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Drinkwater

Drinkwater said:
Hate to put a dampener on the thread but if you go down this track you should be very, very careful.

Not all ladies in this situation have good intentions. I have a close friend who is currently struggling after being played by someone he thought was a lot different than what she turned out to be. Luckily he lives a lot frugal than that what he actually is and she started ghosted him before she knew how much he really had. He is very lucky at the timing because he was planning on buying jewelry and even first class flights to London for her.

He was just too nice and niave for his own good after being alone for awhile which is probably why she targeted him. It all ended with him being taken to wellness camp for a breakdown 10 days ago.

So be careful you both have the right intentions if you decide to do this. I'm sure this isn't the only example.
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Looks like the lady in question was asked to leave the premises last week. Not sure if it was over her actions but good news none the less. Especially as one of the first things my friend said to me when I saw him this morning was he was going to check in with her to see if she's ok.
 
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Drinkwater

SixtySixty said:
A clean break for sure. Learning that myself.
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Hang in there Sixty. You will have ups and downs but you will get past it. My friend has had a bit of a mental health relapse this week as well so you are not alone.
 
MikeB

MikeB

Legend Member
Hairybum said:
Very well put, I have been in the situation twice recently where I have built up rapport with different women that has progressed to very loving encounters. We are of similar ages both they and I are married. On my part my sex life fell apart after my wife got cancer twice in 6 years and then the meds brought on early menopause as well as low libido. It is not my wifes fault and we otherwise have a great relationship but physical intimacy is only hugging and kissing but even that not on the level previously.

I originally started getting massage for my back and legs and naturally being a tightarse sought out the best massage for the buck. I have always found Asian (Thai/Chinese) to be the best value. When I found someone good I became a regular. After that well, I'm sure like many of us, a relationship develops. Massage is an intimate therapy and I personally have felt very strong connections with some of the people that I have met. I had to stop seeing one of my favorites on her request because we no longer did any massage just jumped straight on each other and it was affecting her ability to manage the business.

Sometimes this has built to the point that major life changes were being considered on both sides. In both cases I realised that I was only a small (although valued) part of their lives. They had other customers that potentially they develop the same connection with.

This was hard to take but when I sat back and looked at the situation clearly I realised as Mountain has suggested, it was my own ego and mind games that was the problem. I was jealous with no right to be. Expecting them to only treat me as the special lover when I was only giving the a small part of myself. I have come to peace with it and still see both these women occasionally but I make no demands and just enjoy their company when I can. I am very thankful to both of them for helping me through some dark times. I know I have helped them as well but know that a full relationship would have got very messy. My advice is if you're single and you can manage your ego - go for it. If you are happy with the relationship as it is then happy days. Life is short and happiness is precious.
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So true, I'm sure many have found similar solace when experiencing dark time.

It is important to recognise that W/L are normal people with normal need, desires and a life away from work. Some are drawn to the line of work because they like the physical component and equally enjoy the social uninhibited interaction.

I have found mutually enjoyable friendships rather than "love" with a number of W/L where they genuinely love what they do and it is an extension of themselves and their approach to life more broadly.

I have been surprised to find how many W/L "relax" socially with friends, not necessarily lovers, in the swinging scene.

I have shared this experience with a number, many who reveal their "vocation" in general conversation when we met for the first time at these events, others who have expressed an interest to explore opportunities in general session chit chat and we follow through for her to explore.

They find they can relax in that environment with people who are not judgmental of their work situation, are friendly, respectful, likeminded (openly sexually indulgent) and if they want they can indulge in carnal play without the usual pressure of needing to meeting a paying client's expectations.

This can mean great mutually agreeable outcomes with no pressure, just don't get fooled that it is "love".
 
Kenny

Kenny

Diamond Member
I myself have seen some private W.L's to hopefully get that regular title as it is just easier to know what is allowed or not, if we both click, parking,location distance to get there on the agreed time, if coins for parking are needed etc. If I have a great time I would return for a longer time the next time if possible, as that "hour" can fly by!
Having some type of a chat is always good to break the ice, but sometimes the questions can get quite personal,ie if single or married, job title etc to which I reply that I'm not happy to reply.
Or there can be to much talk about things I don't need nor want to hear,ie their Tinder experience (as seeking a B.F ??), if I can fix something around the place, if I want to catch up for a drink sometime.
Some of the stories of other clients can be funny as to their demands/requests and one can learn the W.L boundaries.
After a couple of meets sometimes the experience can become somewhat routine and or mechanical, their rates increase, so one gets to start looking for another W.L to mix it up or to move on.
I have had some of the previous W.L message me as to what is going on as I have not seen them as I used too, if they have done something wrong, wanting to see me again, guessing it's solely for the cash. I tell them I feel that they are trying to get close too me, not to happy about the increase with their rates yet the service has become no different.
Sometimes I have blamed my working commitments to merely have a break, then have arranged another visit to see if that spark has returned, as we all like the fun spark and not the boring chore.
 
A

Albany

Well, I've read all the advice.
I went to a joint on Albany highway recently. Had really good massage kept jocks on as was only after legit. Young, but mature lady.... so polite, so nice, quietly sexy. Nice massage, talk talk, extended to the hour. We talked, clicked, see her tomorrow for lunch. Keeps me busy hopefully. Not in it for love, just a distraction. She will know that cos I'll tell her. But..... we will see where it leads. Nowhere is ok. Girfriend is ok. Friend is ok.
 
