Manhandling... Another big NO NO.

[Ginger Spice]

So, After doing days for so long, I had decided to do two saturday nights in a row (bump up the bank account).

The clients are a lot more different at night time then they are during the day. Apart from there being more of them, they are usually more intoxicated and god knows what else. I do not partake in drinking or any other naughty substances, so i am sure the girls will understand me when I say I don't get their sense of humour.. Or have any idea what half of them want! Sometimes they cant even form sentences.

First big no no, came from a young guy, he was lovely to look at, however intoxicated. His 5 minute warning timer went off (we had already had our showers) and he wanted to have sex..... I reminded him by the time we were both naked there was no way we could make anything happen in 4 minutes. I suggested a blow job, he told me I was a good girl. So then time was completely up. Let me remind you. He was an attractive young man, so yes I had enjoyed my time with him. However at the end he said "I just want to throw you down on the bed and f*ck you so hard" I giggled and reminded him he would need to extend as our time was well and truly up. He then grabs my arms and throws me down on the bed and goes to climb on top (we are both dressed) I say very calmly "You are making me uncomfortable" He immediately lets go of me and says some things that made it seem as if it was my fault I was uncomfortable??? I told him that it wasn't acceptable behaviour and for the first time in a while I saw a client leave with a sour look on his face.

Second BIGGEST NO NO. Was another young guy who I had a feeling no one else saw him for a particular reason. Never the less. He got on my nerves the entire session begging for extras I don't provide. The entire time! He had come already, so we had just got him already to go by the time the 5 minute warning timer went off. I had told him when his 5 minutes were over he had to stop. He grabbed onto me tighter and then said "2 more minutes" rather then make a big deal, I allowed it. A few minutes later I told him he really had to stop "two more minutes" "no hun, you have to stop now" He grabs tighter.. Alarm bells. "STOP!" I yell. He instantly lets go and chucks a little bit of a man tanty (not attractive).

Both times both clients had grabbed hard enough for possible bruising. At what point are we allowed to smack clients? Or at what point does the screaming start? I believed I handled both experiences professionally unfortunately both clients left with an unusual pout (which almost never happens) So I don't even know if I am pissed off at them (I gave a damn good service) or at myself hahaha

xx

 

[bushseeker]

something about seeing a lady which can bring out the worst in men.
I dont get it. Im not intrested in the answer as I wouldn't understand it .
The sense of entitlement I dont understand .
having said that I dont know how you conduct your bookings.
but many ladys have all the tricks in the book to distract the man so they can avoid sex .. at least twice in an hour booking
this can leave the guy feeling ripped off .
Im a bit older so ive seen it all before
I confirm when the time is starting and I know what I want to be doing for each lot of 4 15 min so if the lady tries delaying or distraction techniques I just gently remind her unless shes extending my time FOC
no I wont keep massaging her or going down whatever its my turn .

 

[homer]

You need security guards outside the door, ready to storm in when pricks act up.

 

[bushseeker]

Like this?

This?

Or this?

 

[Shaylee]

Sweetheart that's why I became an alcoholic lol

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[Shaylee]

P-S You have every right once the time is up to slap them if they abusing you or trying to force you for longer time or do whatever you want to get rid of a drunk idiot! Remember sweets don't take anyone shit esp if they drunk it's not worth you being upset and certainly not worth bruises! ... With that said Yes of course take the professional sweet 'nice' approach first.. and maybe even 2nd warning but seriously after that.. enough is enough!!

 

[Ginger Spice]

something about seeing a lady which can bring out the worst in men.
I dont get it. Im not intrested in the answer as I wouldn't understand it .
The sense of entitlement I dont understand .
having said that I dont know how you conduct your bookings.
but many ladys have all the tricks in the book to distract the man so they can avoid sex .. at least twice in an hour booking
this can leave the guy feeling ripped off .
Im a bit older so ive seen it all before
I confirm when the time is starting and I know what I want to be doing for each lot of 4 15 min so if the lady tries delaying or distraction techniques I just gently remind her unless shes extending my time FOC
no I wont keep massaging her or going down whatever its my turn .

