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Ahoy Rochelle, what can I say, yes I am a grumpy Old Pirate, but hey, that is life. Now where did I put my Rum Glass? and someone feed My Parrot, the evil Beast will not stop nagging Meeee, I give thanks for RUM and bird seed.
mmmmmmmm HP...........takes one to know one.........?
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Al Swearengen
That parrot of yours must be a real distraction for you, Pirate, when your trying to drop your anchor!
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Ahoy Bro AL, what can I say, that evil sqawking beast, demands attention Hmmmm but they make great pets, as long as you feed them LOL
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Al Swearengen
I suppose a parrot beats choking a chicken!
Dallas
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It's an interesting point Al. I've never had problems with sexual performance but when my relationship ended and found I was losing my home as well, I discovered that the high amount of stress and anxiety made me have trouble finishing. No erection issues but just trying to get into the right mindset to get over the line, like it's blocked. Then add to that reduced sensitivity from condoms ( not that I'd ever consider not using one outside of a relationship ) and short w/l visits with a timer, then lack of intimacy of any kind in between visits which sends my anxiety through the roof, long gaps between bookings, the stress from hours of travel just to get to see a w/l then suddenly having to perform for an hour or two and I'm really going to struggle to have a complete and fulfilling experience.
So is it totally in my head, yes for sure! My cure is relaxed passionate sex on a regular basis but that's the holy grail that I've been striving to achieve my whole life. I think in your case Al it sounds similar, just the reasons for the stress and distraction are different.
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Ahoy;- We need to Promote Dallas, as our Offical Male Sex Therapist
Anyway on a different note, here a website, I have post it before only to get laughed at by everyone, but here it is again. This site is set up so you can place your questions or ask for information and them they will get back to you. Areas of interest, Depression, stress etc
http://www.mantherapy.org.au/
Anyway on a different note, here a website, I have post it before only to get laughed at by everyone, but here it is again. This site is set up so you can place your questions or ask for information and them they will get back to you. Areas of interest, Depression, stress etc
http://www.mantherapy.org.au/
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colzilla
Better turn off the listening gene for a good time these days.
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Speaking of injuries, has anyone else received a bit too much teeth from over enthusiasm before?
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colzilla
Had a BJ that was so vigorous that my old todger had a big bruise on it for the next week... $50 well spent though.
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Sounds like a private dance lol.
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That is a all to common problem for me Yoda and a painful beast to overcome
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Wow.....You must have a Thor hammer instead of just a humble Light Sabre then lol.
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Lol......chain mail. mIght do the trick then.Not with a w/l Yoda.
If it's an issue I'd recommend Kevlar Condoms - the exact opposite of naked ones and recommended by special forces who have had problems due to their... well special forces
Their slogan is "sex is all in the mind, it has to be wearing these"
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colzilla
Nope! No private dance Y was a cute blonde private girl down Freo way.
Had to tell the kids to shut up every so often.
Had to tell the kids to shut up every so often.
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Not with a w/l Yoda.
If it's an issue I'd recommend Kevlar Condoms - the exact opposite of naked ones and recommended by special forces who have had problems due to their... well special forces
Their slogan is "sex is all in the mind, it has to be wearing these"
Protection for when she got all the force and you don't. Safety is really no.1. Kevlar on? Check. Warp speed, definitely.
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Maybe Thor Hammer lite
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Make sure they are not made in China.
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You can get the made in China ones at Bunnings.
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Lol! ;-)
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Thanks for thsat Dallas. I'm thinking thats exactly what it is: it really is all in my head. Just need to find the right woman to make me forget about it. Once that happens it will be all ok.
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colzilla
Can't you just get her off instead. Making them blow is way more fun.
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I am with you H2.
I think some punters have to be more realistic about the encounter with a w/l. We don't replace a GF or a wife....we do the best we can to make the time we have most enjoyable for both parties.......no strings attached or expected.......nothing more and nothing less.
As yiu said, Dallas......it is in your and other punters' head what should happen and all the expectancy causes stress and pressure for all involved........just relax
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I am with you H2.
I think some punters have to be more realistic about the encounter with a w/l. We don't replace a GF or a wife....we do the best we can to make the time we have most enjoyable for both parties.......no strings attached or expected.......nothing more and nothing less.
As yiu said, Dallas......it is in your and other punters' head what should happen and all the expectancy causes stress and pressure for all involved........just relax
I wish every WL had such ethics. I know of ones that use the lowest tactics to get into a guys head just to generate repeat business. Even the use of very spiritual tricks like SOUL GAZING. SOme may disagree...but to mess with a guys heart to that extent just for repeat business is a rather inconsiderate tactic.
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colzilla
Plenty w/l do that Master Yoda... Every punter knows that one