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Albany

chocy said:
Lol.. i didnt think there was a legit shop on the Albany Highway..
Albany😃
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Well yeah.... you are right lol.
I think I went 'shopping.
We caught up for lunch today. Bit if holding hands, little kiss and I was on my way till we catch up again......
However, 'cos I'm a dog..... went for massage today to One of my favourites. Ended up in heaven getting way more than I thought possible.
You know when you get fs from a non fs provider. It just feels even more special.
This lady was dressed to thrill today..... and she did, and I was!
She has the most perfectly weighted and formed breasts ,,, both when contained and let out of the bag. Massage started as normal but when the balls were given a going over that was it. I sprang into action. Sat up, had my legs around her kissing her neck. Undid the crop top, went to town on the most delicious puppies I have seen for a long time and noted her mmmmm response.
Thought I would move ahead with hands else where. Down with the shorts and..... wow!
Suffice to say....a wonderful time ensued for the next 40 minutes rotating through positions like an Eagles midfielder.
No Pm's on this one. She is staying strictly closed doors.
Happy punting everyone..... wow!
 
Iaminit2

Iaminit2

Silver Member
Hairybum said:
Very well put, I have been in the situation twice recently where I have built up rapport with different women that has progressed to very loving encounters. We are of similar ages both they and I are married. On my part my sex life fell apart after my wife got cancer twice in 6 years and then the meds brought on early menopause as well as low libido. It is not my wifes fault and we otherwise have a great relationship but physical intimacy is only hugging and kissing but even that not on the level previously.

I originally started getting massage for my back and legs and naturally being a tightarse sought out the best massage for the buck. I have always found Asian (Thai/Chinese) to be the best value. When I found someone good I became a regular. After that well, I'm sure like many of us, a relationship develops. Massage is an intimate therapy and I personally have felt very strong connections with some of the people that I have met. I had to stop seeing one of my favorites on her request because we no longer did any massage just jumped straight on each other and it was affecting her ability to manage the business.

Sometimes this has built to the point that major life changes were being considered on both sides. In both cases I realised that I was only a small (although valued) part of their lives. They had other customers that potentially they develop the same connection with.

This was hard to take but when I sat back and looked at the situation clearly I realised as Mountain has suggested, it was my own ego and mind games that was the problem. I was jealous with no right to be. Expecting them to only treat me as the special lover when I was only giving the a small part of myself. I have come to peace with it and still see both these women occasionally but I make no demands and just enjoy their company when I can. I am very thankful to both of them for helping me through some dark times. I know I have helped them as well but know that a full relationship would have got very messy. My advice is if you're single and you can manage your ego - go for it. If you are happy with the relationship as it is then happy days. Life is short and happiness is precious.
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Great story, and excellent advice.
 
Timboh66

Timboh66

Diamond Member
Albany said:
Well yeah.... you are right lol.
I think I went 'shopping.
We caught up for lunch today. Bit if holding hands, little kiss and I was on my way till we catch up again......
However, 'cos I'm a dog..... went for massage today to One of my favourites. Ended up in heaven getting way more than I thought possible.
You know when you get fs from a non fs provider. It just feels even more special.
This lady was dressed to thrill today..... and she did, and I was!
She has the most perfectly weighted and formed breasts ,,, both when contained and let out of the bag. Massage started as normal but when the balls were given a going over that was it. I sprang into action. Sat up, had my legs around her kissing her neck. Undid the crop top, went to town on the most delicious puppies I have seen for a long time and noted her mmmmm response.
Thought I would move ahead with hands else where. Down with the shorts and..... wow!
Suffice to say....a wonderful time ensued for the next 40 minutes rotating through positions like an Eagles midfielder.
No Pm's on this one. She is staying strictly closed doors.
Happy punting everyone..... wow!
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Amazing story and a true thrill when this occurs.
 
Lep

Lep

Gold Member
Albany said:
Well yeah.... you are right lol.
I think I went 'shopping.
We caught up for lunch today. Bit if holding hands, little kiss and I was on my way till we catch up again......
However, 'cos I'm a dog..... went for massage today to One of my favourites. Ended up in heaven getting way more than I thought possible.
You know when you get fs from a non fs provider. It just feels even more special.
This lady was dressed to thrill today..... and she did, and I was!
She has the most perfectly weighted and formed breasts ,,, both when contained and let out of the bag. Massage started as normal but when the balls were given a going over that was it. I sprang into action. Sat up, had my legs around her kissing her neck. Undid the crop top, went to town on the most delicious puppies I have seen for a long time and noted her mmmmm response.
Thought I would move ahead with hands else where. Down with the shorts and..... wow!
Suffice to say....a wonderful time ensued for the next 40 minutes rotating through positions like an Eagles midfielder.
No Pm's on this one. She is staying strictly closed doors.
Happy punting everyone..... wow!
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Sounds like someone I know.
Is she Thai?
 
A

Albany

Lep said:
Sounds like someone I know.
Is she Thai?
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You know, too be honest, there has been so many I've even forgotten who this was 🤣
However, due to my propensity to prefer Thai ladies... it was in most certainty yes.
I'm trying to think who it was. 🤔🤔
 
Lep

Lep

Gold Member
Albany said:
You know, too be honest, there has been so many I've even forgotten who this was 🤣
However, due to my propensity to prefer Thai ladies... it was in most certainty yes.
I'm trying to think who it was. 🤔🤔
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Myaree perhaps?
 
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