he tell the girls to study BBJ ? Especially as you were amazed more w/l's dont actually And I was even more surprised it required a 3-4Hr seminar

I would also wonder how scary a girl with a Black Belt in BBJ would be
You will leave this room Or I will blow you into submission

LMAO