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I'm in love with an escort. I really love her as a person, not only as a body to "buy". How do I establish a relationship with her? How do I court her

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Yeah you took the punt and your still friends. So that’s a bonus, yes I have been in similar situations. Though never ended up in a relationship but could of. We actually stopped seeing each other all together. So I still wonder how she is doing in life. She was a stunner from Barcelona, she wanted a relationship and from what I heard, she got in one. She was treated not nice by her last guy, so I thought she would of learnt to stay away from guys who aren’t nice. Interesting how life goes at times.
 

Paddy19

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This is interesting, I am in a situation similar to this although not exactly. I have been seeing this woman for about 1 year now, after a while of interacting her through a conventional booking number and ad she reached out to me and provided me with an alternate set of contact details which are of "her real world". since then we have been discussing a number of things about ourselves and our lives, she has requested that she wants help transitioning into other kinds of work, a field which I had mentioned I have expertise in. We still see each regularly as usual but recently it came to the point we spent time together but without me paying, she has also stated that she "wasn't working today" To be honest I am not overly investing myself into this situation and continue to play it cautious. I don't normally believe its logical to dive into anything whether it be a transactional relationship or a non-transactional conventional relationship. the biggest thing I can learn is that life is Grey and uncertain and it always bodes well to treat things with caution before there are Clear as day signals to dive into anything.
 

johnmatilda

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This is interesting, I am in a situation similar to this although not exactly. I have been seeing this woman for about 1 year now, after a while of interacting her through a conventional booking number and ad she reached out to me and provided me with an alternate set of contact details which are of "her real world". since then we have been discussing a number of things about ourselves and our lives, she has requested that she wants help transitioning into other kinds of work, a field which I had mentioned I have expertise in. We still see each regularly as usual but recently it came to the point we spent time together but without me paying, she has also stated that she "wasn't working today" To be honest I am not overly investing myself into this situation and continue to play it cautious. I don't normally believe its logical to dive into anything whether it be a transactional relationship or a non-transactional conventional relationship. the biggest thing I can learn is that life is Grey and uncertain and it always bodes well to treat things with caution before there are Clear as day signals to dive into anything.
My crystal ball asked me to tell you that she will be asking to borrow some money in the not too distant future. Let us know if this turns out to be true!
 

Paddy19

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My crystal ball asked me to tell you that she will be asking to borrow some money in the not too distant future. Let us know if this turns out to be true!
Agreed. It's satisfying for now but I think it's important to know whenever it's time to cut people out of your life. This is not exclusive to these kind of transactional relationships. I've had friends who have crossed the line and screwed me over and they did not deserve my forgiveness either.
 

Paddy19

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My crystal ball asked me to tell you that she will be asking to borrow some money in the not too distant future. Let us know if this turns out to be true!
looks like things have been going steady for over a year now and it's all good. She went away to her home country for a while and thought she would disappear, but she messaged me from her hometown and bought me some amazing and very special 🎁. We have double downed on her career and I have offered some higher Level intellectual business advise and support which she has been very responsive too. I think some punters realise that some women just want to build a better life for themselves and that's all it takes. Albeit it took a decent amount of attention and effort.
 
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