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Ladies! Every prostitute and punter must read this. Does it ring true with you? Read it and weep or tell us...

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I hate hearing stories like this from rude, arrogant, ungrateful sex workers.
Male customers are paying you to service us, we do not deserve your disrespect!
This is typical world owes me mindset of young people today.
Many young people did not get the discipline, education or parenting that would shape them into decent citizens that contribute towards society.
I am no feminist by any stretch of the imagination however I am intrigued to know what behaviour(s) of a sex worker you would consider as "rude, arrogant & ungrateful"?
 
Sounds like she is ungrateful for being paid for sex and she now wants to insult the guys. If she was a decent person she would get an education, a real job instead of being a sex worker.
sorry? I thought Sex work was a real job.... I’m educated, have had a government job & still became a sex worker....by your logic I’m not a decent person?

can you please clarify your comment?
 
I enjoyed my time as a “prostitute”. I enjoyed spending time with men. Was it fantastic every day? Of course not, but I never loathed it.

sorry? I thought Sex work was a real job.... I’m educated, have had a government job & still became a sex worker....by your logic I’m not a decent person?
I am really beginning to think that Stovo only opens his mouth to change feet 😳
 
Common reasons a lady becomes a sex worker.
1. She comes from a poor family, mummy and daddy would not buy her everything that she wanted.
2. She was addicted to drugs and needed money to support her habit.
3. A friend convinced her it was an exciting way to make lots of money with minimal effort.
4. Forced or tricked into prostitution and must pay back debt.
5. She is unemployed and uneducated and it is an easy way to earn money.
Oh wow - SO many assumptions/judgements/generalisations all in the one post! Hard to know where to begin 🤣🤣🤣
 
I hate hearing stories like this from rude, arrogant, ungrateful sex workers.
Male customers are paying you to service us, we do not deserve your disrespect!
This is typical world owes me mindset of young people today.
Many young people did not get the discipline, education or parenting that would shape them into decent citizens that contribute towards society.
Not sure “OK Boomer” really covers things here! 🤣🤣🤣
 
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"I would think not even a stark raving nymphomaniac would enjoy having sex with overweight, balding, self centred old men, assuming of course they could even get it up. 😖"


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vice versa?
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Please elaborate.

I would think not even overweight, balding, self centred old men would enjoy having sex with a stark raving nymphomaniac , assuming of course they could even get it up. 😖
 
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"I would think not even a stark raving nymphomaniac would enjoy having sex with overweight, balding, self centred old men, assuming of course they could even get it up. 😖"


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vice versa?



I would think not even overweight, balding, self centred old men would enjoy having sex with a stark raving nymphomaniac , assuming of course they could even get it up. 😖
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I think perhaps an overweight, balding, self centred old man would at first believe he would like to have sex with a stark raving nymphomaniac until such time that he realized he was getting his ambitions mixed up with his capabilities 😩
 
The ideal Christmas present Crimson one! Am surprised more escorts haven't contributed to the thread.
Sadly I think my old yellow billed china plate perhaps the likes of Phoebe constantly writing cheques his mouth can't cash is keeping the ladies away 🙄
 
It's a good piece but the whole story is about someone who wanted to make fast money, and hated every bit of it and expressed it openly hoping to turn off punters at the same time. She could have chosen to work in a different profession to be more happier but it wouldn't be fast money as she wanted I guess and she left 3 years later.

Health Hazards genitals were burning and monthly menstruate cycle she didn't take into account her health and to those around her as we practice safe sex for a reason, and blood or old blood in a vagina is already a dangerous combination for STD there. Also mixing blood is the start of Aids after all. She should have earned enough fast money to rest at least a few days to a week if needed, but she choose to put those men lives in danger and kept working. And I bet even hope those men might catch something from her the way she so hatefully talks about them. At the end of the day being a WL is like any other job if your not feeling well go home, unless there's a clause about you needing to always finish your shift regardless?

Being a WL isn't for everyone some hate it and love the money like this women, Others enjoy both and stay longer in the industry. And as with each industry there will always be hiccups with the sex industry it's the different types of ppl customer and WL that cause or make it a better enviroment to work in. I bet you've all had bad customers in the past but probably enough to count on your fingers compared to the majority that treat women better.

