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Is seeing an escort cheating?

Melody

Bronze Member
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Probably but most men can live with it, women on the other hand can think it’s a cardinal sin.

mine of my favourite saying is offence is taken it given, women take masssivve offence and it usually results in the end of the relationship.

men can brush it off
Can a man brush off the fact that they’ve gone to see an escort and therefore don’t think it’s a big deal?
Or, can they brush off the fact that their Mrs has gone? 🤔
Do the tables turn when it’s the Mrs visiting an escort?
 

Lacie4U

Diamond Member
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Can a man brush off the fact that they’ve gone to see an escort and therefore don’t think it’s a big deal?
Or, can they brush off the fact that their Mrs has gone? 🤔
Do the tables turn when it’s the Mrs visiting an escort?
They shouldn’t turn if it doesn’t bother the man that he engages in the services of an escort , then how could it bother him if his partner does the same 🤔. Perhaps this is an open relationship so how is it cheating if there is full transparency. Every relationship is different and not everything is crystal clear. 🧐🙃
 
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SilverSurfer44

It can be cheating in a sense :

The woman working isn't satisfied with the guys performance. She takes the money and feels cheated.

The man attending WL service feels cheated the sex services have been poor and overpaid, not treated well. Poorly treated can be similar to cheated.

He might even want money back
He doesn't realise the WL could be fuming about poor man ways of election dysfunction. These might be one off times


People have own opinions. I think men wanna pay and women don't suggests things like eg Men value sex, women don't really.
 
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Uncle Bobby

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Can a man brush off the fact that they’ve gone to see an escort and therefore don’t think it’s a big deal?
Or, can they brush off the fact that their Mrs has gone? 🤔
Do the tables turn when it’s the Mrs visiting an escort?

i think the majority of men would react just like a female partner should they find out their wife or Gf had gone to a make hooker.

but I would accept it
 

Paco

Gold Member
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It can be cheating in a sense :

The woman working isn't satisfied with the guys performance. She takes the money and feels cheated.

The man attending WL service feels cheated the sex services have been poor and overpaid, not treated well. Poorly treated can be similar to cheated.

He might even want money back
He doesn't realise the WL could be fuming about poor man ways of election dysfunction. These might be one off times
Naaah, woman working is being well paid to provide a service. First priority is value for money service. Now to do that, I admit the client should at least clean , polite , emotionally invested, but performance should not be a factor. That may be why they are there. If the wl is not satisfied that should not be a concern either; the client is the one paying !
 

Numpty

Illegitimi non carborundum
Legend Member
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Needs must as the devil drives.

if you need your actions to be sanctified. Then head to confession if that’s your thing. Sex is a simple thing about willing consenting participation.

that’s it & that’s all.

I’m not interested in anything else.
 

Lacie4U

Diamond Member
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It can be cheating in a sense :

The woman working isn't satisfied with the guys performance. She takes the money and feels cheated.

The man attending WL service feels cheated the sex services have been poor and overpaid, not treated well. Poorly treated can be similar to cheated.

He might even want money back
He doesn't realise the WL could be fuming about poor man ways of election dysfunction. These might be one off times


People have own opinions. I think men wanna pay and women don't suggests things like eg Men value sex, women don't really.
That is a very sweeping statement about women “ not valuing sex” In relation to a paid service/escort its business . That does not mean there is no value. Everything is about connection if it’s not agreeable or satisfying don’t go back. Lessons in
Life and valuing yourself and how you spend your money .
 

Lacie4U

Diamond Member
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Naaah, woman working is being well paid to provide a service. First priority is value for money service. Now to do that, I admit the client should at least clean , polite , emotionally invested, but performance should not be a factor. That may be why they are there. If the wl is not satisfied that should not be a concern either; the client is the one paying !
Completely agree
 

Lacie4U

Diamond Member
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Thanks Lacie4U ...I did worry it might seem a bit ungrateful or disrespectful, definately not intended to be!
No I understand you . It’s a mutual thing respect , cleanliness and a business arrangement. A WL should or will be compassionate to whatever the reason their client is visiting . These are my values and opinions though . How I conduct myself in life. Compassion and Empathy towards others always.
 

Paco

Gold Member
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No I understand you . It’s a mutual thing respect , cleanliness and a business arrangement. A WL should or will be compassionate to whatever the reason their client is visiting . These are my values and opinions though . How I conduct myself in life. Compassion and Empathy towards others always.
😊 💛 🤩
 

adamvi

Bronze Member
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Hi all,

I am curious to see people views if seeing an escort is counted as cheating?
As it is a transaction with no emotional connection I would lean to now, but really I think it would still count as cheating...
It’s like the old saying…. If you have to ask…
 

Mark_50

Gold Member
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Really do not understand how this is even a topic here??

Just another male that is a relationship wanting other people to blow smoke up his ass and make him feel better for cheating!
It is pretty bloody simple one would think?
If you are in a relationship then keep sexual activities between the two of you
If you are in a sexless marriage/relationship then get the fuck out and do things that bring happiness and joy into your life
If you want to keep your partner and fuck around on the side, then grow some balls and discuss the matter with your partner and both come to an agreement of what the rules are you BOTH agree on

Another pretty easy rule to work by is asking yourself how would you fee if you found your partner was dong the same thing
Personally, I would end anything with a "partner" that was playing around behind my back, so I would not expect a partner to treat me differently.
How ever I have had partners where we have both discussed dong things with other people and what can and can't be done

Unfortunately most people want their "Cake"
And they want to eat all the other "cakes" while having a faithful, obedient partner sat waiting for them!
 

CDSC

Gold Member
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Of course it is .. not for me though I am thoroughly single .. lol I feel guilty trying different WL after 24 years of being good .. why not.
 
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SmilyECoyote

It can be cheating in a sense :

The woman working isn't satisfied with the guys performance. She takes the money and feels cheated.

The man attending WL service feels cheated the sex services have been poor and overpaid, not treated well. Poorly treated can be similar to cheated.

He might even want money back
He doesn't realise the WL could be fuming about poor man ways of election dysfunction. These might be one off times


People have own opinions. I think men wanna pay and women don't suggests things like eg Men value sex, women don't really.
I was with a WL last year at 200 for 30 min and at the end she gave me 50 back and said she had things on her mind and apolgised for not being 100%. I took the money and gave her return visits and she was fantastic. Obviously can't give out a name otherwise they'd be a run on her.
 
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SilverSurfer44

Some evasive responses. Others straight shooting....
 
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RandiiSavage Deleted

It is....takes a rare lady to be in a truly open relationship
 
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