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I've just spent 2 hours with a friend who's doing it tough sort of. And to be honest, I had heaps of positive things to say but can also say this after thinking about so many other friends at different workplaces.
I think the days when someone stayed at a company for 10 years let alone a lifetime are well and truly over.
This friend of mine, in the last 9 years, has spent an average of 1 and a half to two years at different workplaces - and to be honest, it's because most workplaces she's been to has had an arsehole for a boss, a lousy work environment or colleagues who are arseholes and get away with it. I feel sorry for her. She's 53 and has a good 10 years of working life left in her and I wish I could tell her there are still great workplaces left.
Given the cross section of life on this board, how many people here - not working for themselves, but under someone else have found this - the corporate bullshit of "we're a team" etc is just that - bullshit. And if you can stay at a job for 2 years before the workplace politics gets to you - you're already VERY lucky.
I did say something which I thought was good - that if it was only her, then maybe the problem was her's. But we analyzed all the places she'd worked at and I asked her how many people are still left there after she left when she's popped by or kept in touch and the answer with the exception of 1, was none - their entire staff had turned over and left.
What say you and the workplace and leaving?
I think the days when someone stayed at a company for 10 years let alone a lifetime are well and truly over.
This friend of mine, in the last 9 years, has spent an average of 1 and a half to two years at different workplaces - and to be honest, it's because most workplaces she's been to has had an arsehole for a boss, a lousy work environment or colleagues who are arseholes and get away with it. I feel sorry for her. She's 53 and has a good 10 years of working life left in her and I wish I could tell her there are still great workplaces left.
Given the cross section of life on this board, how many people here - not working for themselves, but under someone else have found this - the corporate bullshit of "we're a team" etc is just that - bullshit. And if you can stay at a job for 2 years before the workplace politics gets to you - you're already VERY lucky.
I did say something which I thought was good - that if it was only her, then maybe the problem was her's. But we analyzed all the places she'd worked at and I asked her how many people are still left there after she left when she's popped by or kept in touch and the answer with the exception of 1, was none - their entire staff had turned over and left.
What say you and the workplace and leaving?