Hustling!!!!
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Thatguy
I'd rather the girl come talk to me as I'm not comfortable in that kind of situation, which is why I tend to know who I'm going to see... So I can avoid the meet n greet part... Especially in a lounge situation...
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Farm Boy
Now there Sunny Jim get your ass down to Dahlia's room and be quick about it
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Lilly Sweetheart
A Goddess competes for no ones attention! **cracks whip!**
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Tyrel
In club exotica, it is the other way around, I get hustled by almost every dancers for a lap dance.
In Langtrees I get ignored, unless the receptionist tells the girls to talk to me. But, sometimes I get
approached by friendly girls, like Pixie and Delta.
In Langtrees I get ignored, unless the receptionist tells the girls to talk to me. But, sometimes I get
approached by friendly girls, like Pixie and Delta.
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Al Swearengen
Same here. I've found that I need to make an appointment with the lady I'm interested in. Otherwise, they dont come near me!
Ahoy, How do you think the Girls make there money?????;- off course the girls Arrrrr going to be very pushiiiiiiiie at a strip club, no matter where you are the girls hustle for there money at a club.
As far as meet and greets, they really never bother meee if I get a lot attention then great, If I see someone interesting;- I go and hustle them and find out what there commitments are for the night, then I will know how long I will be hanging around. After all I am a Pirate.
Cheers and Pass the Rum
As far as meet and greets, they really never bother meee if I get a lot attention then great, If I see someone interesting;- I go and hustle them and find out what there commitments are for the night, then I will know how long I will be hanging around. After all I am a Pirate.
Cheers and Pass the Rum
Langtrees VIP Perth 3
Diamond Member
What an interesting conversation. Hustling is a pretty ambiguous word.
I try to look at the lounge situation from a mans point of view or should I say what I think it is. Guys don't come in here to be hustled they come in to be made to feel special for the time they are here.
Being attentive and flirty breaks the awkwardness of the situation and relaxes the clients. A week handshake, name and serial number (lol) does nothing but make it even more difficult for the client.
I think there are two types of clients. The one that wants to bang the kind of woman he visually dreams about and the one that is making a connection. The second type of client is the one that will return for that experience again.
So to hustle or to flirt?
I try to look at the lounge situation from a mans point of view or should I say what I think it is. Guys don't come in here to be hustled they come in to be made to feel special for the time they are here.
Being attentive and flirty breaks the awkwardness of the situation and relaxes the clients. A week handshake, name and serial number (lol) does nothing but make it even more difficult for the client.
I think there are two types of clients. The one that wants to bang the kind of woman he visually dreams about and the one that is making a connection. The second type of client is the one that will return for that experience again.
So to hustle or to flirt?
Dallas
Legend Member
I think that is spot on!
Hustling and showing good lounge manners are two different things. Because we get the client to pay at the front, The Ladies have slipped in their lounge manners and some are being selective with who they will talk to.
I have always found the clients are shyer than the ladies and if you show real interest they are very responsive. If we have a guest that doesn't tickle your fancy, you can still show good hostessing skills and make them feel welcome and appreciated.
I have always found the clients are shyer than the ladies and if you show real interest they are very responsive. If we have a guest that doesn't tickle your fancy, you can still show good hostessing skills and make them feel welcome and appreciated.
svengali
Foundation Member
Right on the money Mary-Anne. It is a bit daunting for a lone man to approach a group of ladies and try to "cut out" the one he is interested in. That is why when I turn up I have usually made a booking with a particular lady in advance. Still, it is nice when other ladies approach me and ask if I want a drink and generally extend a welcome.
One of the reasons I stopped going to Club 316 years ago was the way their ladies behaved in the lounge. They have a big T.V. and the girls would usually be arranged in a semicircle watching it. Try breaking into that knitting circle - not a chance and I usually felt like an intruder with only the receptionist trying to engage my interest.
In some ways the "intro" setup as per City West or Casey's is easier on the nerves.
One of the reasons I stopped going to Club 316 years ago was the way their ladies behaved in the lounge. They have a big T.V. and the girls would usually be arranged in a semicircle watching it. Try breaking into that knitting circle - not a chance and I usually felt like an intruder with only the receptionist trying to engage my interest.
In some ways the "intro" setup as per City West or Casey's is easier on the nerves.
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Joopdoderen
i find it a bit daunting as well. I do appreciate the attempt to feel welcome and the conversation etc, all positive. Have visited LT once, pre-booked Bailey (now long gone) had to wait for half an hour in the lounge by myself, had a lot of nice ladies giving me a warm welcome, but it just didn't fell good to 'let them down'. One of my personal reasons why I prefered going to privates instead... but for now I paused punting.