....... Please never see me. I hate time watchers. Lol. my one hour booking is 50 minutes bed time. 5 minute health check and first shower time. Then 5- 10 minutes at the end for the client and I to shower and me to tidy the room. Majority of the time in my hour bookings I have worn my client out by half time, as I skip the massage and go straight to the body slide and the Spanish. Then head and then the fun stuff! I don't know.... I would seriously lose my shit if a client was like "we have 5 more minutes left" You are paying for the girl to be with you for 1 hour, not 1 hour of sexual services. If that makes sense.

 

[Ginger Spice]

P-S You have every right once the time is up to slap them if they abusing you or trying to force you for longer time or do whatever you want to get rid of a drunk idiot! Remember sweets don't take anyone shit esp if they drunk it's not worth you being upset and certainly not worth bruises! ... With that said Yes of course take the professional sweet 'nice' approach first.. and maybe even 2nd warning but seriously after that.. enough is enough!!

Ugh like that biter. I had to come out and ask if I am allowed to smack a client. lol.

 

[bushseeker]

I know youd hate time watchers ... thats one of the old tricks.
The old skip the massage and go straight to the good stuff is classic old school tactic usually acompanied by avoiding another go within the hour booking .its been a while since I saw the classical working lady but seeing that post brings it all back how uninspiring it was .
Its far to many experiences like you just described I gave up seeing ladys apart from the rare occasion until i worked out there were ways to meet very enthusiastic ladys on locanto who would see me for the money AND the sex.
it totally changed any idea I could possibly have had about paid sex

 

[bushseeker]

Regardless my main point is from the mans perspective to get the experience you seek from the hour you do need a plan and know your timing.
for instance my ideal booking would go something like
- chit chat.. time needs to be watched here. Bushseeker does like talking to the lady ... and a canny one will chat the whole booking
- massage on her. Bushseeker enjoys giving massages. I love the feel only a lady has
- oral on her.. including frontal tease working into the tongue action
now bushseeker can do the above all booking which is why he needs to keep in mind the time
so then its head/sex... bushseeker rarely puts up the stud performance first time as hes excited about what went prior so were not talking long.
then a break which includes chat and massage on bushseeker to get things back in the mood
- back into the good stuff which is much less nervous and far more enjoyable.

Now that sounds like alot to pack into an hour and is. I find 1.5 hr is the ideal time.Its usually easy to negotiate a good deal for the extra half hour with a private. Eg if shes asking $200 half hour $300 hour well you can see the second half hour is $100 with a %50 discount on the first. So going by that you would seek a subsequent %50 discount on the next half hour so for an hour and a half you would offer $350
ideally the booking should come to a natural conclusion.. as you say about 10 min before times up

 

[sunyun]

Hey Ginger,

Your post is another reason why I am glad I am a bloke.

If I was a lady and in your position, I would have punched him long ago !

 

[Ginger Spice]

Regardless my main point is from the mans perspective to get the experience you seek from the hour you do need a plan and know your timing.
for instance my ideal booking would go something like
- chit chat.. time needs to be watched here. Bushseeker does like talking to the lady ... and a canny one will chat the whole booking
- massage on her. Bushseeker enjoys giving massages. I love the feel only a lady has
- oral on her.. including frontal tease working into the tongue action
now bushseeker can do the above all booking which is why he needs to keep in mind the time
so then its head/sex... bushseeker rarely puts up the stud performance first time as hes excited about what went prior so were not talking long.
then a break which includes chat and massage on bushseeker to get things back in the mood
- back into the good stuff which is much less nervous and far more enjoyable.

Now that sounds like alot to pack into an hour and is. I find 1.5 hr is the ideal time.Its usually easy to negotiate a good deal for the extra half hour with a private. Eg if shes asking $200 half hour $300 hour well you can see the second half hour is $100 with a %50 discount on the first. So going by that you would seek a subsequent %50 discount on the next half hour so for an hour and a half you would offer $350
ideally the booking should come to a natural conclusion.. as you say about 10 min before times up

Do you even have fun in your bookings? hahaha.