"Prostitutes exist because you are a misogynist, and because you are more concerned with your own sexual needs than the relationships in which your sexuality could actually flourish." That actually isn't 100% true i guess it is in her viewpoint. Us men do have our sexual urges but hold them back due to our other half not wanting a bar(saying no all the time) of it only when they feel like it, this happens way into their 40-50s. Then the wife will one day turn around and decide to be sexual like the man was in his younger years and start asking for it, but the man won't be interested cause of the constant sexual knockbacks happening for years, and will now act like the women was when she was younger. Guess what she'll pop the answer " You don't find me attractive any more" and next thing you know a divorce in the making even tho he loves her but just isn't sexually interested in her any more. Men who are in relationships or single prefer to see WLs cause its purely physical NSA, as we all know what sexual frustration can do to anyone knocked back or held in long enough. Cause at the end of the day we just want someone willing to help ease that tension.

"All it did was confirm to me that I was not worth more. That I was a machine, whose primary function was to let others exploit my sexuality."
Considering it was fast money and still saying she wasn't worth more? If i was getting paid 400/hr i'll be through the roof but like all other working class ppl we're on like 20-35 bucks an hour earning a weeks wage compared to what she earns in a day or 2. Yet she felt she wasn't earn enough, wow just wow, her working 1 hr = a 8-9 hr day for someone like us she could stop right there for the day and call it quits rest but really she wants the quick buck and keeps working to the end. Her other comment on primary function is really what she's doing for work but complaining about it, i could complain about my job for hours on end but really who's going to listen to that. Sounds like she wanted to be paid top dollar and do nothing in return, rub a few sore spots get the guy off and get rid of him quick not using the full time asked. Hate to think where all the money she earned for 3 years went, if i was earn that serious amount of coin i'll be building my investments and retiring another 5 years down the track.

"you thought of yourself as one of the nice customers. But there are no nice customers. Just those who confirm the women’s negative view of themselves". Her being negative herself saying there's no nice customers, if it weren't for customers she won't have the chance of earning this fast money biting the hand that feeds her so to speak, showing again how much she hates her job. But it's her choice... if customers knew how she really felt i don't think she'll be getting any business or worse all bad customers that'll treat her without respect and as you all know how much south those customers can be. But she decided to write this article when she left the industry why? Cause it doesn't affect her anymore and she can say what she really felt like without it affecting her paycheck at the end of the day. Just another women who only sees one side of the story and judges accordingly. But hey it's fast money right? Don't like doing it? easy get a working class job like the rest of us. Truthly i wish there was a job us men could do that got 3k a day without any job experience, i'll be signing straight up.
 
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Common reasons a lady becomes a sex worker.
1. She comes from a poor family, mummy and daddy would not buy her everything that she wanted.
2. She was addicted to drugs and needed money to support her habit.
3. A friend convinced her it was an exciting way to make lots of money with minimal effort.
4. Forced or tricked into prostitution and must pay back debt.
5. She is unemployed and uneducated and it is an easy way to earn money.
I think reasons are broader, I worked with one and she was bisexual with a high sex drive I was told by a friend that visited her,it seemed a issue, former model . That gay way of wanting to have the perfect body and attention needy , perfect grooming. Gay men have written things in media like rooting 20 gay men a day at orgies. Mega high sex drives are a different world. There can be a ticking sex bomb. A bit like Ray off Star Wars ' there's something inside of me and it has awakened '

This article lady seems highly autistic, I dont really take things too literal what shes writ.......... Her involvements are particularly distasteful from her view point. One persons pleasure can be anothers pain and vice versa. The brain has certain wiring and everyones is different. Its a bit like shopping centres, hardly anyone ever goes through and buys the same items at checkout, nor interacts the same way with the checkout chick, of everyone.
 
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Im actually surprised that pluck a duck brought this topic up, considering this is something Phoebe would post against men in general.
Puck a duck is more chauvinist and Phoebe Feminist
 
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There’s probably a few working ladies who could put a better insight into what really happens and how much to read into some of the statements!! Just have to wait and see !!
 
I am no feminist by any stretch of the imagination however I am intrigued to know what behaviour(s) of a sex worker you would consider as "rude, arrogant & ungrateful"?
Each female has her own borders and areas in which they expect gratitude in return. One could be no kissing or no touching, she kissed your balls and you didn't react in turn for her efforts, you chose to hug her thinking she didn't mind one when she really did. What could be rude can be not for others...Everyone is different.
 
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This is the post I meant to write it stays I am proud to post it

Thanks Farm Boy 2.
My comment was just to say that that 1 sentence seemed to be so out of place with the rest of the dislike and hatred of what was being written. Although normal service was very quickly resumed after the comment was made. Just seemed a strange thought to put in there.
I have absolutely no interest whatsoever in whatever conscience you may or may not have nor do I care, and was not directing anything at you.
 