Dallas
Legend Member
Interesting, I feel really uncomfortable about picking one girl out of a group. Therefore, I find the best system is to pre-book then actually arrive early just to sit in the lounge for an hour or so. This way I get to meet all the ladies but I don't feel I'm letting them down as I tell them first up that I'm waiting for someone else for a booking. Then if there aren't any other customers about they'll stay and talk and this way I get to work out who I get along with and would like to book next time as well as put a name to a face. Not saying this would work for everyone but I've only had really positive experiences this way 
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Farm Boy
?Why is it called THE LOUNGE ? Caching Pen is more the go
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Farm Boy
And I completely missed it, Internet connection slowed and the new dog bit through speaker cord .
Dallas
Legend Member
Yes I'm only 12 and I'm a smart a** but when I grow up I wanna own a farm like in the song
I'll send H2 around to sing it to you, he's probably memorised the words by now, actually could be a hit singing it to the ladies during a visit ... actually the hit would probably come FROM the ladies
I think being flirty, friendly and nice is definitely something that is needed in a lounge environment. I try to say hello to everyone...sometimes that's not always possible, but I do my best, and occasionally you get the "I'm so not interested in you, I don't even want to look at you and say hello vibe" from a client/punter that I just think I'll let him view the girls. If no one at all approaches then I'll happily go over and chat, offer a drink, and ask if there's anyone that takes your fancy and bring the girl over to be introduced. Maybe next time, I'll be the one chosen. I also find that personality makes a HUGE difference. In fact being sparkly and interested has gotten me far more clients recently than just my looks alone. I know I have a very pretty face, but I am a curvy girl (with a very nice shape I might add!) and that's not to everyone's taste, which is totally cool...that's why there are so many girls here, there's someone for everyone...but being open and sometimes cheeky has gotten me picked over the punters first choice simply because he liked my personality...so far none have been disappointed, and in those cases I always ask.
I also make sure to say hello to regular clients that I know wont choose me, but being friendly doesn't cost me anything..and you just never know!
But there is a difference between doing the above, and going up to a client and basically stopping him from meeting any other girls by hogging his time and view. To me this is hustling. I don't like it, but then I don't have to. Every girl will work her own way. Some do so as part of a team, others don't. At the end of the day, we're all here for ourselves. If that's how you choose to work, so be it. If it gets you work then it gets you work....it's still the clients choice to see you in the room either way...he always has the right to say no, as do we.
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Topaz
I also make sure to say hello to regular clients that I know wont choose me, but being friendly doesn't cost me anything..and you just never know!
But there is a difference between doing the above, and going up to a client and basically stopping him from meeting any other girls by hogging his time and view. To me this is hustling. I don't like it, but then I don't have to. Every girl will work her own way. Some do so as part of a team, others don't. At the end of the day, we're all here for ourselves. If that's how you choose to work, so be it. If it gets you work then it gets you work....it's still the clients choice to see you in the room either way...he always has the right to say no, as do we.
xoxo
Topaz
honestman
Gold Member
To me; coming from a seemingly non-socialite yet taking his pride with what he does - being approached is better than to receive nothing at all. My very first experience of good flirty 'initiation' was back at Esquire's (though I'm still rather somewhat feeling alienated there by the madam's) mid last year by Dakota (American blonde W/L, curvy & bubbly). A simple bright glowing set of expression: "Hey look at you...
All dressed in black." as she held my hand ever so casually; as if we were friends. Now fast forward that to Langtrees @ 25th of May 2013 - I never forget the moment when I felt alienated at times on the 'initation/entry' moment before I settled an event with Chloe. Even though the event with her was still a vivid memory; SO DOES the vivid memory beforehand of seeing a 5'7 mysterious brunette, in her white cocktail dress; casually turning her back away as I said hello. Ignoring me as she sat in the corner. I remembered that moment as I stood out like a complete retard.
My 'initiation policy'
I am going to say this perhaps once...but back ever since I've stepped into Langtrees for the second time (whom I was greeted by Dylan* & Jade Doll that day) - I have made myself an initiation policy below:
1. If offered as an open question of offer by someone else (eg. "well we have a stunning lady there in the corner, would you like to talk to her?") - and if I noticed that lady DID NOT made an eye contact, nor greeting me BEFOREHAND or SEEMINGLY overly pre-occupied there in the corner of the lounge / no matter if she is a perfect fantasy clone of Samantha Saint or Destiny Dixon - I will never approach nor making a booking with her. Simple as that.