Seems like you over think things and don't just let them happen naturally. The fact you seem to have the same service over and over is quite dull.

I don't rush my clients, nor do I like to feel I am being rushed. An hour is an hour. I prefer to get the fun stuff over first, then I know my client has come, there fore he will leave satisfied. I will ask if he wants a second round. If yes its a quick shower then back to the fun stuff. If not I ask if he wants a massage... The only time the service is changed is if he/she wants extras or is a virgin. Then its massage first and I allow them to decide when they feel less nervous to flip over.

 

[bushseeker]

ah now this is where your wrong. Dont forget us men pay for sex so this is what we do know.
youve just pulled out another cliche that makes me laugh
Unrushed.
its either a timed service or it isnt.
you cant say a timed service is unrushed.
I actually do see ladys where the fun isnt timed and trust me a timed service and unrushed fun are poles apart.
without any exception every lady ive seen who describes themselves as unrushed and dont watch the clock or worry about time was doing that specifically to avoid sex/sexual contact.
as soon as times up (usually before)unrushed dont worry about the clock
becomes oh ok see ya .... ohhh you didnt get to have sex? Ohhh well maybe next time. You should have hurried up a bit if thats what you wanted.
theres a good reason every guy on here can talk all day about thier dud punts.
your only young
us older guys have seen and heard it all before

 

[bushseeker]

As for getting the same service evertime.
nothing could be further from the truth
as I posted last payed lady I saw. A rocked up with 4 other dudes. After drinking beer and chatting we spent 3 hours availing oursrlves of her pleasures....
most ladys I see are untimed allowing different and unique things to occur some sexual some not.... but id have to say the term boring would not be what most people would use generally...
as I posted a few weeks back I was in Adelaide and spent 14 hours with 2 different ladys over the course of a night and morning .... never a dull moment was had

 

[Ginger Spice]

ah now this is where your wrong. Dont forget us men pay for sex so this is what we do know.
youve just pulled out another cliche that makes me laugh
Unrushed.
its either a timed service or it isnt.
you cant say a timed service is unrushed.
I actually do see ladys where the fun isnt timed and trust me a timed service and unrushed fun are poles apart.
without any exception every lady ive seen who describes themselves as unrushed and dont watch the clock or worry about time was doing that specifically to avoid sex/sexual contact.
as soon as times up (usually before)unrushed dont worry about the clock
becomes oh ok see ya .... ohhh you didnt get to have sex? Ohhh well maybe next time. You should have hurried up a bit if thats what you wanted.
theres a good reason every guy on here can talk all day about thier dud punts.
your only young
us older guys have seen and heard it all before

"theres a good reason every guy on here can talk all day about thier dud punts.
your only young
us older guys have seen and heard it all before"

I hate how you seem to think that just because you are older that somehow that means that I know NOTHING. I understand that you only seem to like private girls. HOWEVER, I am a parlour girl. So when we rent a room, this means we only get an hour/ 40 minutes/ 30 minutes/20 minutes in the room.. Is that my choice? NO. However never being a private girl, means I only know ONE WAY. The parlour way. I don't believe many of my one hour clients have felt rushed in their service. So when a client is on drugs, does this mean that private "unrushed" ladies will spend 2-3 hours trying to get a client hard when they have only spent $300 for the hour?

So, do you believe that only private girls give a good service?