Im actually surprised that pluck a duck brought this topic up, considering this is something Phoebe would post against men in general.
Puck a duck is more chauvinist and Phoebe Feminist
I disagree,
Phoebe strikes me as more of a meaningless irrelevant rambler of nonsensical gibberish & a waster of words rather than a raving feminist.
Besides which,
is it even possible for a man in women's underwear to really be a true feminist I wonder? 🤣
 
Former prostitute takes aim at her clients in scathing letter
A FORMER sex worker has revealed what she was really thinking all that time in a scathing letter to all the men who paid to have sex with her.
Tanja Rahm
news.com.auAPRIL 13, 20164:16PM
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Tanja Rahm has a few choice words for the men for paid her for sex in her early 20s.Source:Facebook
OPINION
Dear sex customer,
If you think that I ever felt attracted to you, you are terribly mistaken. I have never had any desire to go to work, not once. The only thing on my mind was to make money, and fast.
Do not confuse that with easy money; it was never easy. Fast, yes. Because I quickly learned the many tricks to get you to come as quickly as possible, so I could get you off of me, or from under me, or from behind me.

And no, you never turned me on during the act. I was a great actress. For years I have had the opportunity to practice for free. Actually, it falls under the concept of multi-tasking. Because while you lay there, my thoughts were always elsewhere. Somewhere where I was not confronted with you sucking out my self respect, without spending as much as 10 seconds on the reality of the situation, or to look me in the eye.
If you thought you were doing me a favour by paying me for 30 minutes or an hour, you were wrong. I would rather have had you in and out as fast as possible. When you thought yourself to be my holy saviour, asking what a pretty girl like me was doing in a place like that, you lost your halo when you proceeded to ask me to lie down on my back, and then put all your efforts into feeling my body as much as possible with your hands. Actually, I would have preferred if you had gotten down on your back and had let me do my job.
When you thought you could boost your masculinity by getting me to climax, you need to know that I faked it. I could have won a gold medal in faking it. I faked it so much, that the receptionist would nearly fall off of her chair laughing. What did you expect? You were perhaps number three, or number five, or eight that day.
Did you really think I was able to get turned on mentally or physically by having sex with men I did not choose myself? Not ever. My genitals were burning. From lubricant and condoms. And I was tired. So tired, that often I had to be careful not to close my eyes for fear of falling asleep while my moaning continued on autopilot.
If you thought you paid for loyalty or small talk, you need to think again. I had zero interest in your excuses. I did not care that your wife had pelvic pain, and that you just could not go without sex. Or when you offered any other pathetic excuse for coming to buy sex with me.

When you praised my appearance, my body, or my sexual abilities, you could just as well have vomited on me. You did not see the person behind the mask. You only saw that which confirmed your illusion of a raunchy woman with an unstoppable sex drive.
In fact, you never said what you thought I wanted to hear. Instead, you said what you yourself needed to hear. You said that, which was needed to preserve your illusion, and which prevented you from thinking about how I had ended up where I was at 20 years of age. Basically, you did not care at all. Because you had one goal only, and that was to show off your power by paying me to use my body as it pleased you.
When a drop of blood appeared on the condom, it was not because my period had just come. It was because my body was a machine, one that could not be interrupted by a monthly cycle, so I inserted a sponge into my vagina, when I menstruated. To be able to continue on the sheets.
And no, I did not go home after you had finished. I continued working, telling the next customer exactly the same story that you had heard. You were all so consumed with your own lust that a little menstrual blood did not stop you.
When you came with objects, lingerie, costumes or toys, and wanted erotic role-play, my inner machine took over. I was disgusted with you and your sometimes quite sick fantasies. The same goes for the times when you smiled and said that I looked like a 17-year-old girl. It did not help that you yourself were 50, 60, 70, or older.
When you regularly violated my boundaries by either kissing me, or inserting your fingers into me, or taking off your condom, you did it knowing perfectly well that it was against the rules. You were testing my ability to say no. And you enjoyed it.
When I did not object clearly enough, or when I too often would simply ignore it. And then you used it in a perverted way to show how much power you had and that you could cross my boundaries.
When I finally told you off, and made it clear that I would not have you as a customer again if you could not respect the rules, you insulted me and my role as prostitute. You were condescending, threatening and rude.
When you buy sex, it says a lot about you, your humanity, and your sexuality. To me, it is a sign of your weakness, even though you confuse it with a sick sort of power and status.
You think you have a right. I mean, the prostitutes are out there anyway, right? But they are only prostitutes because men like you stand in the way of healthy and respectful relationship between men and women.
Prostitutes only exist because men like you feel you have the right to satisfy your sexual urges using the orifices of other people’s bodies.
Prostitutes exist because you and your peers feel that your sexuality requires access to sex whenever it suits you.
Prostitutes exist because you are a misogynist, and because you are more concerned with your own sexual needs than the relationships in which your sexuality could actually flourish.