Because why? From that point of question I would already have taken numerous cues or simply behaviours as negative signs below:
1. She looks occupied, she took her phone out and started texting
2. She looks bored, so she used the spare iMacs.
3. She didn't greeted or even giving a deliberate 'unaware' expression to someone new at the back entry or just simply to someone whom she haven't met before.
4. She is simply just sitting in the corner, so that assumes that she is seemingly not 'currently' looking for clients. This I can respect especially if she appeared to look serious or within an ongoing conversation with a friend
...and this, eventually leads us to #5 - perhaps the client (or myself in that case) wasn't attractive or an ideal enough client after all in the initiation phase.
I believe I knew the name of the lady in the corner in question, but of course out of my sincere interest in maintaining her identity I would not give her name out in this thread..
It is all about initiative. It is not and should not be difficult nor is it socially threatening. It is not difficult to give someone an introductory compliment; especially if he has taken a gruelling amount of effort in his appearance and mindset to at least appear at the very first onset out of the ordinary.
More importantly is raising awareness: just because you don't see much clients all dressed in black doesn't mean he is a pimp. Maybe that's ALL he could afford to look at his sharpest? I actually was offended once years ago on my very first curiosity visit to Esquire.
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* PS. It doesn't matter if you are ultimately the not type of whom the client's after on the floor at the end of day/night, as I believe many would appreciate a simple casual blissful conversation. As certainly I have had an absolute blast of conversing
with Dylan, Pixie, Anastacia over simply one thing and one thing only - my social presence is at least recognised and looked after right in the very beginning.
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Thatguy
Could be that us guys are just intimidated by really good lookin women lol..
I know I'd like to meet jade doll but in her pics she looks awesome and I know I would personally feel quite anxious to meet her.. Hence I've never been to langtrees to meet her... Let alone walk up to her at random in the lounge and try a 'cold start' type of meeting hehe...
Regarding the looks department.. I am conscious of my looks (well lack off) and know the 'I don't want to say hi or have you book me' vibe well....
I know I'd like to meet jade doll but in her pics she looks awesome and I know I would personally feel quite anxious to meet her.. Hence I've never been to langtrees to meet her... Let alone walk up to her at random in the lounge and try a 'cold start' type of meeting hehe...
Regarding the looks department.. I am conscious of my looks (well lack off) and know the 'I don't want to say hi or have you book me' vibe well....
Dallas
Legend Member
If you really want to meet Jade you should, if you think her pics look awesome, you should see her in person, she's as beautiful as she is warm and friendly and her smile will just knock you over! I can thoroughly recommend just going to the lounge one day when she's on, just to meet her, she's a very laid back and casual girl, very much the girl next door type, she'll put you at ease immediately with her relaxed manner and you'll wonder why you hadn't gone down there to meet her sooner!
After a very long time in hospitality it is nearly in my blood to approach clients and at least make them welcome (would you like a drink, explain how it works if it is his first time, introduce him to another lady if he is too shy to approach her etc.) I usually can sense if a client finds me interesting or if I am just a 'pain'. Depending on the clients reaction I either sit down and chat or move on and give the client the space to talk to another girl.
I am with you Viv.........couldn't have worded it better.
But even I do run out of steam sometimes and sitting quietly in a corner for 20 min might be interpreted in the wrong way........it is not supposed to be hostile......I think it is just more of a catching your breath and get ready for the next round. I am sure a lot of girls feel the same.
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I am with you Viv.........couldn't have worded it better.
But even I do run out of steam sometimes and sitting quietly in a corner for 20 min might be interpreted in the wrong way........it is not supposed to be hostile......I think it is just more of a catching your breath and get ready for the next round. I am sure a lot of girls feel the same.
R.xxxxxx
Dallas
Legend Member
Well I've not had the pleasure of meeting you yet Rochelle, but if I ever see you in the lounge on your own and vice versa, I'll race you to see who greets the other first!.... maybe we could hustle each other
Happy2
Legend Member
Many man would go to LT's or similar because they want some attention Even if its just recognition Why go and pay for rejection you can get that far cheaper in a bar etc
As for girls turning away Why? Surely its their livelihood we are talking here not a get together with her friends No matter how friendly the lounge enviroment is It is a place of work first
As for girls turning away Why? Surely its their livelihood we are talking here not a get together with her friends No matter how friendly the lounge enviroment is It is a place of work first
Happy2
Legend Member
Well I've not had the pleasure of meeting you yet Rochelle, but if I ever see you in the lounge on your own and vice versa, I'll race you to see who greets the other first!.... maybe we could hustle each other
I know Rochelle would not be But I guess your old enough to know all the moves to that old disco hit Aren't you Dallas ?
You will have to show or fave young lady your hustle moves