 

[bushseeker]

Good service is VERY hard to find
and definitely not all privates will provide a good service.
its not only age its the fact ladys dont pay to see ladys to get a really good idea.
I prefer to see non full time working ladys.
as thats how I get the experience I seek
every guy is different but I know from experience I am highly unlikely to get an experience ill remember from a parlour lady or full time private

 

[bushseeker]

I guess seeing something like 150 ladys (estimated) over the last 2 and a bit years and trying things from gang bangs to ffm threesomes. To overnighters to ffffm partys
to mmf threeways ladys from 18-55
Size 6 to size 28.
Australians to asian to middle eastern and african.
blondes brunnettes to redheads.
ladys most would consider downright ugly to ladys I consider were the most attractive ive ever seen including movies. Posters or anywhere in real life
and all the other stuff ive forgotten about...
Point being
I might maybe just have some idea about what I consider makes a good experience

 

[Ginger Spice]

I guess seeing something like 150 ladys (estimated) over the last 2 and a bit years and trying things from gang bangs to ffm threesomes. To overnighters to ffffm partys
to mmf threeways ladys from 18-55
Size 6 to size 28.
Australians to asian to middle eastern and african.
blondes brunnettes to redheads.
ladys most would consider downright ugly to ladys I consider were the most attractive ive ever seen including movies. Posters or anywhere in real life
and all the other stuff ive forgotten about...
Point being
I might maybe just have some idea about what I consider makes a good experience

So... You have the same way as thinking as another man? Your idea of a "good experience" is the same as anothers?

 

[bushseeker]

Thats why I said I might have some idea about what I consider makes a good experience.
No mention of anyone else.
and I also went into just a bit of the sort of experiences ive had to form that opinion

 

[Ginger Spice]

Thats why I said I might have some idea about what I consider makes a good experience.
No mention of anyone else.
and I also went into just a bit of the sort of experiences ive had to form that opinion

Out of curiosity... What is it that you do for work?

 

[bushseeker]

I work underground on a minesite fifo.
currently.. why?

Im also a butcher which I worked as for nearly 10 years and have worked as a lifegaurd
oh and I saw my first working lady bout 26 years ago

 

[Ginger Spice]

I work underground on a minesite fifo.
currently.. why?

Im also a butcher which I worked as for nearly 10 years and have worked as a lifegaurd

So what would the title of your job be?

 

[bushseeker]

I refer to it as shitkicker.
its just one of many jobs ive had

 

[Ginger Spice]

I refer to it as shitkicker.
its just one of many jobs ive had

That isn't the actual term though is it?

 

[Farm Boy 2]

So, After doing days for so long, I had decided to do two saturday nights in a row (bump up the bank account).

The clients are a lot more different at night time then they are during the day. Apart from there being more of them, they are usually more intoxicated and god knows what else. I do not partake in drinking or any other naughty substances, so i am sure the girls will understand me when I say I don't get their sense of humour.. Or have any idea what half of them want! Sometimes they cant even form sentences.

First big no no, came from a young guy, he was lovely to look at, however intoxicated. His 5 minute warning timer went off (we had already had our showers) and he wanted to have sex..... I reminded him by the time we were both naked there was no way we could make anything happen in 4 minutes. I suggested a blow job, he told me I was a good girl. So then time was completely up. Let me remind you. He was an attractive young man, so yes I had enjoyed my time with him. However at the end he said "I just want to throw you down on the bed and f*ck you so hard" I giggled and reminded him he would need to extend as our time was well and truly up. He then grabs my arms and throws me down on the bed and goes to climb on top (we are both dressed) I say very calmly "You are making me uncomfortable" He immediately lets go of me and says some things that made it seem as if it was my fault I was uncomfortable??? I told him that it wasn't acceptable behaviour and for the first time in a while I saw a client leave with a sour look on his face.

Second BIGGEST NO NO. Was another young guy who I had a feeling no one else saw him for a particular reason. Never the less. He got on my nerves the entire session begging for extras I don't provide. The entire time! He had come already, so we had just got him already to go by the time the 5 minute warning timer went off. I had told him when his 5 minutes were over he had to stop. He grabbed onto me tighter and then said "2 more minutes" rather then make a big deal, I allowed it. A few minutes later I told him he really had to stop "two more minutes" "no hun, you have to stop now" He grabs tighter.. Alarm bells. "STOP!" I yell. He instantly lets go and chucks a little bit of a man tanty (not attractive).