A man hands out cards for a brothel in Perth.

A man hands out cards for a brothel in Perth.Source:News Limited
When you buy sex, it reveals that you have not found the core within your own sexuality. I feel sorry for you, I really do. That you are so mediocre that you think that sex is all about ejaculating into a stranger’s vagina.
And if one is not handy, it is never further away than down the street, where you can pay an unknown woman to be able to empty yourself into a rubber while inside of her.
What a petty and frustrated man you must be. A man unable to create profound and intimate relationships, in which the connection runs deeper than just your ejaculation.
A man, who expresses his feelings through his climaxes, who does not have the ability to verbalise them, but prefers to channel them through his genitals to rid himself of them. What a weak masculinity. A truly masculine man would never degrade himself by paying for sex.
As far as your humanity goes, I believe in the good in people, also in you. I know that deep down, you have a conscience. That you have quietly wondered whether what you did was ethically and morally justifiable. I also know that you defend your actions and likely think that you treated me well, were kind, never mean or did not violate my boundaries.
But you know what? That is called evading your responsibility. You are not confronting reality. You delude yourself in thinking that the people you buy are not bought. Not forced into prostitution.
Maybe you even think that you did me a favour and gave me a break by talking about the weather, or giving me a little massage before you penetrated me. It did me no favours. All it did was confirm to me that I was not worth more. That I was a machine, whose primary function was to let others exploit my sexuality.
I have many experiences from prostitution. They enable me to write this letter to you. But it is a letter, which I would much rather not have written. These are experiences I wish I could have avoided.
You of course, you thought of yourself as one of the nice customers. But there are no nice customers. Just those who confirm the women’s negative view of themselves.
Yours truly,
Tanja Rahm
Tanja Rahm spent three years in different Danish brothels and left prostitution when she was 23-years-old to become a therapist, sexologist and a lecturer. This letter, adapted from one that first appeared on the Danish website Welt, is one of 18 personal stories published in Prostitution Narratives: Stories of Survival in the Sex Trade, a new book by Caroline Norma and Melinda Tankard Reist.
That is so very sad to hear.
This is so full of ignorance and venom.
Do not think all sex workers feel this way.
There are some amazing customers and sex workers,
more than you would ever think.,
and i am offended for all by her views. :)

Wish her experiences with human interaction were much kinder to her.
 
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Yes. I have met them.

Have you really though?
Or have you just met the actress worthy of an Academy Award, simply selling you the illusion you so eagerly wish to purchase?
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I don't know whether you're ignorant, cynical or both.
I'll give you some examples of Adelaide ladies selling me these supposed illusions.

One leading lady (now retired from the industry) invited me and my girlfriend to Christmas lunch at her house.....followed by consecutive Christmas lunches at the homes of her extended families. She counselled me when I was going through a pretty rough patch in 2005, checking several times to see if I was okay.

Another stayed the night with me on several occasions at an upmarket hotel, only charging me $200 for the service when she could have made $2000 for an overnighter.


A third, a leading member of this forum, always has me message her to confirm I have arrived safely back after our dinner dates and bedroom fun as we live 90 minutes apart.

None of these ladies bat an eyelid at the "extras" I asked for when we first met. Two of them got quite into it.

There was no acting. There were no "illusions". If you treat a WL with respect and gain her trust, she will go above and beyond for you. I was able to develop friendships with all three of these ladies because I looked past the sexual aspect of the concept. I wasn't there to get my rocks off. I was there to interact with another human being who was genuinely interested in me, the person. Not just another faceless punter who wanted a quick root.

I reiterate. The lady who wrote the article is not suited to sex work. She sounds like she hates everyone including herself. Not a good start.
You and I aren't going to agree. I've put forth my case so let's just leave it at that.
 
Have you really though?
Or have you just met the actress worthy of an Academy Award, simply selling you the illusion you so eagerly wish to purchase?



I don't know whether you're ignorant, cynical or both.
I'll give you some examples of Adelaide ladies selling me these supposed illusions.

One leading lady (now retired from the industry) invited me and my girlfriend to Christmas lunch at her house.....followed by consecutive Christmas lunches at the homes of her extended families. She counselled me when I was going through a pretty rough patch in 2005, checking several times to see if I was okay.

Another stayed the night with me on several occasions at an upmarket hotel, only charging me $200 for the service when she could have made $2000 for an overnighter.


A third, a leading member of this forum, always has me message her to confirm I have arrived safely back after our dinner dates and bedroom fun as we live 90 minutes apart.

None of these ladies bat an eyelid at the "extras" I asked for when we first met. Two of them got quite into it.

There was no acting. There were no "illusions". If you treat a WL with respect and gain her trust, she will go above and beyond for you. I was able to develop friendships with all three of these ladies because I looked past the sexual aspect of the concept. I wasn't there to get my rocks off. I was there to interact with another human being who was genuinely interested in me, the person. Not just another faceless punter who wanted a quick root.

I reiterate. The lady who wrote the article is not suited to sex work. She sounds like she hates everyone including herself. Not a good start.
You and I aren't going to agree. I've put forth my case so let's just leave it at that.
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Thats what we are taking about.
 
I don't know whether you're ignorant, cynical or both.
I'll give you some examples of Adelaide ladies selling me these supposed illusions.

One leading lady (now retired from the industry) invited me and my girlfriend to Christmas lunch at her house.....followed by consecutive Christmas lunches at the homes of her extended families. She counselled me when I was going through a pretty rough patch in 2005, checking several times to see if I was okay.

Another stayed the night with me on several occasions at an upmarket hotel, only charging me $200 for the service when she could have made $2000 for an overnighter.


A third, a leading member of this forum, always has me message her to confirm I have arrived safely back after our dinner dates and bedroom fun as we live 90 minutes apart.

None of these ladies bat an eyelid at the "extras" I asked for when we first met. Two of them got quite into it.

There was no acting. There were no "illusions". If you treat a WL with respect and gain her trust, she will go above and beyond for you. I was able to develop friendships with all three of these ladies because I looked past the sexual aspect of the concept. I wasn't there to get my rocks off. I was there to interact with another human being who was genuinely interested in me, the person. Not just another faceless punter who wanted a quick root.

I reiterate. The lady who wrote the article is not suited to sex work. She sounds like she hates everyone including herself. Not a good start.
You and I aren't going to agree. I've put forth my case so let's just leave it at that.
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Like I already said,
How do you really know that you were not simply paying for an illusion?
The examples you gave are all very heartwarming & wonderful however you admit you paid for a service so drop the false indignation & pride & face the facts -
You are one punter in a long line of punters paying a lady for the use of her body so why would you believe that she somehow has a "special attachment" to you?
The bottom line is you are a punter, you enjoyed the product but you believe you are too "special" to be sold an illusion however I ask you this - if you were so special why on earth would you be visiting prostitutes to begin with???
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Was just looking for his original post. They all have there own assumption and none of them will ever know.
I know a lot more than you think Tara, a whole lot more.
Anyway I have 2 x simple questions - How many thousands of orgasms have you faked in your long & illustrious "career" as a "working lady" in order to please a customer/punter?
And what is a fake orgasm if it is not an illusion?
 
I know a lot more than you think Tara, a whole lot more.
Anyway I have 2 x simple questions - How many thousands of orgasms have you faked in your long & illustrious "career" as a "working lady" in order to please a customer/punter?
And what is a fake orgasm if it is not an illusion?
I have never faked an orgasm. If they don't get me there, they don't get me there. I am there for them.
As i said. Everyone has there own assumptions. And will never know.
 
I have never faked an orgasm. If they don't get me there, they don't get me there. I am there for them.
As i said. Everyone has there own assumptions. And will never know.
Never ever not even once faked a single orgasm Tara?? 😊
 
Wish her experiences with human interaction were much kinder to her.
That's the thing in her article it didn't matter if the customers where kind or not to her she felt the same way regardless. You could be prince charming and still she'll treat you like the scum of the earth. Glad I never met such a women.
 
It says Tanja's a lecturer. Doesnt say she has a man or family. She probably hasnt. Some educated persons are arrogant , stuck up and see themselves above everyone.

She doesnt write why she had to do it.

I think her time of isolation and mental home institution will come.

She might even end up unemployed and being a WL again.

As much as is entertaing its too mentally poor as to why she did it and follows mentally poor logic.

Sometimes women think us men are nuts, its an example why people are alone .

A man couldnt take her ways for years or decades.
 
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