Both times both clients had grabbed hard enough for possible bruising. At what point are we allowed to smack clients? Or at what point does the screaming start? I believed I handled both experiences professionally unfortunately both clients left with an unusual pout (which almost never happens) So I don't even know if I am pissed off at them (I gave a damn good service) or at myself hahaha

xx

Ginger one thing I have learnt in life is if you want to finish in good time you have to get started .

 

[Polkam]

So, After doing days for so long, I had decided to do two saturday nights in a row (bump up the bank account).

The clients are a lot more different at night time then they are during the day. Apart from there being more of them, they are usually more intoxicated and god knows what else. I do not partake in drinking or any other naughty substances, so i am sure the girls will understand me when I say I don't get their sense of humour.. Or have any idea what half of them want! Sometimes they cant even form sentences.

First big no no, came from a young guy, he was lovely to look at, however intoxicated. His 5 minute warning timer went off (we had already had our showers) and he wanted to have sex..... I reminded him by the time we were both naked there was no way we could make anything happen in 4 minutes. I suggested a blow job, he told me I was a good girl. So then time was completely up. Let me remind you. He was an attractive young man, so yes I had enjoyed my time with him. However at the end he said "I just want to throw you down on the bed and f*ck you so hard" I giggled and reminded him he would need to extend as our time was well and truly up. He then grabs my arms and throws me down on the bed and goes to climb on top (we are both dressed) I say very calmly "You are making me uncomfortable" He immediately lets go of me and says some things that made it seem as if it was my fault I was uncomfortable??? I told him that it wasn't acceptable behaviour and for the first time in a while I saw a client leave with a sour look on his face.

Second BIGGEST NO NO. Was another young guy who I had a feeling no one else saw him for a particular reason. Never the less. He got on my nerves the entire session begging for extras I don't provide. The entire time! He had come already, so we had just got him already to go by the time the 5 minute warning timer went off. I had told him when his 5 minutes were over he had to stop. He grabbed onto me tighter and then said "2 more minutes" rather then make a big deal, I allowed it. A few minutes later I told him he really had to stop "two more minutes" "no hun, you have to stop now" He grabs tighter.. Alarm bells. "STOP!" I yell. He instantly lets go and chucks a little bit of a man tanty (not attractive).

Both times both clients had grabbed hard enough for possible bruising. At what point are we allowed to smack clients? Or at what point does the screaming start? I believed I handled both experiences professionally unfortunately both clients left with an unusual pout (which almost never happens) So I don't even know if I am pissed off at them (I gave a damn good service) or at myself hahaha

xx

As far as I am concerned Ginger Spice, you had every right to taser their groins.

 

[nextplease69]

Learn BJJ Ginger. You'll feel a lot safer knowing you can render any guy unconscious without even leaving a mark on him. I'm amazed more of you W/L don't actually.
You could even pool together and organize a seminar for you all, dealing with the unique specifics of your job. You'd be amazed what you can learn in a focused 3-4hr seminar.
I can recommend some great people, including WA's only female blk belt, if your interested.

 

[Happy2]

Glad I read your post a second time NP69
I thought Why is he tell the girls to study BBJ ? Especially as you were amazed more w/l's dont actually And I was even more surprised it required a 3-4Hr seminar

I would also wonder how scary a girl with a Black Belt in BBJ would be
You will leave this room Or I will blow you into submission

 

[nextplease69]

There are plethora of No Gi chokes you can learn, as well as arm bars, locks and holds....

Every woman should know at least a little self defence.

 

[nextplease69]

Glad I read your post a second time NP69
I thought Why is he tell the girls to study BBJ ? Especially as you were amazed more w/l's dont actually And I was even more surprised it required a 3-4Hr seminar

I would also wonder how scary a girl with a Black Belt in BBJ would be
You will leave this room Or I will blow you into submission

Hahahahaha, oh man! Yes, wasn't thinking. Missing one B though happy2.